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Well my dear I really really think that you should get out of there because it's just not a healthy place for you to be my best friend went through kinda the same thing her family always took advantage of her kind nature and never let her do the things he wanted never let her date and when we (men and my other best friend) secretly got her on a date she somehow found out and found us and ripped her away forbidding her from seeing both me and her now bf so me and my other best friend helped her escape from her house and now she lives with her boyfriend and she's better off cause when she moved out she started to display emotions that she was never alowed before (ive know her for 18 years) so bottom line I really think that moving out would be the best thing I think it's a must by far. Good luck to you.

Yes, move out. Without a doubt. Get away from there ASAP.

That sounds like an awful environment for you and I think you are totally justified in moving you and your stuff to somewhere you feel safe. You clearly have a plan lined up for after you graduate, but until that plan can start I think it might be best to stay away from such a bad situation.

I would move out. Moving can be a pain and cost you a lot in money and in objects that get left behind but if you stay you will lose more in the long run. When I lived with my step-mom it was bad, not nearly as bad as you, I was often cussed at and threatened. I moved out my sophmore year of high school. That was four years ago. And though I lost so much, the only thing I took when I left was a backpack with my school books, I have never regreted it. I was lucky though I moved in with my mom so I didn't have to pay for much. But if you don't have to pay for the gas to run all of your parents and grandparents errands you'll save some money.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

You need to get out of the environment, ASAP.

You should move out of the inviorment and live with your ex.
Clear the troubles out of your mind and think completly different thoughts.
If you need anything else,tell us.Ok?

sorry getting to net has been difficult.
thanks, I'm getting the PC moved to my exs house (I'm still good friends with the guy who actually lives there) and getting some spare cloths and have been staying there.
and @flaming-turd my ex is currently living in Alaska for work or I probably already would be (since he has a car and everything), hes just still helping me out-also why hes my ex XD rofl even thou I'm still terribly in love with him.

^_^ everyone thanks for helping me not feel totally crazy <3
and I hope not to lose anything in the move, atleast anything I will miss since I'm moving my valuables and important stuff (tax sheets, PC, Pasport gaming stuff etc.) all this weekend. just gotta be sure to get cloths out with me.

As everyone else is saying, move out. It's not a safe or healthy environment for you.

If you are worried about your siblings, it's not your job to take care of them. You shouldn't have to stay there to take care of them. That said, it may be hard to do, but if it comes to it, it might be appropriate to call CPS to have them placed in foster care for the time being. It can even be arranged that your parents still have contact, just aren't the legal guardians, and don't live with them.

But you really need to get out. There's no way that it's even "ok" on your mental health.

Originally Posted by Naiyo

sorry getting to net has been difficult.
thanks, I'm getting the PC moved to my exs house (I'm still good friends with the guy who actually lives there) and getting some spare cloths and have been staying there.
and @flaming-turd my ex is currently living in Alaska for work or I probably already would be (since he has a car and everything), hes just still helping me out-also why hes my ex XD rofl even thou I'm still terribly in love with him.

^_^ everyone thanks for helping me not feel totally crazy <3
and I hope not to lose anything in the move, atleast anything I will miss since I'm moving my valuables and important stuff (tax sheets, PC, Pasport gaming stuff etc.) all this weekend. just gotta be sure to get cloths out with me.

Why doesn't your ex take you to Alaska with him? That way you'd be far from your family and you could be with him and wouldn't have to break up. It seems more logical than the situation right now. I find distance to sometimes not be a good excuse for breaking up, especially if the people are still in love with each other. But you are lucky that you have other options to move in with people as well. Since you know people who are willing to let you live with them, you might as well. It's much better than staying at home. Really, what's the point of staying there? At least you can get out. A lot of people are just stuck. I'm lucky my family is decent because if something like that ever happened to me, I have nowhere to go. No one ever wants to help me, I have to do everything all by myself.