Alright, this is probably stupid of me to put this here, but yeah i needed to get it off my chest so i can breath good.

I like this guy who is my friend, ive liked him for awhile, but the only problem is i dont know how he feels about me, We flirt this way and that, well it seems like flirting, but anyways, usually when i like i guy i get really shy and get butterflies in my stomach, tell my friends that i like them tell them to keep it a secret which thank god they do, but usually i get guilt in me as i talk to them and i end up telling them, but i have gotten this feeling with this one aswell, but i havet told him yet Should i tell him that i like him?


Also..this may give it away to the person if he reads this, but anyways..Is it alright to fall for someone after calming down from someone who was close to you which was also their friend who died?
Someone told me to Move on, and that people die...but i cant stop to feel guilty, i still like the guy who died(and when he was alive), but i like this guy aswell..Someone please help? x_x


*This was taken from the thread i posted on Gaiaonline*

So tell me:
What is your option what should i do?
Should i tell him now? Or wait till next Month?
Or tell him now and get it over with?

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Oh god..i ramble on...

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I should note that this is happening over the net..

More than just friends?

• Yeah! I'm the first one here x)
  
  I think it really depends. I mean, if you like him more as a person than you may want to just remain friends because friendships usually last longer than boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. But if you feel as if you want to have him as a boyfriend and see how it works out, then by all means, "Go for it!" :].
  
  Has he ever admitted feelings for you?
  
  Did you get any good advice from Gaia Online users?
  
  Those are just a couple questions I had n___n
  
  I used to be like that when I liked a guy before too. I got really nervous around him and acted similar to how you did =3. I know what you mean on that part (=

Originally Posted by xX Nightmare Angel Xx

More than just friends?

• Yeah! I'm the first one here x)
  
  I think it really depends. I mean, if you like him more as a person than you may want to just remain friends because friendships usually last longer than boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. But if you feel as if you want to have him as a boyfriend and see how it works out, then by all means, "Go for it!" :].
  
  Has he ever admitted feelings for you?
  
  Did you get any good advice from Gaia Online users?
  
  Those are just a couple questions I had n___n
  
  I used to be like that when I liked a guy before too. I got really nervous around him and acted similar to how you did =3. I know what you mean on that part (=

And yeah your the first person xD.
Yes i like him more then just friends. And yeah i like him alot.

Also no i dont think he has, we flirt alot sometimes, but then again that could just be friendly flirting.

And they kinda did Give good advice, they mostly told me to tell him and "Go for it"

Like Ive been in alot of Online Relationships but yeah i like this guy, his funny, and great to get along with. :oops:

I do have something to say but i rather not say it here, because he has both Menewsha and Gaiaonline..

Well for how long have you known him?
Maybeh when you get to being his girlfriend, he will change into something you dont know D ; Just warning you I guess, Ive heard stories about this.

Originally Posted by kimu

Well for how long have you known him?
Maybeh when you get to being his girlfriend, he will change into something you dont know D ; Just warning you I guess, Ive heard stories about this.

I've known him for a while now, i actually forgot how long i have known him now..x_x


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Any more advice?

You can never be to sure of someone over the internet no matter how long you've known them.
Just recently at my school *Before school ended* We had a police officer come to my High School & chat about online predators.
From the information he was giving us, an Online predator will follow or "talk" to someone fro as long as they want, just as long as they know they could possible get somewhere with that other person.
But their are some who just get a kick out of talking to younger girls/boys.

If I was in your position I wouldn't meet up with him, you may be "In Love" but how can you be fully in love with someone you've never met, seen , cuddle with, or kissed?
I would stick with boys who live near you. Besides it's much safer then trying to meet a man who've you've only "talked" too.
Oh & if he's shown you a picture, he could have easily googled it on the internet, or used another picture from another person that he's talked too.
Like I said, you can NEVER be to sure. So it's best to be careful & never meet.

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I think ,just to be sure, that you wait a bit before you're sure that you like this 'alive' guy and not the 'dead' guy

Originally Posted by `Mel

You can never be to sure of someone over the internet no matter how long you've known them.
Just recently at my school *Before school ended* We had a police officer come to my High School & chat about online predators.
From the information he was giving us, an Online predator will follow or "talk" to someone fro as long as they want, just as long as they know they could possible get somewhere with that other person.
But their are some who just get a kick out of talking to younger girls/boys.

If I was in your position I wouldn't meet up with him, you may be "In Love" but how can you be fully in love with someone you've never met, seen , cuddle with, or kissed?
I would stick with boys who live near you. Besides it's much safer then trying to meet a man who've you've only "talked" too.
Oh & if he's shown you a picture, he could have easily googled it on the internet, or used another picture from another person that he's talked too.
Like I said, you can NEVER be to sure. So it's best to be careful & never meet.

I know about all that internet stuff...His no predator...-_-
All i can say to this is, I have seen a picture of him, it isnt someone else picture because a person i know is friends with him irl and they showed me a picture of him, plus he showed me one aswell..So i trust him and my other friend for the fact wouldnt lie to me i dispise lying people.
And for the love thing, it doesnt matter half the time if you have met them face to face or not, it only matters if you Clicked together, and im sure i didnt say i wanted to meet him yet i only wanted advice on if i should tell HIM MY FEELINGS FOR HIM.

Blue:The "dead guy" who i still like and this guy who i like are friends well were best friends...Does that help? but the problem is, i'm starting to fall for this other guy more and more, but i still like the "dead one" maybe i should just give up on guys all together

I think you should admit your feelings and move on from your previous feelings. It may be a little hard to do, but you can't stay stuck on something that won't come back.

Originally Posted by Iced-anime

I think you should admit your feelings and move on from your previous feelings. It may be a little hard to do, but you can't stay stuck on something that won't come back.

-nods- Maybe i should, but the guy who died will always be in my heart. its alittle hard moving on and your right i cant be stuck on something what wont come back.

I say go for it. Besides, you never know unless you try.

Originally Posted by AngelTakana

And yeah your the first person xD.
Yes i like him more then just friends. And yeah i like him alot.

Also no i dont think he has, we flirt alot sometimes, but then again that could just be friendly flirting.

And they kinda did Give good advice, they mostly told me to tell him and "Go for it"

Like Ive been in alot of Online Relationships but yeah i like this guy, his funny, and great to get along with. :oops:

I do have something to say but i rather not say it here, because he has both Menewsha and Gaiaonline..

• When I originally typed that, I didn't know it was on the internet >___<. I can't say I can relate as much now D': . Are you sure you want to get involved with a guy on the internet?
  
  Real life guys can be better in the sense that you can see them face-to-face and hug them and stuff =3. Internet ones just aren't the same y'know?
  
  But you should admit feelings for him if you like online dating. The worse he can say is "No", right? :]