Yeah, but sex is sex.
Yeah I do have to accept it, I'm letting go slowly.
Oh I know that I'm going to be marked as a whore, but oh well...
I'll move to another state.
lol. ^0^

My boyfriend said, " You should be a pornstar that way you get a lot of sex." lol.

Woah... this is EXACTLY like a problem my friend has.
She still likes him and everything.. they were together for a year, he got MEGA shitty at her when he found out she was sleeping with other guys. And he was sleeping with other chicks too!!

Oh and she still sleeps with him. Just because she loves the sex.
D:
I HATE him >_>
Anyhoo... she has just found new interest in a new guy, like actual feelings starting to come on.
I say you get out and find guys that you can actually get serious with... get this old guy out of the way since he's lingering in your past...

I don't think its wrong as long
as you are comfortable with what you
are doing and as long as you are old
enough to be able to do it as well. I think
that there are alot of double standards in
this world that really isn't fair to women
in general but I also think that if you are
doing it for the wrong reasons thats when the
double standards are right.

As long as you're careful with the sex, I don't think that's the problem here at all. o_o The problem is that your ex has some definite double-standard/clinginess issues. He doesn't deserve to be mad at you for sleeping with people.

You don't have to stop sleeping with other people (but again, I repeat: be VERY careful. Not just about getting pregnant, but about diseases. Pregnancy can hurt you, but an STD can kill you.), but do stop sleeping with him. It sounds like a connection that you really shouldn't have anymore.

Good luck.

Originally Posted by Dreamz

Oh my god, youre only 18 and youve had multiple partners. This can be a problem, you are an adult but yet still young. First of all, if you want to forget your ex, stop seeing him, perhaps stop talking to him also, its good for both of you, if you both want to move on. Second, those guys youve been having sex with, are you sure they are not just using you for pleasure, this is what it seems like, and if youre after pleasure also, you can never find love and you will just get hurt. Using condoms can sometimes fail, I have friends who had multiple sex with several guys and she got pregnant and she was using a condom. Now she doesnt know who the father is and stuck with noone. All the guys backed out. I dont want this to happen to you so just be aware of what youre doing and what complications it may bring.

Tell her to take them all to court, and get them all blood tested to see who the father is. Also, which one does the baby look like?

Well, it can end up being a problem. Condoms aren't always affective, and if the guys know about you sleeping with other guys, whose to say they won't go and sleep with other girls who might be carrying an STD or something?
I'd say its wrong for your ex to be that way, but I was in the same situation at one time.

I had broken up with my boyfriend for about...2 months maybe, and we started hooking back up. Then I started hooking up with his best friend, my ex basically hooked us up. My ex started getting mad and asking questions that really upset me "Is his penis bigger than mine?" "Is he better at sex than me" eventually I got fed up with it and told him the truth, and we haven't talked since. But the last time we slept together his best friend got upset, and I care a lot for this guy, and I decided not to sleep with my ex anymore. So now I'm sleeping just with my ex's best friend, and if my ex knew how much time we hung out together, he would get insanely jealous so we keep it on the downlow.

What I'm saying hun, is that jealousy might be taking a toll on this to your ex ;D
He might still care for you, but if you guys aren't going to get back together, you have your own life and you can live it however you want, and if he gets mad about that...then you might just have to let him go.

Goodluck

Of course it's not right if he really "loves" you he wouldn't be having sex with other girls because thats just stupid and wrong if you want the whole speel PM me

Hun, Your still young so it is ok to experiment, however, I would tell you that ten is way to many. You should cut it down to two maybe three. Not only that but Condom's are not that effective, they can slip or break or even if there is the tiniest hole in them, you can end up pregnant or worse, with some Venereal Disease. Which could either make you very uncomfortable, HIGHLY limit your sex life and or in some cases Kill you. I suggest going to the OBGYN and getting put on Birth Control or a IUD as well. Either that or go to the closest Free Clinic.

I am a very picky bitch, the people I have been with have always thought me crazy, but I always get them checked... Not only that, But I get checked every six months. ( I am very much in the BDSM community and go to a lot of shows and conventions, you never know who you will end up playing with/sceneing with/how clean everything is. So I'm anal about getting tested and being as careful as I humanly possibly can be)

As for your ex boyfriend issues, NO that is not right, that is a double standard. If he wishes you to stop sleeping with others, HE needs to stop sleeping with others and you need to get this across to him. If you still love each other and want to try again. Compromises will have to be made. If not, and you want him out for good. The first move is to STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM. That, just keeps them around longer, I know this... because my aunts one night stand turned into an 8 year relationship...of the bad kind. If you still want him as a friend or not. Is up to you, if you do, still talking to him is fine, but limit it until you are sure he is out of your system. Limit time out with him and never hang out alone. He will more than likely be prone to trying to talk you into, force you into and or trick you into sleeping with him again and or become so angry with you, abusive.

Not saying he would but they are possible outcomes of human nature. As for never wanting to love again... Someone as young as you shouldn't think that way, you will become bitter as you get older. Just remember, you don't have to settle yet. Go out, meet new people, experiment some (IN MODERATION NOT 10 GUYS... that borders whore >.>) and keep an open mind.