It's a language, but ok. >.> Thank you.

Ew. I lost gold. D: That's so not fair.

You really do need to get out of the relationship, hun. He hit you and he'll never stop.

Honey you dont deserve this. No woman or man deserves this. I say man as well for i know some woman like to beat on there men. Not saying anyone here does i just have seen that happen as well.

I personally believe that no one in the relationship should hit the other for any reason. Now joking is one thing if there is no force or anything then its just playing but i mean if a woman or man goes out to hurt then where is the love? I mean if you truly care for someone you want to protect them from harm not give it to them.

I would leave him and tell someone close to you that way they can watch out for you. If he is stalking you. And you tell him you dont want to be with him anymore. He has hit you once while with you why would that stop him from hurting you just b/c your not with him. If he knows you no longer want him that may hurt or make him angry and then violent people are really bad when angry they could seriously hurt you or even kill not meaning to until its all over. Thats why someone needs to always keep a eye on you or go to the cops and put a restraining order against him and if you even see him come near you call the cops and he can get into serious trouble. If you put the restraining order on him adn he still messes with you then file charges make him pay if he cant listen and just let you live your life without him!

I hope everything works out for you and things get better. However i wish you take all our advice and not stay with him. I dont want to see another women hurt i hate violence!

Well my options were, either wait for him to hit me again go to the police with the proof or get a restraining order.
Right now I'm working on getting a restraining order, but it'll take a little while...
I love him, but my brother found out about him hitting me and he has his friends 'taking' care of him. And his friends won't leave me alone either.
Like they're following me to make sure he doesn't come around me or I don't go to him.
It's kind of scary but I guess it's for my own good...

I love your kitty clip.. >>

Can't you just leave him and stay with someone else? Does your brother have a place you could stay at? What about your parents? Aunts, Uncles, cousins, grandparents, anywhere but with the pig? >.<

Even though I only know you as an avatar, I care about you and I don't want you to stay where he could hurt you again.. T__T; ~Clings to Secret~

I've seen that kind of relationship before, and I fully agree. You must get out ASAP. For your own physical and mental well-being.

Do check to see if a close relative or a good friend can have you stay over, maybe even for good. Much better than being with that...monster.

Originally Posted by .~.Secret.love.~.

Well my options were, either wait for him to hit me again go to the police with the proof or get a restraining order.
Right now I'm working on getting a restraining order, but it'll take a little while...
I love him, but my brother found out about him hitting me and he has his friends 'taking' care of him. And his friends won't leave me alone either.
Like they're following me to make sure he doesn't come around me or I don't go to him.
It's kind of scary but I guess it's for my own good...

Well at least you know that they are people who care about you following you round. They're making sure that your safe because they don't want anything like that to happen to you again because as I've said before you're in a vunerable state.

Originally Posted by .~.Secret.love.~.

Well my options were, either wait for him to hit me again go to the police with the proof or get a restraining order.
Right now I'm working on getting a restraining order, but it'll take a little while...
I love him, but my brother found out about him hitting me and he has his friends 'taking' care of him. And his friends won't leave me alone either.
Like they're following me to make sure he doesn't come around me or I don't go to him.
It's kind of scary but I guess it's for my own good...

good that you have your brother and his friends on your side.. allthough it might feel creepy, but atleast you know you'll be safe! :3

Yeah it is really creepy. Like theres three of them just in the house. One in the living room, one outside my room, and one hanging out in his car.
It's crazy. They're supposed to follow me everywhere. And my ex just called me yelling at me asking me why he was being followed!
I told him it was his own fault for hitting me.
He told me I'd better stop or I'd be sorry, I informed him he'd best not be threating me.
He apologized and swore up and down he would stop if I told them to lay off. I told him I couldn't cause I didn't have any command over them.
But I'm happy now that I have someone to protect me. I'm thinking of asking my "body guard" as I've started calling them, well the one that's outside my room. I might just ask him to come inside cause it is really boring outside all by himself...

Well, I think it's good your brother found out. Now you can be protected. Though it's a bit odd that he has that much control over his friends XD

Is it like a gang or something? Or, maybe your friends with his friends? My brother would never do such a thing for me. Then again he doesn't have friends that would follow me around to make sure I don't get hurt.

They don't like...Go EVERYWHERE with you do they? Like..If you go to the bathroom they don't stand outside the door? If so, that's...really wrong and creepy...

My brother is in a gang...I'm not proud of it...I hate it actually, but what can I do?

They do actually follow me to the bathroom, they stand right out side the door.
I haven't left my house at all today. I feel sicky too.
I have to work tomorrow, but I don't know if my brother will let me go.

Oh well, I can always call in sick.
It is really creepy, but the guys aren't too hard on the eyes. LOL.

You could phone up your boss and tell them that you've been raped and you need some time to get over it and you might also want to tell them that your waiting to see what happens with the police.

He's a sick little bastard.
He has no sane reason to be hitting you, then turning around and having sex/rape.
Distance yourself from him as much as you can.
He tries comming around tell him to get lost, and if he persists act distant and make sure to involve police.
If he's seriously stalking you, maybe tell him you're pregnant?
He might get scared and run away.
x'D
But seriously, make sure as many trusted people know as possible.
Try to travel in groups and if possible, close the blinds in your work place.
If he ever sends you messages on your cell phone, or calls it repeatedly, switch to the automated machine response for a while and if possible have his number blocked.
I pray you'll be free from him soon, but don't let him get away unnoticed.
He needs to pay for what he did, so no other woman has to suffer through that.

No you didn't diserve it no one diseves something like that . He basicly had sex with you without your permission and thats just plain wrong lemme know if things change k?