I had a crush on junior high, at first he was nice to me, but turned out he was just playing with my feelings and he really hurt me there.. It took about a year to get over him..

and other was this guy that lived in another city, he'd always say he loved me, but he cheated on me the best he could while I wasn't around.. >.> yep, took two years to get over him.

but nah.. I've grown wiser xD I think.

I’ve had a crush on a guy for over three years now. We’re really good friends and we even flirt. I liked him for over two years now. And he knows I like him. I’ve been a talking buddy when he’s been down or he’s having a rough time with his current girlfriends. But last December he proposed to his girlfriend.

You would think that would put an end to things, but it really hasn’t. I’m a friend of his fiancé as well, which makes matters worse. I usually know when to keep out of troublesome situations, but I haven’t quite backed out of this one yet. : /

Oh I have had plenty of them. My worst was when I got on a guy because he gave me a complement when I was new to the school and I was a bit of a loner plus he had really deep and beautiful eyes. I had a crush on him for a while but eventually just got over him since I knew he never liked him.

yeahh i cant get over this guy who im been liking for 3 years >< hes a total jerk and i cant get over him

Originally Posted by Aisha Woku

I’ve had a crush on a guy for over three years now. We’re really good friends and we even flirt. I liked him for over two years now. And he knows I like him. I’ve been a talking buddy when he’s been down or he’s having a rough time with his current girlfriends. But last December he proposed to his girlfriend.

You would think that would put an end to things, but it really hasn’t. I’m a friend of his fiancé as well, which makes matters worse. I usually know when to keep out of troublesome situations, but I haven’t quite backed out of this one yet. : /

sounds like somebody is going to get hurt there.. those kind of situations are bad. >.< I think you should back off before anything happens there..

Uhm
when I came to Australia someone who went to the same class told my friends he likes me and it makes me like him too back in three years ago but the thing is, none of us dare to talk to each other. I decide to go to college in other state while I heard he stays and go to college in here. I was quite glad because I thought i could move on with my life but alas just yesterday at mall he told my friend he change his mind to the same college I want to go to >.>

I had a crush on this one person so bad.
Sadly, she liked my friend and they are going 2 years strong! (which sucks because I introduced them!) I still like her but I'm proud at how much they overcame.

I always had crushes on guys who either wound up liking one of my friends or who were way out of my league. It was so frustrating when I was flirting my heart out trying to get a guy to notice me just to find out, he likes my friend. I don't have to worry about that now because I'm married but, that's a feeling I will never forget.

I had a crush on my before he was my step cousin, but then that I was able to forget shortly after he was. Though one of my friends I had a strong crush for, but then in high school I actually got a boyfriend, it was only THEN did my crush tell me had some feelings for me. He was the second friend of mine to tell me that had a crush on me AFTER I got a boyfriend.(girl in real life)

I wouldn't know. Never had a crush. Never fallen in love until now. And I'm not sure it is love. Lol. I've gone out and all but never had a crush. Damn my life is sad. Lol.

And have you ever heard that saying. 'If you love something let it go. If it was meant to be it'll come back to you' Well that's about it. And something I don't love keeps comeing back no matter how far I fling him. Lol. - MayLily

Ahaha. Story of my life. Every single serious crush I've had ended up being on a guy that hooked up with one of my close friends. >_< See, when this first happened, I convinced myself to get over the guy because my friend was truly happy with him and he truly happy with her. And then I had a crush on another guy and the EXACT SAME THING HAPPENED. He hooked up with another one of my close friends and I got over the guy. And then the first guy breaks up with his girlfriend before he goes to college, which happens to be the same as me. ...for some inexplicable reason, I start falling for him again. And then he confides in me that he likes this other random girl from korea but feels like he's betraying his old girlfriend by liking her. >[email protected] And so, I convinced myself to give up on him. ...and the other guy, who ALSO somehow ended up going to the same college as me (what an uncanny coincidence), is now one of my really good friends and I have the feeling that I could fall for him quite easily. ...but I won't because he still has his girlfriend, and I think of him more like a brother at this point.

...I think part of the problem with these two is that they're at the same college with me. They're familiar. I've spent most of my life with them in high school and middle school. And up here everything is just strange and far away. Maybe I've just been reaching out to anything that I can. ...Meh.

I remember haveing also a stupid crush, but it was a bit different tha yours. I remember, that this summet I fell in love with a guy I didn't even know. Yes, it was a love at first sight and I cold do nothing about it. That really depressed me. I could'n get over him for... in about 5 months. Thank god I got a boyfriend and eventually fell for him more than on that mysterious guy.

I've given up on crushes irl. I just kinda go through my day without paying attention to anything or anyone around me and I don't really have to worry about it.

Having a crush that you can't stop thinking about... That's happened to me quite a number of times. x3

Trying to get over it just makes it worse, what I eventually had to do was just... Not think about it at all. :x

Oh yes, pretty much everyone I've been strongly attracted to, I haven't had much of a chance with. It does take a while, but given enough time and determination, you can get past it. Although I will admit to still indulging in unnecessary ogling - it's one thing resigning yourself to not having a shot, it's another thing trying to make yourself not physically attracted.

I had a crush on my best guy friend for like two years D:

Then I got over it, started developing a crush on another guy friend I'd just met, but gave up on that too.
Then a week after I gave up on that, he asked me out.
That was two and a half years ago, and we've been dating ever since~

So: don't give up!!

xD I've had a few stupid crushes over the years.
Most happened during my four years at High School.

But nowadays i'm not really part of that craze anymore.
I'll date, but i'm not openly seeking someone to date.
If it happens, it happens.

Aww, I'm sorry. That must really suck. :C </3

Well...I actually was on the other end of the situation. My best friend really liked this one dude, and that one dude actually had a crush on me. Well, I'm pretty much oblivious so I didn't have the slightest clue. Now that I look back, I feel so guilty. I feel like I stole him away from her. :C

I recently, and very quickly fell out of a crush I've had going for a while. This guy was so hot, and looked at me constantly. When I thought everything was fine, his friend who looks like he's ten, and a fat little pig said,"Uh, me and my friend don't like you, so uh, you need to stop looking over here." I snapped mentally. I said, "Um, number one I wasn't even looking over here, and number two, why would I be interested in this?" I motioned to the guy I liked, and the little fat kid. The little fat one went, "OH!" Like, "How dare she not say she likes us!?" So now, I don't look at the guy I liked much, but he still looks at me tons. But now, I like this guy in my gym class, who is a freshman like me! :D The guy I liked was a sophomore. :? But since that day, I really wanted to just smack my old crush so hard, and I still do.

Holy crap, I know how you feel I believe.
I REALLY liked the same guy for five years *still do sadly* and it turned to love in the last couple of years. I never wanted to tell him and in the beginning he was a really good friend of mine and once I realized how I felt I didn't want him to know. I wanted him to stay my best friend and didn't want to freak him out that I had feelings for him. Eventually I had to confess and he kinda already knew but said he loved me as a friend anyway and didn't mind me feeling for him.
A year later he got a girlfriend and I've kinda...been avoiding him a little because even though I'm almost over him it still hurts to see him with someone else after liking for so long. ><; I'm retarded I know but I can't help it.

I always had crushes on jocks. The jocks that would play pranks on people, and torture them later on throughout the year. >_<

I use to smack myself over the head every time I found out another one of my crushes was in fact an idiot.

I've had plenty of silly crushes in my lifetime, well, mostly throughout my teenage years.

One of them I only liked for a period of 24 hours almost exactly. He treated me really nice and it wasn't until two years later that I realised he had liked me at the time...strange but true. He kept asking me whether i liked him, and yeh, I had no idea why he asked so I told him 'as a friend'. Gosh, didn't realise I was hurting him everytime I said that.

I used to really like my friend a lot. He’s in a band and he always had these fans following him around, which annoyed me, it still does annoy me quite a bit. I just don’t like other girls randomly trying to pick up on him when they don’t even know him. He thinks it’s funny, which it is at times. I no longer have a crush on him because I met my husband.

I have had many crush issues... Of course, I have my "oh, he's nice to look at" group and my "wow he talked to be and seems like a nice guy group"

In elementary school I used to like the cutest boy in school....along with every other girl in the school. All I talked about was him and he knew we liked him but he only went for the prettier and more willing girls if you know what I mean. I got over him but I felt so stupid when I liked him.