Oh oh oh Aaron says if we go to MIL's today he will buy me icecream from DQ. :drool:

I finally get my icecream...days later. :XD

And I'm chuffed the 'not-date' went so well. Hang in there hun as I think you two have something special going on. :heart:

@Chi: I adore chocolate about as much as you adore fruit. :P

@Izumi: Hooray! Ice cream craving win! :) Yeah, I'm being as patient as I can. *sigh* I totally have to resist the urge to pin him down and make out with him sometimes, though. Hehe.
I invited him to a little Valentine's lunch (with "Sofia" so it isn't like a date) because I always spend Valentine's with my friends. And when I was asking him, I said, "So, the Sunday after next is Valentine's Day...", and before I could continue he says, "I know!" Weirded me out. Heck, I barely know when V-Day is half the time! Haha. It threw me off guard a bit, hehe. Didn't quite know what to make of that. But he said he'd totally come to lunch with us. So hooray!

His heart probably skipped a beat. :heart::heart::heart:

This is such an exciting thing to hear about. It's like in the movies when two characters obviously have some chemistry and you're thinking comeon get together make out make out. :XD :lol:

But yah the fact that he's dragging his feet might mean he takes relationships a bit more seriously and (hopefully) be a man who is very committed. Half the thrill is the chase, they say though.

And well, my husband is sprawled out on the floor playing videogames, and he keeps on saying to me "Look, Tara, Look!" as he's so proud of himself and I'm like not really all that bothered. I think our Vday plans are probably the same as any other day, so hey that's real exciting isn't it? He isn't one who likes excitement though and is pretty much a routine kinda guy...he shows his love in small ways. Speaking of which...where's my breakfast this morning. (It's almost become a habitual thing that he will cook breakfast on his days off...probably a reason why we're struggling to loose weight...lots of eggs and bacon... :drool:)

Hehe, mine kind of did when he said that.
I've never much had a problem with guys not being committed. Heh. Do remember I *was* engaged for three years. Haha. And the only boyfriends I've ever had that lasted less than nine months were in elementary school.

Aww, that sounds so cute. Hehe. Aaron sounds like he has a happy inner child. :)
Honestly, I'm not usually a huge Valentine's Day freak. But I *love* to dress up and go out, and it's definitely a tradition to go out with my friends (which has always been *so* fun to explain to my boyfriend at the time....they tend to get disappointed if I don't plan something with them as well...V Day can get way busy sometimes). :P

I got fuzzies reading Steel's posts. xD

And Izumi, Cole sometimes does that. He won't squawk at me to look, but he'll make commentary or look over at me. I try and pay attention but he usually does it when I'm either role-playing or doing homework. :XD Or reading articles, etc.

Tentatively, for V-Day I'll be taking him out to dinner. He surprised me with a gift already, and I'd like to reciprocate. This is the only year thus far we've celebrated V-Day. o.O

Hehe, I get fuzzies, too.
Awww, that sounds like a fun day.
Just FYI, I'm on my mule right now because I had to take over the front desk for a few minutes while Eva goes to the bathroom. They *really* need to hire a tutor for Saturday. :(

Hopefully it will be. <3

I think I'm going to go play another game. Cole went to work and I'm feeling spectacularly upset. :gonk: Distraction time. *poofs*

Awww! *huggles Chi*
Poor thing.
I'm back on my main now! Hehe.

Awww hope you feel better Chi! :heart:

I'm just sitting here playing fishing so I can max out, and also watching Treasure Madness. They've brought out Valentine's maps and I would like to finish the valentines sets before the event is over.

Speaking of events I wonder when Menewsha's is going to start.

Oooh, I need to get some Valentine's maps. :)
I seriously, seriously have a bad case of the Valentines. Hehe.

I've noticed. :P

I think that Treasure Madness is addicting because of all the item collecting and the games are the kind of games I wish Mene had...They must be harder to script or something, I dunno.

Well, and you can do it while you do other things, so it's easy to work with.
ALSO! Go feed your dang Fishville fish. It's killing me to see them dying of hunger! Or sell them, or something! Haha.

There. Most of them were dead, except a handful in my front tank.

I'll eventually get back into sync with playing, just right now I'm kinda meh. I put a couple of fish in my first tank though so you can feed them if you want. I'll see how long they are sustained by friends feeding them. :P

Yay! Yeah, it's okay for you not to play. I just needed the fishies to not be so close to death. Hehe.
<---is pathetically attached to her pixels

Aww sorry...I killed off so many fishies. T_T

:P I forgive you.
*sigh* He's here. He's such a goof. He totally texted "knock knock" to me before he came in. Haha.

Awww he likes you. So cute!! :heart:

Haha...it would be cuter if he would freaking ask me out. :XD

The only Facebook game I play right now is School of Wizardry. I'm horribly bored with it now though. I haven't finished it, but it's just to the point now of doing the simple process of "click click click" without any real excitement for me. xD

Maybe he'll ask you out sooner than you think. It does seem he's interested in that way. It's a shame school takes so much freakin' time. I'd be dead if I had a full load this semester. As it is I'm tired and generally just wanting to go to bed by 7pm most nights. I'm not really being a good partner right now.

Oh god, I play huge amounts of facebook games. It's absurd.

Yeah, he's taking fifteen hours this semester, too. All difficult courses (physics II, chem II, calculus II....)
I don't know, I guess things were different for me. I had plenty of time to be with my fiancee when I was taking only 15 hours. But then, I was kicking butt and taking names my senior year when I had 20 hours, two jobs, and a dog. Then vet school hit and I had no friends, no life, and never managed to get anything done.

I just wish he'd let me help him more. I could do so much to make his life easier, and it would be nothing for me right now. *sigh*
*stares at him some more*

I know that you've mentioned his stance on relationships right now, but what do you think might happen if you brought up perhaps having a relationship? Despite his reasons for not, I mean.

Might it be worth it? Edit: Talking to him, I mean. xD You don't think he'd get scared and run, right?

I don't know, honestly. The trouble is that I *desperately* need him as a friend. So I'm scared to push him too much, because it would risk losing the friendship. And I need friends *way* more than I need a boyfriend. Even though I'm practically in love with him. I feel like my best move is to wait patiently and push things along a little bit at a time by flirting and showing him that I would, in fact, improve his life and not take up more time than he can manage.

Follow your gut. After all, it doesn't seem like he's going to disappear or want the friendship to stop. :yes:

I agree with Izumi in that he sounds very much interested. However, as people we don't always act rational when we're frightened, so maybe it is best that you play your cards and observe patiently. It must be a killer though. DX

Oh, it is, it is. I totally rely on my girly gushing to you guys to keep my sanity, hehe.

Yah I think he's obviously smitten, but like a deer in headlights. He's probably just as worried about wrecking the amazing chemistry and wants to take things nice and easy. He's giving you TONS of clues though that he's interested. I mean the fact he stops by your work just to see you is so unbelievably cute and I would be so flattered. :heart: