question is: there is this guy at school. i just came there. i am new there. i had to get a peer helper(it's a BIG skewl) so, a girl helped me. her name is ling. she has 2 classes with me. one of the classes, i have ling with, the guy (charlie) is in there. he sits in front of me. luckily, ling knows him so i started to talk to him. he wrote me a note saying "she likes me!" because ling keeps talking bad to him and his friend Harrison. 2 days later(thanksgiving), ling has to leave during 4 period so she asked me if i wanted charlie to help me. i said sure. and he's soooo cutee. at every class he dropped me at, he said bye. when he dropped me to 4th period, he said, "have a good day. bye" i was like "you too" in my head..
at the end of the day, he walked me to my bus. we were the first ones to go out there. it was snowing. i was like omg! i got in my bus and he said, "bye see you on monday! happy thanksgiving!" i said "you too" in my head... i just said "bye"
i want to ask him out but, ling likes him soooo....i dunno...
what shhould i do???

HELP!

Eh, there's a big problem.
Maybe discuss the matter with her? See if it's okay and what not.

If she just has a minor crush and your 'obsessed' (or vice-versa)then the 'obsessed' one should ask him out.

Unless niether of you are 'obsessed' then theres really no point in straining your relationship with Ling.

[I think that sounds right? -_____-; - and I think that's what you meant.]

Of course, there's also the alternative, ask him out behind her back? xD
Probably not though

Hmm. That is a problem, isn't it?

Well, do you know for a fact that Ling likes him? Or do you just think that because Charlie says so? If Charlie just said so then first off you should go and ask Ling. If she says no, make sure she's not just denying it. If she says yes, then forget about it and just keep crushing from afar. If she says no, then tell her about how you feel and work it out with Ling. It's always great to hear a friend's advice.

Unless she already knows you like him O__O Then idk what you should do. I'm pretty sure nothing i said made any sense, but good luck with your problem! Like i said, a boy isn't worth a friendship..ever D:

• I guess my advice would be to ask her whether or not she likes him. And then, whether she says yes, my guess is that her next question would be "Why?" And then I'd say, "Well, I do like him, but I didn't want to put a strain on our friendship. I thought that maybe you liked him." And you know, if she does like him then forget about it, if she doesn't then make sure she'd be okay with you going for it. ^u^
  
  That's just the way I'd do it. It might not be the best way, but... it's a possiblilty? :3

You might want to get to know charlie a bit more first before you decide on anything.
It doesn't appear as if you've talked too much with him.
But good luck!

Well, talk to Ling about it.
See if she really does like him. If she does... honestly, the best solution here is for neither of you to go out with him.
Even if one of you agrees to let the other date him, the one left out will obviously be jealous and such things can strain a friendship.

If she doesn't, go for it. No reason not to.

To decide too fast that you like someone is rather risky because you really don't know the guy that much and for what you wrote you are letting us know that you know him because Ling presented him to you. And if she has said that she likes him then that would prove it but have a guy writing you a note saying that she likes him is rather weird?

I would suggest to know the guy better before jumping to the conclusion of liking him and try to conserve the friendship that you have at the moment with Ling.

I think that maybe you should have a nice long talk with Ling.
Or even just get to know him a lot better and be really sure that you like him before you strain your relationship with her.
You dont want to ruin a perfectly good friendship over a guy!
Always remember, bros before hos!

but ling always says "no" i just know that she likes him she always says "charlie likes me" im like "ok?"

Wait, lemme get this straight.
She says he likes you or her?

Yeah just talk to her and see if she really likes him or just says she does for the attention of likeing someone that other people like. You never know you may just get your guy. Love or crushes is an awkward thing but I never go against friends as they are what stick around for the long hall when you need them, they will generally be there and will cheer you up. Friends are better then crushes.