It's odd, so I'll explain the story.

First off, I am a Sophmore in Highschool. I transfered to a new school this year, without knowing anyone, for personal reasons. The school is preety nice, It's not perfect, but i like it better then my old school. Anyways, Within one week of going to this school, I started going out with this girl who I will call Sara on this thread. It seemed like a good idea at first, but I guess we just didn't realy connect. It felt kind of wrong to be with her... Like I was guilty of something. I made tons of new freind including this one really cute guy named Aleck. We hug and stuff and have inside jokes, ect, but i don't think he's Bi.
Anyways, after about 2-3 weeks of going out with Sara, we finally broek it off. I found out a week later that she was going out eith my friend Aleck. I got rally jealous, not because I till like Sarah, but i think I like aleck... It's scary. It makes me sad to she him hold her hand, and kiss her... When I really like him... What should I do? SHould I tell him?

wow...ummmmm i have no good or great experiances about somthing like this. Do u know who his clostest friend besides u? Maybe u could ask them some questions about Alecks preferences & things u didnt know.

You could ruin your friendship if you did... I mean, maybe rent chuck and larry, and see how he reacts to the whole homosexual thing. Stupid idea, but it might work.

Or you could just tell him your bi, and leave out the whole crush thing. If he doesn't accept you, then it's his loss. If he does...Then you can eventually wait till his relationship ends with her(Which it likely will, because most highschool relationships do) then slowly make a move on him, if he is also bi.

I wish you good luck. I hope everything works out for the best... Sorry I'm a very practical person..So.. Yeah...>_<

I don't have much advice here.

But perhaps try to find out if he's bi or gay first. I mean...if he's straight...well, it'll be like "...er..."

Then if he is bi or gay, then great!

Good luck with this! <3

I think you should find out if he istolerant of bi people and then if he is you should ask him. Only ask though if you know he is not a jerk who will spread rumors about you. A dclose friend will understand and say no but still hang with you even if they reject you as a boyfriend.