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Old 04-03-2008, 03:38 PM

well ofcourse you can share your boyfirned/girlfriend if YOU want and if he/she wants it. then it's not cheating.

many "free" couples these days are doing that.. I don't understand it or support it, but it's their choice.. :| just as long as they can respect other peoples relation ship, I can respect them

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Old 04-03-2008, 05:25 PM

well... you are right...
i don't know
but i think that your friend really likes this guy.. and even if she knows it's cheating she is telling that it's just sharing...
if i was her... i don't know... i can't even think about it...
how can you "share" your bf with someone? no matter if that someone is a boy or a girl... it's cheating...
and how can someone tell "i love you" to a girl and then to a boy...
it's just CHEATING....
i am sure he doesn't love her... maybe he is just curious ....

does that guy know his bf is cheating on him with a girl?

in my opinion your friend is silly...
how old is she? she is acting too immature...

i don't know what you should do.. try to tell her.. and to ask her....does she really enjoy being kissed by someone who tells i love you to someone else and kisses that person too?

...:|
you can also try to flirt with her bf.. so you can show her that he is a jerk... (sorry for telling that but just a selfish person can play with someone's feelings... no matter if that person is a boy or a girl... life is life and love is love)

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Old 04-06-2008, 12:36 PM

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...:|
you can also try to flirt with her bf.. so you can show her that he is a jerk... (sorry for telling that but just a selfish person can play with someone's feelings... no matter if that person is a boy or a girl... life is life and love is love)

It's pretty rude to flirt with someone's boyfriend, even if you are trying to make a statement. And if the guy really isn't just a jerk, then the poor OP ends up looking awful.

The possibility that he has feelings for them both should be entertained. He could be a jerk anyway, but having two partners at once doesn't really have to do with that. It isn't cheating if they all know about each other and are okay with it. ^_^

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Old 04-06-2008, 04:15 PM

yea i guess you are right here


... so did your friend decide?

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Old 04-06-2008, 07:49 PM

only ganna reply to Lovvy and since i just woke up;

Lovvy;
I HATE. Austin. i mean i reallyy hate him. He Made everyone in the School Hate Me and make fun of me. [Kayla Joined in with they started to date]

well
Kayla Called Yesterday, and she she didnt want the whole thre deal thing
-_-'

and dark.
no she didnt. xD <3.

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Old 04-06-2008, 07:50 PM

There is such a thing as an open relationship which is what I believe what your friend is calling it sharing?

From what I briefly skimmed through it looks like your friend and your ex are in an open relationship. They care...or not from what you say but are allowed to stray to other partner which your ex has done but your friend has not.

Honestly as much as I commend your concern for your friend I'm not sure its your friendship or your anger you have for your ex that makes you entirely biased on your friends boyfriend. The only thing I would recommend you to do and share your concern with your friend and leave it at that. It's her relationship and her business. I don't care how close you are to her or how you want to protect her because either way she'll most likely point the blame on you if something should become a skew.

I don't know exactly what the trio's relationship is except for what you inform me and honestly your word isn't reliable. Maybe your ex is an asshole and your friend is being used or maybe you just immediately view him in a bad light due to personal experience with this person. -shrugs- Thats how I see it and I'm not sure I expressed that right.

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Old 04-07-2008, 06:17 PM

.... i don't know..
i guess you did your best...
if she wants to live like this is her problem...
but i am afraid she is going to get hurt if she finds out she wasn't loved...

 


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