This one time my mom came in my room and freaked out and me and my friend and she threw my sister's boyfriend out of the house. Very embarassing. But my parents already divorced. :] I went through the same thing with her boyfriend for a few years though. Thank god that's over and done with.

My parents fight over alcohol. My mom yells at my dad for drinking on Fridays, but then my mom drinks 2 whole bottles of wine (they're big) and starts screaming at everyone every single day of the week. :/ So, then, when Friday hits, they both have a big argument about how much the other one drinks.

I'm on my dads side, personally. My mom is the only one who starts the fights, by making some rude unnecessary remark toward him. I mean, he only drinks one day of the week, and she has the nerve to tell him he has a problem. She's a huge hypocrite, since she's a freaking alcoholic. :roll: Every day she gets drunk, every single day.

My mum and dad never have a pick o.o
My dad most of the time being sent to sea or isolate island because he works in this oil company as the engineer.My dad calls my mum everyday and they could probably spend three-four hours to talk >.>

My parents use to fight when I was younger, but they don't really anymore. It's not that things got better, though, just that my Mom kind of gave up. Now Dad just yells at her and belittles her about any little thing and she just apologizes. It's really depressing. But it's not worth trying to do anything about it. It'd just cause more problems.

I know why my parents aren't split up. It's because my dad told my mom that if he divorced her, he wouldn't pay for mine and my sister's college. And at this point, I don't think Mom really sees a point in getting divorced.

I just hide in my room. And get really pissed off.

My parent's house used to be hell on earth....I remember it was all because of my father, I hated him for several years ...then well when i got married and left the house I forgave him (because i didnt have to handle that anymore)
Now he always made me think I was the problem, but now that he is alone with mom , mom is the problem? so I thnk I won because it was proved that actually HE was the problem because he has problems with everyone.
Those were rough years, I remember how all the happiness one could be having dissappeared once he got home.It was like if you turned off all the lights, something changed in the air, I used to run to my room and spend ALL DAY in there until my mom was home and it was safe to go out.
He complained about every single move i used to do, every single noise, he complained if I ate, he complained about what I ate, if I had cleaned it wasnt enough and if I dissappeared, I was all day doing nothing....everything was negative for him....honestly my parents stood together because we didnt have any money and none of them could have afforded to move, but it was a real hell..

my parents fight all the time over alchohol because my mum is gettign so depressed she is startign to drink secretly and swears to stop but she never does

she even took up smoking and teh thign is its a never endign circle because the mroe they fight over her drinkign and smoking the more depressed she gets and wants to do these things

i really think she should see somebody about because i care for her very much so
and i get dragged into it and then end up getting into a more physcial fight with my dad

well.
i don't live with them anymore.
but my mom and her girlfriend fight all the time.
[my mom's a lesbian,
and her girlfriend lives with her,
incase there's any confusion.]
but i'll base this off of when i used to live there,
or when i go over to their house.

What do you do?
i usually just ignored it.
unless they were being really loud,
then their dog would come running to me,
and i'd hug him so he didn't get upset.

Do you try to stop them?
no, because it's none of my business.
unless it involves me.

Do you enjoy when they fight because you want them to split up?
i'm indifferent.
i don't hate it that they fight,
mostly because i don't live there anymore,
but i don't want them to break up.

Do you try to help one of them?
sometimes.
it's usually my mom who calls me crying,
so sometimes i get involved.

Do you just hide in your room?
not really.
most of the time, i make excuses to go to the kitchen,
or i'll stay in the living room,
because i want to hear what's going on.

Do you go out until the fight is over?
considering i don't live there anymore,
i can leave whenever i want,
but they don't usually fight while i'm over anymore.
however, when i lived there,
if they were dragging me into it,
i called a friend to pick me up,
and left until they calmed down.

Well my dad and mom always fight its so embarrising
What do you do?
Stop!!!
Do you try to stop them?
Yes many of times,But all they do is fight and yell.
Do you enjoy when they fight because you want them to split up?
I rather them spilt up!
Do you try to help one of them?
I usally help my Mom
Do you just hide in your room?
Most of the times or then i go and say stop to them both!
Do you go out until the fight is over?
Sometimes i do if i can get by

I hate it when my parents fight, and they fight a lot.
I used to help my mom all the time because I felt so bad for her since she's already very stressed.

It's usually my dad who starts arguments about the dumbest things.
He'll just say something to piss her off on purpose and to start a fight when he's bored or something.
God, it's so frustrating.
But i've given up on trying to stop them, it only makes them take out all their anger on me.
And helping my mom also makes them both pissed at me.
So now I just ignore it.

I hate fights.
And it hurts to see my mom being sad or anything, but I guess I can't do anything about it so I just stay out of it.

My mom and dad never really fought, but when I moved out of the house and in with my best friend (garage apartment over her parents house) I did get a good taste of it. Her parents were always at each others throats. It hurt their family so badly and they just didn't care. Their 9 year old would cry and beg them to stop, their teenage son would go hide in his room, and my friend would go and help her baby sister. It was horrible. They're divorced now, and the whole family is better off for it. I really hate it when people stay together because of 'the kids'. Kids don't need to be raised in misery.

well may parents always fight with each other. when they are fighting, i cannot stop them beacuse i might just add up in thier fight. they just said that its natural for them to fight because in a relationship, fighting is the way so that their bond will be stronger.

sometimes i just cry in my bed because i dont know why they are fighting, i dont know what to do. i just pray and pray and pray.

i just prayed that even though they are fighting, they will not think about breaking up with each other because i dont want to have a broken family.

well, even though i know the problem, i cant stop them because they wont listen to me.

well, thats thier argument. i might just make that argument bigger if i get involved. just be happy!

:D

Generally my parents don't fight too much and when they do, it is verbal fighting.
If I'm around, sometimes I'll say something along the lines of "listen to yourselves! you're fighting over the stupidest thing!" ... because they are most of the time fighting about something completely stupid or inane...
Sometimes I wish they would just get a divorce or something >> Sometimes I do wonder why they stay married... They seem really unhappy with each other... They don't even sleep in the same room anymore unless a guest is staying or something... My mom sleeps in the bedroom while my dad "sleeps" downstairs on the couch -.-; By sleeps, I mean passes out for he recently (within the past year or so) has decided to become a heavy drinker and according to my mom, he was an alcoholic in the past and went to AA meetings...

I hate it when my parents fight. Usually because they find some way to blame it on me, or take their anger out on me. When they can't bully eachother anymore, they turn on me and use me as a scapegoat. Its so frustrating sometimes, I flat-out want to tell them to fuck off.

I think the important thing to show your child is how to RESOLVE the conflict, disagreement, arguement, whatever.

I do think that at any age child doesn't need to witness their arguing, mainly because it's probably just scary to him,and what kids need at this age is security (well, at all ages really!) but ultimately, as your child gets older and has more comprehension skills, I would say that you are correct in feeling that your child needs to see ''healthy'' disagreements between you two, but as I said, also needs to see ''healthy'' resolutions as well. I have a step daughter who has never learned how to face, let alone deal with conflict or conflict resolution because her mother was of the same opinion of your husband. This is a very important life skill.

my doctor told my mom ,It sounds like your husband also grew up in a household where healthy resolutions to problems/arguements/disagreements were never presented to him. How does he deal with conflict?

I have a friend that gets upset sometimes when her dad and mom fight (which isn't that often - currently ;-]). She'll say to us, ''Stop arguing!'' To which we both reply, ''it's ok to argue or to have disagreements, as long as you can come to a solution in the end.''

There is no way to avoid conflict in ones lifetime. Better to prepare your child for it and with tools to show them how to do it effectively and respectfully. your allowed to disagree!