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04-08-2008, 03:43 AM
...true.
But it still makes me happy.
:3
I've never been told "I'm fond of you" before you said it Blondie, it still makes me all happy and tingly.
x3
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04-08-2008, 03:49 AM
You're kidding? No one has ever said that to you? Not an aunt or uncle or anyone?
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Winter Wind
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04-08-2008, 03:51 AM
Nope.
x3;;;
My parents haven't ever said I love you either.
x3
It's mostly been my ex-boyfriend who's said I love you or You're great or You're wonderful.
x3
But now my friends say I love you to me, so it's ohkay.
x3
Ohhh, will you be staying up late?
:3
Because I have to go practice piano and violin, but I haven't properly with you since your exchange days.
Dx
If not, goodnight, see you tomorrow! :3
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Blondheart
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04-08-2008, 03:52 AM
Your parents have never told you they love you?
And yes I will be up all night hon. I am workin a bit and chattin.
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Winter Wind
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04-08-2008, 04:42 AM
I'm somewhat back, my math homework is more important than anything.
...except for occasional visits to Mene.
<3 I'm so lame and non-prioritized. xD
Lol, nope.
I don't ever remember them saying anything close to I love you, except I do recall my mom telling me I was pretty, and my dad saying congratz because I got a firstplace ribbon.
x3
...that's about all.
xD
I suppose this is what happens when your parents are Chinese.
xDDDDD
Whatcha working on? :3
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Blondheart
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04-08-2008, 04:44 AM
Well hon some people have trouble expressing their feelings in words, but I am sure they love you immensely in their hearts. Have you ever said it to them?
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Winter Wind
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04-08-2008, 04:49 AM
I tried, when I was like 8.
I think all I got back was a "Uh-huh" from my dad, and I think a hug from my mom.
...or maybe it was just an "Did you learn that at school" response.
xD;
Can't remember.
x3
I'm sure they do, it's just it'd be nice hearing I love you from someone I really love/care about.
x3
Blondie, you should be a physchologist or something, you ALWAYS make me feel better.
>w<
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04-08-2008, 05:05 AM
Awww I am so glad I make you feel better! Now I am gonna tell you a secret. If you just keep telling them even though they don't say it in return, eventually they will. Think of it as a stone wall, and every time you say it you chip away one more stone. :D
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04-08-2008, 05:09 AM
Lol, I like the word play on the title. <3
That sounds like a good idea, except my parents think love is a wasted emotion.
Dx
I mean, my mom's been through a LOT, and my dad's gone through the Cultural Revolution, and...I dunno, after all their hardship, they can't relate anything close to love.
Dx
I'm sure they adore me and my little brother, but I mean...neither really believes in love.
My dad sees me and my little brother as "trophies", because I have the knack to learn things really fast, and my brother's great at chess.
...I think I will try that strategy with my mom, though I feel REALLY silly saying it.
>___<;;;
I mean, it's like one of those things where you can say it to like...everyone BUT your parents or anyone SUPER close to you.
Dx
But I promise I'll try, and I'll come back with some result. <333333
...sorry for the wall of text.
x3
Whatcha doing? :3
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Blondheart
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04-08-2008, 05:16 AM
I had a sandwich and I am watchin a show I recorded.
Love is a very basic human emotion, everyone feels it in different ways. I am still pretty sure your parents feel it in one way or another even if you don't know it right now.
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04-08-2008, 05:42 AM
Sorry, my dad called me down.
x3
Ohhh, sandwich, makes me want one.
Dx
Too bad there's no bread in the house.
xDDDDD
Blondie, you wouldn't mind listening to teenager issues, would you? .__.;
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04-08-2008, 05:43 AM
Of course not, what's wrong?
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04-08-2008, 05:50 AM
hello everyone,how are we all doing tonight?
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Winter Wind
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04-08-2008, 05:52 AM
You're a great person Blondie. <333
I can't really tell my friends, I'm sure they're sick of it. ^__^;
My parents would just kill me.
xD
So here goes teenage drama:
...well, in a nutshell:
I dated this person named Chris, I think for about 6 months, the one person who I felt truly really really liked me for who I am, and wasn't afraid to correct me or yell at me or make me see sense. We somehow get into arguments, but we always managed to patch up and get closer to each other
However, I broke up with because we were going to different highschools, and I didn't want him to be tied to me, because I thought there might be some better girl out there.
Now I miss him terribly, and he said he wasn't going to go into any more relationships because he wanted to focus on school.
Thing is, he's a total womanizer, and I get jealous each time I happen to catch him at flirting.
>___<;
I know this is really wrong, because it's not as though I own him, but I can't help it.
._.;
And he's ALWAYS on my mind, every day, and it seems as though I'm nothing but a memory to him.
._.;
My question:
Is there a way for me to get over him?
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T'anks Blondie. <3
I know this probably would fit best in the life issues, but I don't want everyone thinking I'm some little kid lost in her mind about a guy who probably doesn't really care anymore.
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04-08-2008, 05:55 AM
Hi Ruby! I am good, how are you?
Wind you can always come in here and tell me your troubles. Now about boys...see here is the thing, he can't read your mind. You told him you didn't want to see him again, but did you tell him you miss him and regret your decision? Maybe he is flirting a lot because he wants to make you jealous and hurt you for hurting him. Men are pretty straight forwards. They don't read more into things the way girls do. They take things at face value.
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04-08-2008, 05:58 AM
hi there Winter,I know you were not talking to me, but my niece just went through pretty much the exact same thing you are about 9 months ago, and it was a terrible time for her but what got her back on track and not hurting so much,was just getting out with her friends and trying not to think of her ex even though it was very hard to do finally she met a new guy and is now happy again. not sure if that is much help but I hope it helps a little.
@blond-- I am doing good but still having a hard time with being tired,but I just started on some vitamins and they seem to be helping a little
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04-08-2008, 06:00 AM
That's true, the best way to get over a boy is to find a new one.
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Winter Wind
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04-08-2008, 06:01 AM
Hey there Ruby_Dawn. I've never met you before. I'm windy, nice to meet you! :3
Well...I told him I missed him, and that I still liked him, but he was like "It's over Windy." ...not Windy, my real name, but you get it. Dx
Like...he basically forced me to see the reality of the broken relationship.
Then again, he's always been a flirt.
xD
-huggles Blondie-
I luff you for all the advice you've given me, and being a great friend. <3
Oops, looks like I took too long with this post.
xD
T'anks, it does make me feel a bit better, at least I'm on the right track. :3 The forgetting thing is really difficult, because he made it really intense and somehow (sounds cheesy) he seems perfect to me. Dx
Feel better soon Ruby_Dawn! :3
Yet again, took too long with this post.
xD
I'll try.
x3
...all the guys in my school are jerks though.
xD
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04-08-2008, 06:05 AM
nice to meet you to windy :) yeah the boy who broke my nieces heart was her first...you know. and he pretty much broke up with her right after they went all the way so it really hurt her alot.but just remember time heals all and hopefully you will find a nice guy you can have a great relationship with :) oh and just on a side note the boy my niece got together with was not in her school
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04-08-2008, 06:08 AM
Well hon, if you broke it off with him, there was a part of you telling yourself he wasn't right for you anyway. So try to keep busy, and meet other boys.
Yes and don't let a boy pressure you into having sex. You have your whole life ahead of you for that, there is no rush!
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04-08-2008, 06:09 AM
...that sucks.
._.;
It suddenly makes me feel a lot luckier and more fortunate.
Would I be branded a slut or whore if I said that my ex and I got...uh...a bit caught up, but didn't go all the way?
>________________<;
I know it's pretty sad, but...I dunno.
Dx
If it is, I'm just going to lock this secret up and throw the key down the well. If not...well, I'd do the same.
Ruby, you've made me feel better, t'anks. <3
Blondie: Truetrue, but I did it with the most regretful heart. Dx
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04-08-2008, 06:15 AM
no sweetie you would not be branded a slut or whore at least you didnt go all the way and even if you did oh well shit happens lol (quick question how old are you) I am glad I helped a little anyway :) well I am sorry this is a quick meeting but I need to run off and put my hubby to bed,but hopefully we will talk again soon :)
talk to you later blond I hope you have a great night
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Winter Wind
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04-08-2008, 06:17 AM
You and Blondie are the best. <3
It's great I finally got it off my back, it was hard holding my frustration at not being able to let go.
Dx
...and if age matters, I'd say I'm a slut.
Dx
14.
x_____x;;;;;;;
WELL.
-throws key down into the core of Mene-
Nevermore shall that be leaked out.
Dx
GOODNIGHT RUBY! <3
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04-08-2008, 06:19 AM
no no no sweetie age dont matter I was just wondering,my first time was when I was 14 though I regret it I dont think I was a slut because of it...good night
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Winter Wind
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04-08-2008, 06:20 AM
Ohkay.
-feels a bit better about self-
GOODNIGHT RUBY. <3333
Nice meeting you! :3
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