Sorry for the long rant/blog/blurb but i just need help


Okie so heres the deal
Basically i had this really cool friend, who i still love to bits (friendly love)

But things happened
The guy shes dating now i went out with over two years ago, i ended with him for circumstances that dont need to be mentioned

She is now going out with this guy about a week after i broke with him (it didnt hurt me :) )
A few years have passed and i thought that my friendship with her was great i cared for her and i thought she cared for me

Lately shes changed and now is constantly snogging this guy and completely ignores the fact im there
Okay it hurt coz i like to be spoken to
she complains that i cannot even say im being ignored because i never talk anyways

But really how can i talk to someone who has their tongue down the other persons throat
i dont think she understands me at all
recently we had an arguement and regrettably we fell out.

She said that she never liked me and i was just there as like a follower basically.
So what i dont understand is how could someone be like that when ive been there for them through thick and thin never asked much of them and always helped when im needed

I dont usually mind but ive known her for a while and shes changed, she says she hasnt done anything wrong and that this is who she is and if i cant accept it then im basically stupid

shes being really immature and i just wanna know how to get through to her ive tried the " i used to care, but now i dont youve hurt me too much" approach which did work for like 2 days but now she sits in the corner of a room sniggering with her BF and looking over in my direction so if thats not immature then i dont know what is ::{there is more to this but to explain it all would be alot of time}::

Please offer some advice:
Negative and positive is welcome <3

Thankies


::{Nixieâ„¢}::

How are you two in the same room together? Maybe you should just flip her the bird, she sounds like a b*tch.

If I were you, I wouldn't even look in her direction, and just completely ignore her. Find some new friends to hang out with, nicer ones. That's really all I can think of..

Thanks for your advice and were in the same room cos were in the library xD

And its funny coz everyone says that about her
Maybe your right but its hard coz she was the first friend i made in yr 10 so itsx hard to just let her go weve been thru so much together
and i dont really know what is emant by "flip her the bird lol could you explain what you mean ?

that usually happens when people couple up, they forget about their friends and often the loved one becomes more important than the old friend.. and while it might not bother you that you've been with the same guy, it might bother her.

just try to give it some time, I'm sure you'll work it out if you've been friends for so long.

Flipping the bird = middle finger. lol

She sounds very petty. Perhaps you're better off without her. If she sees no value in your friendship than maybe you just need new friends ^^

Oh I know! You could slip a whoopie cushion underneath them while they're too busy snogging to notice...

Iy
@Borginyon: thankies for the advice and that seems pretty cool idea lol certainly give them a surprise they werent expecting any who

@Sagitar: thanks for the advice ill try and get some other friends that appreciate the fact im their friend altho thats really hard at my school coz theyre all really stuck up snobs xD

Originally Posted by fuyumi_saito

How are you two in the same room together? Maybe you should just flip her the bird, she sounds like a b*tch.

If I were you, I wouldn't even look in her direction, and just completely ignore her. Find some new friends to hang out with, nicer ones. That's really all I can think of..

*nods* Forget about her. She's not worthy of your time, nor care. She's acting like an immature bitch and you're worth so much more than her.

Forget her and move on.

Might sound hard and all, but really, I've done it twice in my life already, so I can tell you that you'll survive and feel a lot stronger afterwards.

I think she is just being plain rude to you
by ignoring you and paying all attention on him.
I have always given the rule that friends are more
important than guys. So I have always been careful
not to cross over that line where I might be ignoring
my friends and spending too much time with boyfriends
or whatever. Have you tried spending time with her with
out the boyfriend? or doesn't she want to hang out if he
isn't there? I think maybe give the friendship some
space and hopefully she will start missing you and will
try to make the effort. I think that if you keep making
the effort and she isn't doing anything good for you then you'll just end up being hurt and disapointed. Don't try so hard with her coz obviously she isn't doing
it in return. But I do hope things are able to be worked out between you two if its meant to be

First of all let me point out something which still circles my mind. . .

A week passes and she is going out with your ex, is kind of weird to tell you the truth and second to turn into this stuck up bitch and ignore you all the time and even snogging the guy none-stop in front of you is just a way to try and make you jealous which is kind of funny that isn't bothering you at all.

Are you sure that girl was your friend in the first place or was she interested on the guy a long time ago and just used you to get near the guy?

That girl right now is not even showing any piece of friendship to you at the moment to be frank.

You are worth more and you should make her show some respect toward you, every time she looks at your direction just smile at her and you will notice how mad she will get for just seen a smile on your face.