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06-20-2007, 01:12 PM
no one can tell when "death" is coming.... only God knows that...... and pls... try not to kill your self....
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Chaitealatte
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06-20-2007, 02:35 PM
- I'm lucky not to have anyone too close to me die recently - only my Grandfather eight years ago. But he had a good, lovely and fascinating life, and taught me how to blow raspberries. C:
My Grandmother didn't expect to live much longer... but my Dad, her son, reckons having all us children around gives her reason to go on. Apparently she didn't expect she'd ever be able to see me come round to her house on my own after school. She's doing really well! : D
I used to get really scared of my parents dying when I was about three and onwards. I'd occasionally burst into tears before bed and not sleep, tell my parents to swear not to die.
My family's Christian - I'm baptised - but we've never really had anything to do with organised religion, and I sure as Hell don't believe in Hell or Heaven (xD; Awful pun. shush! I'm agnostic leaning towards atheist, but that's another conversation; my understanding is constantly developing) nor really care as to what happens after life. Whether our consciousness - perhaps just a quirk of life - just stops of whatever.
So I don't care about my own death... I'm scared about people dying, and the pain it might cause me to get there.
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Rainbow.
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06-26-2007, 07:40 PM
- Death is hard for everyone involved, with the exception being the person who died, of course.
In January, two girls I knew died in a car crash. It was hard, because I was in a play with one of them and knew her fairly well. I went to her funeral and couldn't stop crying. There were so many people there, it was so touching. Her little brother is in my grade, and I see him around school every so often.
But this just this calender year, four students from my school have died. Three died in car crashes, and one was shot in a drive-by shooting. She was an innocent bystander, too. The first two died within a week of each other. It was terrible, and every so often I'll still see someone wearing a memorial shirt for one of those who died.
In the back of the yearbook for this school year, each student has a memorial page. Looking over them and seeing Stella's[Stella was the girl I knew...], I almost started crying all over again. I can still remember how I found out that she'd died. It was terrible. ]]:
As far as my views of the afterlife are concerned, I'm an atheist. As far as my beliefs are concerned, after you die, you're dead. You rot, or your ashes blow away, or whatever. But I don't believe in souls or afterlife or anything like that. > >
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Flying Wings
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06-26-2007, 08:35 PM
That's horrible! D:
I want to die silently. No pain, just relaxation fall into my body while my sould slips away and flies to above. n___n
Just a month ago, my grandma died. I loved her so much, she taught me Chinese when I was 10. She had Cancer and it tears me apart. My other grandma is in a coma..
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Chi
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06-29-2007, 08:26 PM
First off, man... how rotten can people be to blame a baby for a mother's death? If anything she gave her all just to get you here, and they should have respected that.
I'm sorry to hear of your father's recent passing as well. You seem to sound okay about it, but I hope you ARE okay either way.
As for my opinion on death... for me, it depends on how closely linked I am with the person to judge my reaction. I don't really feel all that comfortable elaborating on what I believe or whatever on the subject.
How would I like to die? I'd like to die quietly and without a fuss. I'd prefer it in my sleep, as I'm rather a sissy when it comes to pain. Ideally though, I'd like to die at a young enough age that I wouldn't be alone in my later years, if that makes sense. n_n;
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Spufflez
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06-29-2007, 10:54 PM
Sorry about that, it's horrible. I can't believe someone would blame the child for killing its mother. If they can't accept you, then it's better that you don't bother with them.
I hate death. I really felt depressed after my grandparents died, my grandmother was really close to me so I was devastated. It's been two years and I still cry thinking about the good old days. But I know that the first step towards moving forward in your life is acceptance. She lived to be 82, a good ripe old age. I feel awfully sorry about this one girl who lost her dad. She did some dumb things this year (possibly losing her virginity) but I understand her pain and I hope she won't kill herself. I always wished people could live forever, but that would cause so much over population.
Death stinks, it's a part of life that we all dread
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Teeth
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08-07-2007, 07:01 PM
ouch. well me and my sister almost died..a few times, actually. ^^
'cause you see , my sister has a bit of paranoia phitzofrenia (minor) and there have been times where shes tried to kill herself thinking she was someone else , along with me. :/
If i were to die, i'd want to die from food poisoning during class o.o
don't ask why it just seems awesome.
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Wisty
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09-09-2007, 05:45 AM
No one close to me has died. Except for my pet rabbit. Out of my whole family, the ones who I constantly reaffirm my love and affection for were my pet rabbits. xD;;; No, sadly, I don't feel close to my family. They're people I live with and are familiar with... we take care of each other. But. I don't know if I LOVE them. I love my mom, I'm 99% sure. My brother, not at all. My dad...? I would be sad. But maybe just because I pity him and am sorry that he did not get his dream-family, only us. And I'd be guilty for not trying harder to be his dream-daughter.
I hope I loved my bunnies. I spent the most time on them, anyway, and I cried when my girl died. I tend to her little grave, too.
I think about death a lot. Well, not death, but the act of dying, maybe. Okay, both, actually.
I want to die for something I believe in. I don't want to die scared or in pain. If I have injuries, I want to be so focused and be filled with such a sense of purpose that the pain doesn't matter, and I can die in relative peace of mind. If I don't go out in a shot of glory like that, well... I just don't want a painful death, really. And especially not at the hands of another human being. A slow decline of health would be fine until I just pass away quietly after having enough time to prepare my business. I don't want to be panicked as I die.
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09-09-2007, 10:08 PM
No one I was really close to died.
My Grandpa died when I was 8, but he had cancer and was way better off dead than suffering. He wanted to die, I heard him say it.
I got yelled at for saying "We're gonna go dump Grandpa!" when we went to dump his ashes in the ocean.
My (Great) Aunt Ev died when I was 6ish, but I hated her. She always used to make fun of me, and she drank a lot. Always used to hit me with her cane, too.
Saddest death of all was my rat...he died when my friend was over and I cried for like 2 days.
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`Mel
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09-10-2007, 08:38 PM
My uncle just died Monday August 27th the same day I registered to be a senior.
Pretty much as SOON as he died nothing but drama came up in there family. I guess a lot of shit had been going on with his wife even though he divorced her once then remarried.
Well anyways it first started when his mother *my grandma* came into town just to visit him && his wife wouldn't let her say at the house for a few days && gave her times when she could come over.
HIS OWN MOTHER! He was dying from Lung cancer && was at that time, going threw chemo to try && slow it down, since when they found it the cancer was already in it's progressed stages of growth. The wife would even give times when his mother could visit him. Now, you can imagine how pissed everyone was && it got worse. While my uncle was living his last few days he wasn't doing too good. He would eat, he couldn't walk, && was having hard times breathing on his own. Well from what I know he was calling for his mom && his wife wouldn't let her come over or even call to say she could come over to see her son.
Well, on Monday the 27th someone else called us to say that he past away sometime around I think 8pm or so, it was pretty late.
But anyways, they Cremated him the following day && didn't even have a true funeral for him. They had a "House Party" I guess they called it. No one KNOW what the hell it was..
Well the moral of story is that dead usually cause Drama in my families && I hate seeing it 0____< I think I went out side the actual discussion XD Sorry.
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Quaint Sheep
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09-10-2007, 08:50 PM
My cousin beat his baby to death last week.... He said it was crying too much, and it wouldn't stop crying [it was hungry], so he promptly beat it to death. My aunt took it pretty hard, but they got him in jail, and his girlfriend hopes he rots in jail. The baby was like 3 weeks old.
Other than that my family is pretty dandy, and I'm very sorry about your losses... I'm not sure how I'd manage without my parents.
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09-19-2007, 08:22 PM
Seriously? I don't see any reason I have to die.
I mean, why does a person die? Does anyone ever just die because they're too old? I don't think so. There's a cause, and if I can eliminate each of those causes, I don't see any reason I have to die.
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Love_Miku
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09-26-2007, 05:51 AM
I have accepted death. I used to fear it. I used to stay up at night scared that i wouldn't wake up the next moring. I had feared it for a long time. Now that i think about it it would be a new adventure when i die. I am going to a funeral tomorrow. My grandmother died yesturday. I don't like going to funerals. Everyone cries and i cannot cry. So it makes me feel bad.
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09-27-2007, 08:16 PM
Only one person that i consider family died a few years back because he took to many pills.
He was like an uncle to me but i was only so young i didn't know what happened.
But other then that no one in my family died.
My father has/had cancer but we as my family is cheering him on to recover.
I've seen deaths before like my animals but never a human death
(unless on tv)
And i hope no one dies anytime soon.
I'm also very emotional and even reading people post about out their family dieing makes me sad and feel like crying
Dx
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woopdidoodoo
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10-02-2007, 01:56 PM
Death is always hard, I always cried when my pets died and still do sometimes but I never did if anyone human died. I don't know why, maybe I wasn't close enough to them or something. Everybody experiences death very differently and some find it scary whilst others find it comforting in a way, just talking about it helps though I think and dealing with it comes easier.
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