Aww...poor Liv!
I have that problem with guys too.
I think in my case it's because I'm just too plain looking and don't have any boobs.
Guys tend to look at me, then look at my sister and go after her.
Recently I've just decided to hell with guys. I'm living for myself and looking good for myself now and not for anyone else.

I should try do that but... Lack of courage Dx

OMG you just made me remember of a man with 33 years old wanting desperately a girlfriend Dx He only saw me once, he first tried with my best friend sofia but she rejected me on the next die he didn't stop calling me to go out o.O Seriously... I didn't gave him any sign that I was interested on him and if if I was I would say no to him xD
And he wanted to marry I just thought " Are you freaking kidding me?! I just started my life! D< NO KIDS OR MARRIAGE FOR MEH!"

kaderin: I have boobs and they don't seem to want them as well oO should I cut them or put more x.X
GUYS ARE MORE COMPLEX THEN GIRLS! >;

Yeah you should come live here. Guys here seem to only notice girls if they're pretty and/or if they have boobs.
I don't fall under either category apparently and that's fine with me.
I wouldn't mind an online relationship at the moment though. Even just a temporary "until we meet someone else IRL" type one.
All guys seem to have some sort of natural aversion to me though.

On a positive note, I've decided that my not-even-A cup-boobs work perfectly for wearing tube tops and bought one the other day.

KAderin: I wanting that as well... The don't last long but at leas... a person get get a little happy until finding someone real life <.<

Wow, I won again? O= Thanks. <333

livvie: yes you did x3

Sweet. That's really awesome. I totally wasn't expecting it. Thanks again! ;D

-is back from boyfriend-

Liv: Yeah, right?
*sigh* Oh well, I'm working on coming to terms with the fact that I'll live alone, die alone, and leave nothing behind.
It's my greatest fear, but it also seems to be my destiny.

livvie: BAD WORD BAD WORD! - scratch the boyfriend word- ;o;

kaderin: I have been wondering that Dx I actually wouldn't like that to happen.. It doesn't seem healthy Dx

Er... did I just say something I shouldn't have? >>

EDIT: Apparently. D= Sorryyyy I didn't read any of the past posts.

You guys are so negative. o_O

My online "relationships" seem to last longer than real life ones.
I've never dated someone for over two years, but I've talked to the same couple of guys through e-mails and IM's for like four years.
xD

Liv: It probably isn't healthy. And I probably shouldn't feel so determined to adjust to it either, but what else can I do.
I'm obviously too ugly and boobless to attract a guy. So I'll live for myself and be remembered only by the few friends I leave behind.

livvvie is bad bad girl ;o;

edit:
kaderin: but you already had someone so.. it is very probably taht you will find someone again ;D

nescia: YA LUCKY ONE xD
I don't even have that luck Dx

Why would you want to date someone that was only attracted to you for your looks though?
You're better off without someone like that.
o_O

nescia: Who? me? @[email protected]

I was saying that more to Kaderin actually. xD
But it's true for anyone.

I only consider online relationships to be friendships though.
hehe

Wow. Hm. So. Before you annoy me anymore....

Boobs truly don't matter. If you have small boobs, who cares? They were given to for a reason and I'm sure they go with your body perfectly fine. Looks matter to a point, yes, but a relationship that is based solely on physical connection only lasts because the two have sex every time they're together.

Not all guys are the same. They may seem like it, but they truly aren't. The more negative about this, the worse you're going to make it for yourself. If you believe that you aren't getting the attention because you are ugly//don't have boobs then okay, it is that reason. Most of the time when we come to such a conclusion, the only reason why it's true is because we make it true. I used to think all of the time that there's no way in hell anybody could like me. I didn't know why. I thought I was pretty cute... I have a decent body and whatnot. Am I too loud? Too much of a bitch? Well, here I am today nearly five months later dating my best friend. And it's incredible. He's incredible. He's nothing like any other "stereotypical guy". He doesn't like me just because I'm pretty or I've got a "bangin' body". He likes me because I'm me, I'm who I am. Because I am confident in myself. You could get a boyfriend yourself, if you stopped being so stupidly negative about it. Just because you aren't getting the jerks like most girls do, doesn't make you the most ugly thing on earth.

So please shut up and get some confidence before I have to e-slap you. D<

=D ily.

Liv: I had someone who had no ambition and who really was only in the relationship for the sex and to make his parents happy.

nescia: I don't want a guy who wants me for my looks only, but that really is the only thing guys seem to care about. I don't know. If you happen to know a guy who doesn't give a rat's ass about a girls looks and wants an online relationship just point him in Liv and my direction.

I agree with what Livvie is saying about confidence completely.
There is never any reason to put yourself down like that.

Let's try to avoid calling anyone stupid/annoying though..., okay?

@Kad- xD
Like Livvie said, not all guys are like that!
I'm pretty bitter about relationships though so I shouldn't be giving any pep talks.
hehe

Okay...? So because of this you're completely done with guys? I understand why you'd be hurt... but to be so... I don't even have a word for it. They just aren't the same. You're just not seeing it. Maybe you should just stop dating guys for a while to become comfortable with yourself before you try and seek somebody else out. You know that what you're saying is utter bullshit. You'll find somebody else.

I wasn't calling her stupid or annoying. If I made it seem that way//did on accident, I didn't mean to.

Guys, maybe a topic change is in order?
This conversation seems to have the potential for flaming...

Yeah, can't say she's (Livvie's) wrong with the confidence thing. But that's been a huge issue with me ever sense my sister started calling me ugly and making fun of me in addition to the crap I used to get at school. Add that to untreated mild bi-polar and to put it mildly, I'm a mess.

Livvie will slap me in a month if I don't get a decent boyfriend xD

AND HELL YEAH ITS MEH BIRTHDAY! :'D

I'm 19 yeas old!! FREE LIKE A BIRD! :sarcasm: I wished <.<;

:O It's your birthday? ^___^ Happy birthday~! *happy dance* I'm turning 18 in about 2 months :D I'm probably going to celebrate my bday on an airplane luls!

nes - No, no flaming will happen, I promise. =] I've just got to knock some sense into this girl.

I can relate to you, I really can. My brother used to do the same thing to me. He'd harass me about how ugly I was and make fun of me allll of the time. And it scarred me like no other, I didn't fully gain confidence in myself until a couple years ago [[I'm 16]]. I was never the pretty girl at school, never really had anybody like me, nothing of the sort. My friends ALWAYS had the boyfriends. They'd always talk to each other about their problems and I'd be left out because I hadn't had any experience with them before. PLUS I went into a real deep depression and that was bad on my spirit as well. And what do you know, it was guy related. So it did get to me to some extent. HOWEVER.

You have to embrace yourself. You are who you are. You can't change that. Changing who you are on purpose to try and fit the mold you think want people want you to be makes you ugly. Being yourself and believing in yourself makes you beautiful. Whether I can see it, nes can see it, some guy walking down the street can see it, or not. I have been told by Arie countless times that I'm so beautiful and he likes me because I'm so comfortable with who I am and what I do.

That's what YOU have to do. No, you can't wake up in the morning and go "YEAH I'M PRETTY. YEAH I'VE GOT WHAT THEY WANT. YEAHYEAHYEAH." No. It's small steps. Being positive. Having friends who carry you through these hard times. That's what you need. You don't need to look at your sister and be envious. You don't need to look at your old relationship and wonder "why me?". You just need to worry about you.

Is this totally pointless or am I making some head-way?