
03-04-2008, 11:50 PM
@Cherry Flavored A- I had an almost similar situation, but instead of my boyfriend's friend's hating me for being with him, they hated me for not returning his feelings right away. He was my best friend first and so I only saw him as that, when he told me he liked me we tried going out, but because I wasn't in love with him we broke up. I was scared of him hating me for not giving him the love he was giving me so I had to leave him. So his friends started talking about me and I found out later on. His friends aren't really bad people or anything and I understood that they were just sad for him, but it's none of their business and it's not just his life it's mine, too. I chose not to be with him until I was sure of my feelings which I finally cleared and we got back together again and we've been quite happy to this day which I believe wouldn't have happened if I had rushed things. I did talk to his friends and I flat out told them that I was sorry, but I just wasn't going to be with him until I was sure and that it was my life just as much as his. They didn't have much to say about it after that.
I think that the girl who keeps suggesting other people for your bf might be jealous or something. If she treats him that way she might be insecure about their friendship, like he's choosing you over their friendship, same goes for the other friend. Not sure, but it's just a thought.
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