I never dated in my life! *o* <3
I am not interested right now. :3;;

@ljos-- I'd call that stereotyping, not racism. Not all people who stereotype are racist, either, though I'd have to say most of the people who are racist stereotype.
It's like the all rectangles are squares things but not all squares are rectangles.

Originally Posted by Sagitar

I don't get why she should have got an asian boyfriend? what does it matter if she's vietnamese? xP

Me neither.

• Lovvy, you're right, of course.

Someones type shouldn't be by race....

Originally Posted by shellthabunny

Someones type shouldn't be by race....

Why not?
You can prefer one race over the other. At the level of basic attraction, it's like preferring one hair color over the other, y'know?

@ljos-- Thank you :D

My brother's still in middle school and he's got a girlfriend now :p They've been dating for about 4 months now o .o I was shocked cos he's rather dorky xD His girlfriend is actually pretty cute too! xD

It's rather sad cos I got dumped awhile ago so I'm kinda jealous of him :p

My mom says he's too young to be dating(he's only in the 8th grade) but you've got kids "going out" with each other in like 6th grade. Heck, I got my first girlfriend in 7th grade :p

Look some people prefer to date one race over another. It's not a racist thing. It's like when someone says they like guys with blue eyes more then someone with brown. Nothing wrong with that. As long as they don't refuse to date someone they really like just because of their race.

I've dated hispanic, black, mixed, and white. But a majority of them are white. It's just more appealing to me. I don't consider myself racist because of it.

i dont think its weird for someone to date out of their race...
i think its great really. expanding horizons ^^
i'm mixed with black and white. not sure if that has anything to do with my preferences but i like guys of all types of races and colors. if they're attractive, they're attractive.
but i dont think its racist if you prefer one race over another. its just something you like.

Originally Posted by Jinha

My brother's still in middle school and he's got a girlfriend now :p They've been dating for about 4 months now o .o I was shocked cos he's rather dorky xD His girlfriend is actually pretty cute too! xD

It's rather sad cos I got dumped awhile ago so I'm kinda jealous of him :p

My mom says he's too young to be dating(he's only in the 8th grade) but you've got kids "going out" with each other in like 6th grade. Heck, I got my first girlfriend in 7th grade :p

6th grade? I didn't participate in this myself, but I can remember my friends "dating" in elementary school- 3rd, 4th, and definitely 5th grade. They even gave each other their school pictures. n.n; Of course, they weren't serious relationships, but they were cute!

I don’t have anything to do with old friends. There’s a reason I stop talking to them and I rather not ever talk to them again.

Ahahaha, yesyesyes! xD That's happened. Only to me. xD

In lementary, I was this quiet wallflower. THen in middle school, I got asked out by a TON of guys, and I accepted about half. Then I called my friend about it. She and I were friends in 2nd grade, but then I moved, so we still keep in touch. And she was like "...O.O...wtf? Has the world gone insane or something?" It was hilarious. xD

Aha!~
That's funny. C:
I bet they look cute together though.
Yeah, I'm sure I'll be single all my life because I fail to tell the person I like,
that I like them. XD
I like a guy a year older, so it seems harder than if he were the same age. *Sigh*

I was always shocked when my friends would tell me
they're dating guys who are complete a-holes. xD

Everybody was shocked when I told them I had a boyfriend... I guess I really look like the shy girl who'll never get a boyfriend. But actually, I've been asked out three times. The first guy, I was so shocked I said yes. Haha... he cheated on me, so I learned my lesson.

Everybody said my first boyfriend was an as*hole I didn't see that since it's hard to see from the gf point of view... So I don't blame your reaction to your friend if you want to protect her.

Hahaha...one of my friends started dating one of my other friends. Neither of them had ever had a relationship last more than a few weeks. Naturally I thought they would break up immediately....they have been going out for almost 2 years now ^ ^;;

My friends think it's cute that I have a boyfriend = _=

Well i'm always shocked what kind of guys my best friend dates, ugh, so ugly!
And annoying, and hyper active babies -_-;;

Yes, they annoy me xD


I only shock my friends with the distance between me and my (ex) boyfriends.

Atm i'm singly tough, so i cannot really shock people.

I never been shock at my friends bf/gf. For me I went though about *count* 5 bf and 1 bad engagement. -.- But now I got a bf for over 19 months now and talking about getting married so yay me. My friend [i call him my little brother] he had alot of bad gfs and was gunna give up on girls till now when he found another gf and I hope this one last more then a month because the other girls wont last that long for some reason... I wont be shock when he get himself a bf ^_^ yes i said bf so its not a typo.

One of my friends, er, warned me about a girl that asked me out, but I didn't really pay heed.
o;

So, I'm pretty sure she was shocked when I went out with her.

I ended up breaking up with her, but ... my friend stayed kind of angry.
> >;

I'm trying to stay away from women right now, though.
e Ae

some people start "dating" so young.. O_o
I had my first boyfriend when I was 13, but you can't call those relation ships/dating if they last a week or two xD

so in my case, I've had 3 REAL boyfriends/relationships.
but none of them are nothing compared to the one I'm now ^^ <3

Err - I'm not quite sure If I agree with you on the whole "Black, Shes Asian, Needs an Asian Boyfriend" Thing..That was sort of racist and stereotypical..but I know you weren't trying to be..
Just because she's asian, doesn't mean she needs an asian boyfriend. 0__o;;

Anyways, I just recently found out my friend who is onyl 13 is dating, and has had 2 boyfriends already, and is onto her 3rd. She's already made out and everything. I don't get it - she was such an innocent kid, and shes only 13! I don't talk to her as much anymore. I can't look at her the same way, I've tried telling her shes FAR too young, but she wouldn't listen to me and was surprised I haven't had a boyfriend when I was her age. Heck, I still don't have one and I'm almost 15..

I was shocked when my 16 year old Christian friend dated a 22 year old. But, hey; he respected her, he was mature, they shared the same devotion to the same God, and they liked each other. So it was all good.

Well one of my friends, who is in grade 11, just started dating this girl not long ago... and she's in grade 9. I think its kind of weird and when I found out I was like, uhm... wtf, pedo... DX

All my friends were shocked when I was dating my ex. Everyone was like "Omg, how does someone like him get you? That totally doesn't make sense, you can do way better" and all this stuff. But I liked him so it didn't really matter. We had a good run, lmao. All my friends were kind of happy when I broke up with him because they really didn't think he deserved me at all. XD

I had that happen to me once it was quite interesting to hear from an old friend now he is in a band so woot! D:

I was chocked when my best friend meet her husband over the internet.

We have been friends since like grade one and she would get so home sick that she couldn't even spend the night at my house.

She meets this guy that is 12 years older then her and lives in the states. (I/we live in Canada about a 12 hour drive d=from where I am to the state she moved too) They meet twice and after High school she moves away to the state he lives in and gets married to him. A year later they are supper happy and are a week shy of having a baby girl.