Sososo....

I've been really confused lately, and it's mainly over the conduct of this one dude (who happen's to be an adorable geek who is pretty much adorable in everyway. and i have the biggest crush on him >_o)

cause sometimes he acts like he likes me too, and sometimes he's all like meh and then sometimes he's telling me all this personal stuff on aim/yim, and then sometimes he hardly replys and i am confused @[email protected]

and i'm really shy, and he's shy too, so i dunno whats going on XP

and the other day we were talking and i dont remember what we were talking about but then it somehow got on to relationships(again) and he said something about the kind of girl he was looking for and i stupidly said "I know someone exactly like that!"

and then realizing my mistake he sat there for a while trying to get a name out of me until i somehow managed to change the subject (to religion of all things XD)

and....i've actually been really tempted to tell him straight up that i like him, or tell him that the person who likes him and is perfect for him is actually me.


and....i dunno....

and...its not like i was lying either when i said that .
cause what he said did match me. not exactly, but pretty closely o=

and me and him have a ton in common. it's almost creepy sometimes o_o

so....im...CONFUSED.


and don't want to rant at my friends again cause i always rant at them and always about the same stuff >_<

I'd tell him. If you're both shy then it's just going to go on and on.
Just blurt it out sometime, kind of like you did before.
It's either that or just keep doing the same thing. He might even like that you took the initiative.

Oooh, is this Cloud?

Tell him you like him, even if it isn't.
>3 Take your chances, for once! -prodprodpoke-


-POKE-
By the way. People are confused by ME, thinking I'm angry, because I'm easily distracted when I'm on the computer (maybe watching a video to getting into editing graphics somewhere.. anything). They think I'm angry at them, or not liking them anymore (when we're talking over MSN or AIM or something).
Maybe he's just got ADD like me? :3

You should definitely tell him!

Otherwise, you're always going to regret it.

Oh god, same situation as myself. I finally got the courage to tell the guy I like that I like him. He doesn't like me back in the same way of course. Just really good friends. He'll talk about so many things that sort of tug at your heart right? Yet he doesn't know he's doing it. ;__________;

I think yooh shuld tell him =/
i dun think yooh wanna sit here for 3 years wondering if he realli lyked yooh or not.
mayb he does, nad if he doesnt, yooh still can be bffl :33

Tell him. It's always the answer.
Basically, my metaphor is it's like ripping off a band-aid. You can just suck it up and talk to him... it'll be painful and awkward (it usually is) but at least then it'll be out there and if it works out, great. If not, there are plenty of other guys. Or... you can draw it out for months trying to interpret all the ridiculous little 'signs' and planning for the perfect moment. Then you'll never end up asking and lose whatever chance you might have had. Jump on him! :O

Hey Wingless *huggles* I just think to get him thinking that you might be interested in him as more then friends by doing all the flirty stuff like touching him on the arm for more than whats needed, and looking into his eyes at the appropriate times. I know you two are shy but I think to get him feeling the tension or whatever you call it then someone needs to make the first move no matter how slight it is. So I hope things work out for you hon and goodluck in the love game!

go for it and tell him! :3 what can you really lose?
otherwise you're just going to continue squirming in your little crush behind his back and torturing yourself.. :3

I'm sure he likes you back in atleast some level.

Originally Posted by XxRAiNBoWS

Oooh, is this Cloud?

Tell him you like him, even if it isn't.
>3 Take your chances, for once! -prodprodpoke-


-POKE-
By the way. People are confused by ME, thinking I'm angry, because I'm easily distracted when I'm on the computer (maybe watching a video to getting into editing graphics somewhere.. anything). They think I'm angry at them, or not liking them anymore (when we're talking over MSN or AIM or something).
Maybe he's just got ADD like me? :3

yes, it's cloud X3


hmm....I never thought of that! o=
you may be right.... o= it certainly is a likelihood at the school i go too XD everyones either ADD ADHD or OCD XDD

Lovvy: love is like a bandaid... i like the metaphor X3
i suppose i know in my heart i should do such...but i'm horridly shy XP

Jennifer: yes, he's the only one ive ever said something to about rammstein, computer programming, OS, Magic: the gathering, Final fantasy, and chess too and had him UNDERSTAND it all O_O


Pixore, Haven, Kandi, Sagitar: I think you guys are right. i mean, it'll either be amazing and we'll date, or ill know for sure and then get over him and have an awesome friendship X3

aaaaaah i wish i wasn't shy XP

Woopi: ah, the flirtsy way, hmm? :wink:

i've been trying a little. it's complicated though by the fact since we have completly different schedules and everything i hardly ever get to see him >_<

he's a regular sophomore and i'm a crazy gotta-take-all-the-classes Junior, so I rarely ever see him >_<
much less get to talk to him



I have been planning to ask him to prom...if i can ever work up the courage >_<

I love geeks, too. ^^ I have one.

Why don't you just tell him that you like him and that you think you're perfect for each other? If he doesn't like you, I'm sure you could still be friends. It sounds like you really like him. Don't torment yourself further, just ask him if he likes you, too, since he acts like it.

And, hey, it's normal to want to rant to your friends about who you have feelings for. I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and I still always talk about him. That won't go away. : P

Originally Posted by WinglessFairy

Sososo....

I've been really confused lately, and it's mainly over the conduct of this one dude (who happen's to be an adorable geek who is pretty much adorable in everyway. and i have the biggest crush on him >_o)

cause sometimes he acts like he likes me too, and sometimes he's all like meh and then sometimes he's telling me all this personal stuff on aim/yim, and then sometimes he hardly replys and i am confused @[email protected]

and i'm really shy, and he's shy too, so i dunno whats going on XP

and the other day we were talking and i dont remember what we were talking about but then it somehow got on to relationships(again) and he said something about the kind of girl he was looking for and i stupidly said "I know someone exactly like that!"

and then realizing my mistake he sat there for a while trying to get a name out of me until i somehow managed to change the subject (to religion of all things XD)

and....i've actually been really tempted to tell him straight up that i like him, or tell him that the person who likes him and is perfect for him is actually me.


and....i dunno....

and...its not like i was lying either when i said that .
cause what he said did match me. not exactly, but pretty closely o=

and me and him have a ton in common. it's almost creepy sometimes o_o

so....im...CONFUSED.


and don't want to rant at my friends again cause i always rant at them and always about the same stuff >_<

I don't know about all guys but most of my friends would never bother telling a girl what we're looking for unless we cared. We may compliment them on how pretty they look if we like her figure, but the whole "what I want in a girl" is like the guy equivalent of girls going, "*Oggles you in the eyes*....My soulmate would be..." The difference is just that we don't have sparkles in our eyes when we give that presentation. ;) We're too busy trying not to swallow our tongues. We're not necessarily really good persay at explaining that "hey we like you."...actually, most of us don't want to say because we're afraid of getting shot down. Being shot down sucks LOTS...and most of us have been shot down once or twice and yeah, that made us feel tarded. Unfortunately, we're also not good at dropping hints and testing the waters because we're a little shy and we don't excel in verbal things like girls are.

It's like girls read faces, the things between lines, and operate on a whole different wavelength...body language and normal phrases we use to explain something to guys doesn't work with girls. You can't do something like, share chips for example, and expect girls to understand. You know, if I dislike someone, but I don't want to explain it, I just horde the chips when we watch football, and ignore them when they ask for chips. That's our way of saying "f-Off!" or "go get it yourself you lazy ***" to other guys. Childish...? Yeah probably. But it works. To a girl, me giving her chips doesn't mean jack. =/ But believe it or not, if I bother to grab chips and a drink for a guy, it's like the equivalent of roses to a girl, except in a completely non-gay way.

I feel that with girls, it's actions must be more exaggerated at times, but at other times more quiet. They sometimes overanalyze...small gestures. I dunno, like I said, they operate differently..

So basically, there are problems with guys communicating with girls. I think if you are better than the guy is at communicating and you really like the guy, take the initiative and talk to them first? Then as you get to know one another he may be able to understand better. :)

Muggles: heh, i just wish the geeks would love me to >_<

Stratholme: whoa,i never thought about that o=

as for the chips thing, i actually see it that way too. i mean, i wouldnt get up and go get someone something without them asking if i didn't like them, or if they were my best friends or something.

then again, i'm more of a boy than most girls.



...I told him i'd tell him today who it was who likes him o=

so...we'll see how this goes...

and i got a cold so now i look and feel like crap which isnt gonna help any >_<

So...I did finally tell him on aim....and then some stuff happened, but by the end it pretty much equated to i still don't know what's going on XP

aaaaaah!!

should I talk to him again? XP

i'm still confused @[email protected]