Oh, I see. That's a good idea. How often do you get to see him?

Yeah. It's no good to try and just pop in. You get caught up in too many threads...hehe

Never. :( And we've been dating for over a year.

Yeah. XD I never seem to learn, though... XD "Oh, I'll just check things" "I'll just see if anyone has replied" etc. XD Then I LET myself be distracted by other things...

Aww. That stinks.

Yeah. It's more fun to be distracted than it is getting things done anyway...

Indeed. D: It causes issues.

Yeah. Until you realize you've been distracted all day and got nothing done. XD Then you feel lazy.

Wait. Do you mean that you've never met or that you just really really don't see each other often?

Yeah. I hate when that happens. >_<

Originally Posted by nescia

Wait. Do you mean that you've never met or that you just really really don't see each other often?

Yeah. I hate when that happens. >_<

Eheh... Well, never. ^^;

Indeed. So how was your day?

Wow. How did you meet? Oh, never mind. I'm being really nosy.

Alright. Kind of strange actually.

Oh, no, no, it's fine. ^^ I don't mind talking about it or anything.
We met on a message board, actually. Started talking on instant messenger, talked on messenger for almost a year, were best friends. Then we realized we loved each other. And so he told me he liked me on the same exact day I decided I was going to tell HIM I liked him. XD It was a REALLY weird coincidence.
We've talked on the phone almost every week since we've gotten together, and have gone on webcam and stuff (nothing dirty XD Just y'know "okay, you're not a 40 year old pervert" and "omg you can move, unlike in pictures")
But still, when we do meet, we're going to do it in a mall or a restaurant, so juuuust in case. Y'know, safety reasons.

I know, that was more than you asked for, but when people say "met online and haven't met in person" people tend to think of this girl blindly going to some guys' house, having never seen him or talked to him, getting raped and killed. So I have to establish I'm not that dumb. XD


Oh? How has it been strange?

Still buying. ^^
I was going to bid on a lovelipop, but I didn't realize the auction ended so soon, and you can't enter the auction in the last half hour. >< Damn

I'm still buying. ♥

Oh, no. I wasn't trying to question your choice or say it was dangerous or anything. I was just curious. That just sounds like it would be really hard. I'd be really anxious to meet him if it was me. hehe

I don't know why it was just a really strange day. The worst thing was that this boy in my grade with a heart condition collapsed in the hall way in front of me and like seven other people. It was really scary and then people kept asking me about it all day. He is alright now though.

Oh, I know. I was just making sure there would be no negative connotations associated with online relationships. ^^
I am very anxious to meet him. But mom's getting to the point where she gets pissed off when I ask about it, so I've pretty much given up on it being any time soon. :(

Oh jeez, that must have been scary. o.o Good thing that he's okay, though.

Yeah. My parents would never let me meet someone that I met like that. That's too bad for you two... :[

Yeah. I felt really guilty, too. I saw him walking down the hall towards where I was standing with some friends. His eyes looked really weird and he kept moving his hands over his face. He does drugs a lot and I sort of made a little rude accusation about him to one of my friends just about a minute before he leaned up against the wall and collapsed. I still feel like such a jerk.... He is fine now though. He was back in school the next day and I talked to him that morning.

I don't think it's because of HOW I met him. Mom seems 100% fine with him, and the fact that I met him online. She just doesn't want to go down there. XD

Don't feel bad, it's not like you knew.
Could his heart problems be BECAUSE of his drug use? Or maybe they just spurred the episode?

Six one way, half dozen the other I guess. It's good that she doesn't mind the situation, but not that helpful since she can't help you seem him. xD

No. I don't really think that they are related. I've known him since middle school and he has always had heart problems. I just never actually saw him collapse... I still feel bad. He was so nice when I talked to him the next day, like thanking me for getting a teacher. I still feel like such a snot. I never realized that I talked about people like that... I just sort of did it without thinking. I hate that.

I hate when you realize that. ><
Like the other day my boyfriend pointed out (nicely) how I call alot of people whores. I'm actually pretty judgmental, though I act like I'm not. -_-;
Well, at least we're aware of the problem, so we can fix it. ^^

I guess it's good that I realize it. I still can't believe that I don't notice it when I'm saying things like that... Especially since I'm so sensitive about other people talking about me. I really feel like a hypocrite now. It's not fun.

I know what you mean. If people say anything remotely offensive to me, I feel HORRIBLE, but then I call people whores or bitches. (not to their face, though)

Oh, well. Talking to you has made me feel a little bit better. At least, I'm not the only person that does that...

Oh, everyone does it to one degree or another. People are just natural judgmental. How often have you actually told the person what you thought?

Man, the exchange moves fast on the weekends. I got bumped off the first page already!
Still buying.

Still buying.

Wait. Was that a rhetorical question? I just got confused somehow. hehe

Uhm, it was a normal question. I mean, you don't have to know exactly. But my point was, if you've never or not often actually told the person the things you were thinking about them, then at least there's that.

Oh. Well, never I guess. I don't really talk him much. I was just saying how messed up he looked at the time. Then he collapsed and I felt like a jerk for what I had been thinking. >_<