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Marissa D
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07-10-2007, 11:46 AM
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Okay, so I told max about what happened last nigth and he called to where they put Dennis and they told mehe was still there and didn't leavehis room at all since he got there... .__.;;
Which means I was hallucinating.
Im a fucking nut. T_T
Short version:
Dennis, my ex, is stalking me and he knows where I live.
I'm not sure if he knows I live with Max, my current boyfriend. Max has a full time job, so I'm home alone a LOT.
Full version:
I met Dennis when I was 8 and he was 16. ><; It was the second day I smoked (and gawd I thougth I was cool) and he came up to me saying something like: "Give that to me, brat. You're too young for that." and I replied something like: "Fuck off, get your own." and.. He didn't leave and according to him we've been dating from then on.._.; He'd visit me near the bike shed on elementary school every break, and after school he'd come home with me.
He taught me all these handy things... Like:
- How to make a joint;
- How to kill yourself without chance of survival;
- >< How to go down on someone;
Other things like that.
He put his cigarettes out on me. ><; But I didn't dump him because he was never angry at me. He threatened to kill everyone I talked to, but he was never angry at me.
I was picked on a lot in school, and it was good to have someone who actually cared.
My parents were both like: "it's your life, you solve it."
So anyway, when I was 14 I realized I didn't like Dennis all that much. So I broke up with him. He went crazy. He started stalking me and actually tried to kill himself by jumping fom a window. Trying to squish random pedestrians. ><; He didn't die, he broke both his legs and was taken into mental care.
He spend 4 years there.
When I was 16, I met Max, my current boyfriend. I live with him now. (I'm 18, Max is 28 Dennis is 26) and well... It's scary because Dennis knows where I live but as I said I don't know if he knows Max lives here too and I don't want to wake up one morning and find Max dead!!!
Because last nigth I thougth I heard something (but I'm paranoid like hell so I wasn't sure) but Dennis was actually there and we had a chat. And when he tried to get it on with me I told him to go and he left. Max was in the shower then.
I called the police already... But because I've called there so many times when I truly thought something was going on, there was nothing wrong. So they don't believe me anymore. ><;;;
Also, I'm going to play Dennis in an RP. Here's his description. (I want to kill him RPstyle, that's why. ^^; )
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Originally Posted by Dominique Devlin
Name: Dennis de Boer.
Age: 26, born on the 22nd December 1987.
Location: Dennis lives in Holland.
Physical appearance: His hair is a big, black and fuzzy mohawk like this one. He's got piercings in his ears, tongue, lower lip, eyebrow, nose, and some on other places you wouldn't see when you first meet him. He's got grey eyes, his lips are rather thin, and his face is heart-shaped.
He buys most of his clothing and accessoires here, and isn't ashamed of anything. Also, he's got scars on both his legs from one of his suicide attempts.
Details: Dennis is an orphan, he thinks. His father took him away from his mother when he was 4 years old, and he's never seen her again. His father died in a traffic accident last year.
He has no pets or friends... He has an ex-boyfriend (Justin. (really. ><; )) he stalks for whatever reason. He made it perfectly clear he doesn't want to have anything to do with him, but yet Dennis can't let go.
Dennis spent four years of his life in a mental hospital, because he tried to kill himself by jumping from a second storey window, trying to squish random pedestrians. He failed, and broke both his legs. This left him some scars.
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T_T Help..?
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07-10-2007, 12:16 PM
Do you have a different police station you can call?
I also don't know how much are laws vary, but... couldn't they get into serious trouble for not coming to your call, regardless? Look into that.
If you really think Max's life is in danger, I advise you both not to leave the house unarmed, just in case. I am in no way saying you should blow Dennis' brains out, but if he attacks you, then...
Have you only spoken to him this one time since he got out of the mental care place? I know it's silly of me to hope it helped him grow up and change out of his bad habits... :/ But he did leave last night at least, right?
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Marissa D
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07-10-2007, 12:19 PM
I don't know... I should ask them next time I hear soemthing.
Max is a msucly guy. =] He'd probably manage soemwhat... But... ><; Yeah. He's got only one eye so it'd be easy for Dennis to stand in Max's blind corner and then go nasty. ><; I don't know. What weapons? This is Holland. Guns are illegal.
No, I talked to hima while ago. A few weeks back. he was talkign about this girl he met in tehloony bin he was going to marry. :roll: Guess they broke up.
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07-10-2007, 12:22 PM
Hopefully they do marry and run far far away. x_<; Seems kind of hopeful, eh?
Are pocket knives legal? Or something less drastic like pepper spray or mace? Those two you should be able to use (if you had to) without getting into much trouble.
How good are your self-defense laws there? :/
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Marissa D
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07-10-2007, 12:24 PM
Cha, doubt that'll happen. ><;
Not that I know of... ><; I should look that up, right? ^^;
It's all about what intentions you had when you did whatever you did.
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07-10-2007, 12:28 PM
Definitely look it up. See if you're allowed the pepper spray or mace. In the worst case scenario, that'd at least allow you to run away. :[
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Marissa D
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07-10-2007, 12:30 PM
Yeah, I suppose that's the least I could do. ><; Until recently, i thought a mace was a big-ass weapen. ^^; So... I think I'll look for pepper spray. :p
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07-10-2007, 12:33 PM
I'm pretty sure there's a weapon called mace, too. ^^ You mean the big ball and chain (with spiky things)? I think that's a mace.
No, I don't think it'd be good to carry one of those around. xDDD
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Marissa D
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07-10-2007, 12:34 PM
xDD
Okay, pepper sprayit is. =]
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Do you happen to know where I should search? ^^;
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07-10-2007, 12:37 PM
That's a very good question. I'm not sure where I'd search if I needed it here, either. :/
There must be a self defense store someplace. Can you order things online? I know you could get something online. I don't know about any places you could walk or drive to though.
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Marissa D
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07-10-2007, 12:44 PM
Self defence store...? Not thatI've ever heeard of. ^^;;;;; (Oh damnit why dont Iknow these thigns)
I live in a rather small place rightnow.A... Well, not a village, but slightly 'bigger' than a village, you know? Theyonly have basic stores here.
And I'm terrified to go out and bump into him. ^^;;;
Online..? Hmn. :/ That's an idea. Maybe I should look it up. =] Butbutbut... >.>; I'm saving for my baby. ><; AHwell. No point in that when I'm dead, right?
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07-10-2007, 12:46 PM
Sorry about the long delay in my reply. I had to run into the other room for something (I'm at work right now xD).
I live in a very small area, too. We have about 1000 people in the town I live in, and 700 in the next one over. I grew up in the "700" town. I totally understand what you mean by small shops, and especially being afraid to run into him.
I'm pretty sure your little girl would understand. Like you said, there's no point if you can't keep yourself safe. ;_;
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Marissa D
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07-10-2007, 12:49 PM
Don't worry about it. You're actually the one who's giving me the quickest replies today. ^^;
D: I hope so. She's going to be my best friend's and my daughter, right? Well, my bvest friends parents will probably bitch at me for spending money on anthing but their grandchild. (unreasonable plagues they are)
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07-10-2007, 12:55 PM
I absolutely love babies.
It sucks that the grandparents give you such a hard time. It's undeserving.
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Marissa D
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07-10-2007, 12:57 PM
Cha, I've actually seen my best friend once in the past 5 months or so. For one afternoon. She had to sneak out tf thehouse for that. ><;
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07-10-2007, 12:58 PM
How do Holland's laws work for your rights? Normally I'd like to think that a father could see his child, but I know how screwed up things can be sometimes.
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Marissa D
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07-10-2007, 01:48 PM
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How do Holland's laws work for your rights? Normally I'd like to think that a father could see his child, but I know how screwed up things can be sometimes.
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Well, I'm allowed to but my best friend doesn't want to cause anymore trouble between me and her parents so I wont be there when our daughter is born.
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07-10-2007, 02:14 PM
I'm sorry to hear that. I really hope things change for you. ~~;;
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Marissa D
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07-10-2007, 02:18 PM
^^; Me too, thank you.
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07-10-2007, 02:22 PM
Anytime. <3
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07-12-2007, 11:09 AM
O-O Whoaa.
- I think you should load up on defense weapons. If you have a gun, take riflery. My friend said you should put land mines in your yard and deactivate it in the morning. But warn Max about them of course ><;;
It sounds a bit extreme and over-the-top, but it's something xD. Plus, you can load up on pepper spray to spray at him if he comes to close to you :3. Not much skill needed in that ;]
Or, you can get a job that involves more hours so your not home alone as much n____n. But then again, if your hallucinating, then you might start seeing him in your office D': . Or you can hang out with friends often and invite them over. So you can maybe feel more safe (:
If none of this works, then you can hire a body gaurd maybe? >___<
My crazy ideas and rants x)
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07-12-2007, 05:54 PM
Wait...
I'm just wondering...
Does he really have all those piercings? :shock: (and hairstyle)
But didn't he save you once?
He can't be that bad..?
About the baby;
I've been thinking for a while..(Sorry for it being a bit off topic><)
I guess I kinda know how it is for the (grand)parents/her parents.
You're both only 18 right?
She's waaaaaaay too young,you know?
It will be harder for her to get a job and/or study because of the baby.
She has to use lots of her money and time on the baby even though you're there.
I mean...If she was the he and you the she, I think the parents wouldn't be so mad at you because you're the one who will have the baby while "he" can just do what he wants in the shadows(get it?)
You said you wanted to be best friends with the baby?
What if she got pregnant when she's only 15 years?
Wouldn't you get mad at the boy?
(yes,I'm making her younger than what the mom is)
Of course the parents were probably mad at you before too(I have a feeling)but you just made them madder>>
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Marissa D
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07-12-2007, 06:10 PM
And he saved me because he was jealous. And stalking me. He wasn't even supposed to know where I was at that point. Anyway, he;s in a straight jacket now.
You're annoying me very very much. It wasn't planned okay? And it's none of your business. She's not younger than she is, the roles arent swapped And I WOULD BE TEHRE FOR HER IF THOSE DUMBASS RELIGIOUS PRICKS WOULD LET ME Now shut the fuck up or I'll trace you down and make you okay?
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