Alright GeeDee.

Pretty much, I'm talking about Turn ONS, and Turn OFFS.

Theres always been a constant debate over looks/personality.

Personally, I'll be the first to admit; I really NEED a good personality in a woman, but if I'm not attracted to her, I probably won't take the time to find out.

This is a problem, because the fact is and will ALWAYS be: The girls I find attractive do NOT always have the best personality. This is true for almost everybody.

So guys discuss:

- Personality/Looks

- Turn ons/offs.

I agree with you. I prefer personality over looks any time, any day, any year. Only problem is...I have to at least socialize with someone in order to befriend them in a way :P

It's the inside that counts... I guess that's why I like all the bitter anime characters... Because I know what it's like...

@ wifeofrajan:

Well ok then...

;'|

For me, the personality/looks ratio should be 50:50, because in my mind you can't really pull one off without the other. I don't think someone looks attractive unless they have a certain type of personality. For example.. there could be a girl that everyone thinks is so attractive, but she's a complete ditz. So because she's a ditz, she presents herself in such a way that makes me physically unattracted to her.

But if I had to choose certain physical attributes, one of the biggest ones would have to be protruding hipbones.. there's just something about them that drives me crazy; especially if they make their jeans/panties stick out a bit. Uhg that's so attractive to me. Also, long dark hair and light-toned skin. Foreign structure is also a huge plus.

As for personality traits.. an artistic outlook on life. Someone that's gone through similar experiences as me, and thus can perceive things in a similar way as me. And I love feminine girls that are turned off by most masculine things. Also, when they've acted cute so much that it's just become apart of their personality. Oh, and being able to tolerate me is a plus too :]

Turn ons? The physical attributes described above. To protect your virgin eyes, I wont go into detail about my sexual turn ons.

Turn offs? Large boobs. Tan skin. Bleach-blond hair. Girls that don't act proper (Belching, being "one of the guys" etc.). Larger girls (Yes. I'm shallow. Extremely so. Don't get me wrong, though, I've dated a few girls that definitely weren't model-thin, too.)

Anyway.. that's my two cents.

Originally Posted by Nathuram

For me, the personality/looks ratio should be 50:50, because in my mind you can't really pull one off without the other. I don't think someone looks attractive unless they have a certain type of personality. For example.. there could be a girl that everyone thinks is so attractive, but she's a complete ditz. So because she's a ditz, she presents herself in such a way that makes me physically unattracted to her.

But if I had to choose certain physical attributes, one of the biggest ones would have to be protruding hipbones.. there's just something about them that drives me crazy; especially if they make their jeans/panties stick out a bit. Uhg that's so attractive to me. Also, long dark hair and light-toned skin. Foreign structure is also a huge plus.

As for personality traits.. an artistic outlook on life. Someone that's gone through similar experiences as me, and thus can perceive things in a similar way as me. And I love feminine girls that are turned off by most masculine things. Also, when they've acted cute so much that it's just become apart of their personality. Oh, and being able to tolerate me is a plus too :]

Turn ons? The physical attributes described above. To protect your virgin eyes, I wont go into detail about my sexual turn ons.

Turn offs? Large boobs. Tan skin. Bleach-blond hair. Girls that don't act proper (Belching, being "one of the guys" etc.). Larger girls (Yes. I'm shallow. Extremely so. Don't get me wrong, though, I've dated a few girls that definitely weren't model-thin, too.)

Anyway.. that's my two cents.

I'm in agreement with what you say completely, except for big boobs never hurt anybody.

Not looking for Pamala Anderson style tatas though.

For me it is mostly personality. but I wouldnt mind at least SOME looks. I would befriend a person with a great personality and usually fall for them. ((Most of the time.)) But if they are like REALLY ugly ((Not to sound shallow)) But I usually stay friends with those people. o3o

Depending on how the person looks, and how much I love them, I might be able to look past their exterior. >__>;

I'm not a very shallow person, so "ugly" in my books is something equivalent to someone who had their face bashed in and set on fire. xD

<<;; As far as looks go, though.. If a girl is wearing cat ears (which most of my girlfriends/ex's do) I won't pay attention to any other physical aspect of them. Personality.. well, if I speak to a person for 10 minutes, I know exactly what type of person they are; and sometimes, I like the mean, bitchy people.. >>;;

Originally Posted by Lightswitch Raves

I'm in agreement with what you say completely, except for big boobs never hurt anybody.

Not looking for Pamala Anderson style tatas though.

I don't really like them. Boobs are just mammary glands covered with fat.. bigger boobs usually means more fat.
Plus most women don't have very sensitive breasts, so what's the point?

Both, definetly. I can't be with someone if I don't
even find them remotely attractive... But if they're
the most gorgeous guy I've ever seen with an awful
personality, I can't be with them either.

Turn offs: smokers, druggies, alcoholics, extreme
fatness [go ahead, call me shallow], guys who can't
hold a conversation for longer than five minutes..

Turn ons: Intelligence, same interests, nice hair xD

Personality/Looks ...Hmm.. Well I like a combo of both. Personality more than looks though a bit more. The spark needs to be there, like you say, but it also needs to have the personality to back it up. If not, the spark fades.

Turn ons:
Not too thin, not too large(Basically average, basic curves are very nice. I don't want to date someone who's a toothpic...But I also don't want to date someone I can't sit next to on the bus... I've never seen someone that big though.)
Is female
Has a sense of humor
similar interests
Pretty eyes <3
Carries on a conversation well
Assertive, confident, kind

Turn offs:
Very skinny, or very not skinny
no sense of humor
no personality really
not all there
a bit too ditzy
can't carry on a conversation
b*tchy, mean, thinks their funny when their not..

Originally Posted by 'clockwork

Both, definetly. I can't be with someone if I don't
even find them remotely attractive... But if they're
the most gorgeous guy I've ever seen with an awful
personality, I can't be with them either.

Turn offs: smokers, druggies, alcoholics, extreme
fatness [go ahead, call me shallow], guys who can't
hold a conversation for longer than five minutes..

Turn ons: Intelligence, same interests, nice hair xD

I bet I'm drop dead gorgeous then?

xD.

I kid, I kid.

I often find that I'm first attracted by personality, habits and talents and then grow to find little things about that person gorgeous.

Turn ons-
Tallish and slender built
Mildly feminine
Artistic and insightful
Cherishing or notcing things about me.
Dark, feather light hair.
Bright, unnatural hair dyes streaked through is a plus to me.
Delicate facial features (cute lips and nose make me want to kiss them)
Single ear piercing. (no excessive piercings)
A nice smile or laugh.

Turns offs-
Thickly built muscular guys.
Loud, abrasive or rude
Those with good grades and school smarts who are egotistic and think themselves brillinat
Egotism in general
Guys with no drive
Guys without unique or insightful thoughts who focus solely on their own problems.
Put others down


I'm busty myself, it seems people mostly want the super-thin. Even when I was underweight I was busty, so I don't think having excess fat had anything to do with it. Curves are out I guess, ah well.

Originally Posted by Lightswitch Raves

I bet I'm drop dead gorgeous then?

xD.

I kid, I kid.

haha, I don't really know you. I know
you do/have done drugs though. xD

Originally Posted by 'clockwork

haha, I don't really know you. I know
you do/have done drugs though. xD

You do do you?

How do you know?

The drug thread you created. :'D

DON'T JUDGE ME!

;']

You're lucky if you can find someone with both. I'm in a long-distance relationship (it sucks, but we make it work), and she has more looks than personality. But if you can find someone that you love, and I mean actually love, not just have a cute little crush on, then make sure they're the right person for you.

Originally Posted by Lightswitch Raves

DON'T JUDGE ME!

;']

xD Don't worry, I'm not.

I know, I know.

I can't help it, I just said that for shits n' giggles.

Any who, hows it going Ms. Clockwork? Your the only person up with me right now xD

I'm up with you. o:

Of course, the sensible answer to such a question would be, "Looks don't matter; it's what inside."
Probably because the sensitive guy gets the hot women or something.
Unless the sensitive guy is some fat noob; that's probably a liable exception.
It would be a tactful answer, even if it may be a lie.

Hell, I'd lie about it, too.

As for turn-offs: BeeOh.

Haha, I'm witty, I sounded it out.

Originally Posted by Pkero

I'm up with you. o:

Rock on my man.

• I admit I'm pretty much the same way. I definitely need a good personality, but if I don't like how they look, I probably wouldn't spend my time getting to know. Yeah, call me shallow I guess for liking a person's physical attributes, but there's not many people I DON'T find attractive so it works out. After all, attractiveness is all in personal opinion.
  
  As for turn ons, physically I tend to like strong backs, [usually] tanned/darker skin, brown eyes, usually someone not really skinny [either slightly overweight or slightly muscular], and experienced/nympho.
  Personality wise, they just have to be someone I can trust [because I have MAJOR trust issues], knows how to hold a conversation/slightly talkative, someone able to see when something's wrong with me [which isn't usually that hard to tell] and comfort me, having an interest in "guy things" like sports and beer, humorous [I love to laugh], not extremely romantic [I find it corny], adventurous, similar interests, and faithful/monogamous.
  
  I think it's more of a 35:65 ratio in regards to attractiveness to personality for me. I know my current boyfriend is not all of my physical turn ons, but a lot of my personality ones.
  
  

Originally Posted by Lightswitch Raves

I know, I know.

I can't help it, I just said that for shits n' giggles.

Any who, hows it going Ms. Clockwork? Your the only person up with me right now xD

:] It's going well. I always stay up until
about 3 A.M. How're you?