Ok. You might have to read this rant/blog a couple times before you understand this. I`m in a complete love...Square.

So here`s the situation...
Once upon a innocent time ago, I liked this guy who happened to be my best friend. (Funny how that happens all the time.) So before I told him I liked him he told ME that he used to have a crush on me, which was really weird since he had a very odd way of showing it. Anyway, I guess I ended up admitting I liked him to and we both just laughed it off and I got over it. Now the problem is, he moved to California after that. SO I thought,
"Ok now he`s gone and I can just move on"
And I guess I did..for about half a year, I met someone great and liked him, but I continued to keep in touch with my previous friend. This is when it gets kinda complicated. We kept the friendship going and after about 3 months, it toally hit me...I was crushing on him..
AGAIN.

But the problem her is that HOW CAN I LIKE TWO PEOPLE AT ONCE?
;-;
I mean, they both have their good and bad qualities but it`s just not supposed to happen, and I also can`t decide who I`d rather stick with..

:/
So guess what? I admitted I liked him again, but it was less serious this time...
So he took it very nicely and said that he was already taken and he hoped I found someone better.
To be honest, I wasn`t heartbroken at all.
I mean...I LIKED him.
But I guess I needed to get it out of my system,
But hes almost addictive,
I can`t STOP liking him..
But I`m starting to like him less now...
D:

Help?
<3

*snugs* Poor Moofy!

Angels best advice is:
If he's already taken and he lives so far away and you like the other one too...Go for the other one. Maybe take a little break from distance boy for a while. Concentrate on near boy.

Thankee angel <33
Sounds very reasonable.
^^

-snuggles back-

It's ok to like two people at once, if this best friend was your first love, part of you is always going to crush on him/be attracted to him. For some odd reason, this is generally something that happens with first loves, as they have a huge impact. But with all things considered, he's taken, lives far away and you have someone here and now who you can focus on and who will more than likely help you to move on past your best friend.

As for How can you like more than one person at a time, thats normal.. it happens to everyone and your not a freak <3 for feeling that way.

Thanks tir <3
^^

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Wow. That was a very good explanation, a lot of things make sense now, I suppose he was my first crush it would always be there.
Why can`t boys come with a User`s Manual.
:33

Moofy was a freak from the start so no worries there. ;P

Boy's are like cars, you love them when they work for you but you hate it when you have to get under the hood XD.

I just speak from experience, my two frist loves (I'm Bi so I say two... One male one female o.- and you think your odd >.<) I am still greatly attached to. In fact I still date one of them, when she's not being difficult -..0 girls are almost as bad as boys. They will always be close to me and very close to my heart.

lol, that's a love triangle, not a square. I think... You should just stop talking to the guy you like less now, that's in california.

I don't think he's worth it. so just I don't know.. Stop talking to him. It's not too hard. Plus, you two are bound to grow apart anyway, due to the distance.

@Tir: :0
Nicely put xDD
(Oh yes, I`m pretty weird myself)
I hope you have good luck with your love life and tell the haters to go rape a cow.
:] <3

@fuyumi: Well, It is sort of a square since HIS girlfriend is one of my friends too. o___O
Well, technically we haven`t met in real life.
3-way phone convo? xD

Yeah, It probably isn`t worth it.

Can I tell you... Totally off topic... the phrase "Go rape a cow" and your siggy has made my night. Thank you.

Rofl <3
No problem. n_n
If it makes you any happier you may eat it.
I have hoards of replacements..
Somewhere..
8)

Oh, so it is a square...Well.... Hmm..*blinks* If he has a girlfriend, then... yeah...

One thing you have to understand is there' more than one type of "love" I found.

One is the "I want to be with them" love, and the other is the "Friendship type love".

For me I love 2 people, they're both awesome people, but only one I would want to spend the rest of my life with. The other is just a friend who I care about more than the average friend ^^. It's just a different type of love, though at first it was confusable as the other kind.

Hmm.

Just really think in your heart of hearts, who makes the most since?

Originally Posted by Jayms_fallen_angel

*snugs* Poor Moofy!

Angels best advice is:
If he's already taken and he lives so far away and you like the other one too...Go for the other one. Maybe take a little break from distance boy for a while. Concentrate on near boy.

I agree with her. :] Sounds like the best idea right now. ^^ I'm sure things'll work out fine in the end. :]

Thank you all ^^
Your kind words of wisdom have helped me make a choice <3
Even though my problem is small and silly, your support helped.
:]

<3