Originally Posted by iClimax

But I don't know It's just <.<
One of my ex's says she has never "gotten over: me, that I'm the only person she has dated that she still likes, more than a friend. We were never really dating, just, yeah <.< And then.. yeah <.< Rofl. But basically she's had a boyfriend for 8 months now, and I want to date her, but obviously can't. So I decided to get over her, I ask out a girl, and then my ex complete DESTROYS ME, the "lady's touch" the glances, and just going out of her way to make me attracted to her.
Now I want her to stop, stay with that guy and let me date other people, I asked out a girl today, and I told her about it, she gives me this look and tells me, oh but I'm afraid he might break up with me, blah blah blah. I told the girl I'm asking out, I will try my best to not use her as a "filler" And I'm just scared what I will do. She's emotionally devestated with her life, I want to help her, I want to know how to control myself better I guess <.<
(bad advice is better than no advice, crazy ;P)

1. well, I think your best bet, is to find someone who CAN help your ex with her problems. somebody who is capable, has experience, and the resources to help out and then the two of you won't be involved together. it's not your job to make her or her life better.

2. also, what she is doing, whether on purpose or not, is emotional abuse. You need to ignore her. the "woman's touch" won't work if you aren't looking. and eventually, she'll get it that you don't care. or, if not, you could always get a restraining order before she becomes an insane lunatic stalker with a knife outside your bedroom window!!

3. tell the new girl there is never anything anybody can ever say or do to give a guarantee of a good relationship, but you will do your best. tell her about how you like her and why so she understands you are interested in her and not to just have something/somebody there until things with the ex work out.

See Crazy? You're better at giving advice than you give credit to yourself :D
Well I doubt my ex will be a crazy stalker (she's my neighbor o.o)
But I'm talking to the girl I asked out right now, I don't know her too much I'm just attracted to her, I've known her for a bit, but like I've just been drawn to her. Now we're talking a lot more, I'm glad I asked her out. Just the person who is making her life hell ~ Her mom is telling her she's worthless, she's ugly, she's fat, and horrible taste in men <.<
I responded : Well you do have bad taste in men, you're considering dating me, but I can't agree with the rest :D
I just really hope she says yes to me, I think this can help me recover from my ex :D

Originally Posted by iClimax

See Crazy? You're better at giving advice than you give credit to yourself :D
Well I doubt my ex will be a crazy stalker (she's my neighbor o.o)
But I'm talking to the girl I asked out right now, I don't know her too much I'm just attracted to her, I've known her for a bit, but like I've just been drawn to her. Now we're talking a lot more, I'm glad I asked her out. Just the person who is making her life hell ~ Her mom is telling her she's worthless, she's ugly, she's fat, and horrible taste in men <.<
I responded : Well you do have bad taste in men, you're considering dating me, but I can't agree with the rest :D
I just really hope she says yes to me, I think this can help me recover from my ex :D

OOOO!! Neighbor! Perfect access to be a stalker!!!! O_O
there is nothing wrong with telling the new gal about that. not knowing her well but being attracted to her and now as you learn more about her the more you like her. :yes:
well, there is not much anybody could tell a person to get past what their parent(s) are saying about them, except them. it's something she needs to learn and grow from herself. I know full well about parents giving me a bad view of myself.

*walks in thread just for a moment*
*pets eggs and hatchlings*

Crazy are you around? Do you still want my guardian hatchling?

EDIT:
I see you are around, just read your last post :)

I never got my ears pierced. People keep telling me I should, but I do not really want to. My friend's ears got all messed up and bleeding, and it was really gross. But that's not why. I never got around to going.

Originally Posted by oriions

*walks in thread just for a moment*
*pets eggs and hatchlings*

Crazy are you around? Do you still want my guardian hatchling?

EDIT:
I see you are around, just read your last post :)

MEWANTMEWANT!! *grabby hands*

you know, piercing like anything else in life, is your decision. if you don't want to get it done, don't.

Alright thanks Crazy :D
I'll figure it out :D I switched the topic to dying my hair.
I want to do blonde with black tips <.<
My hair might not be long enough for it.
But I think I'm going to get rid of my dragons, I'm not too good at it lol :D Another 4-5 days and they will die ^_^

do you have any type of instant messenger?

like I keep saying, iC, if anybody doesn't want their eggs or hatchlings or dragons, I'll take them.

I think that hair coloring would look cool! If I was a guy with spikey hair, I'd think about doing it like Johnny Test! that whole flame headed thing looks AWESOME!!

no messager. just message me the code and then we'll chose like the next 5 to do it. like, it's 6:19 now so we'd do it at 6:25 or something.

I want to dye blue streaks into my hair but my mom is totally against it... v.v
sorry had to make a comment on that.

One of my best friends used to have black tips and I used to have the layer underneath black. It looks good. I say go for it.

ok the code is YIa8

use this site http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/city.html?n=407 to check the time. I will abandon at 6:25 like you said

I just never have enough extra money laying around to get my hair done all spiffy. I usually end up buying my son something he really doesn't need.

Originally Posted by oriions

ok the code is YIa8

use this site http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/city.html?n=407 to check the time. I will abandon at 6:25 like you said

code? I'm used to seeing a link. let me give it a shot.

It's an open conversation so everyone can comment, I'm open for comments :D
But I dyed my hair blue = turned out green.
Dyed my hair purple = turned out pink.
Quite funny being a straight male with pink hair.
But I gained so much respect from everyone :D
I wasn't aiming for respect But just whatever <.< I like having great hair. :D
Crazy, if you want can you look at my myspace and tell me if me hair is long enough to do blonde top with black streaks? I think It's way too short.
www.myspace.com/iClimax

I had temporary blue once, it turned green in about a day ><

Originally Posted by crazymuch

code? I'm used to seeing a link. let me give it a shot.

ohhh... I thought you had the getdragon url sowie T.T

Okay

/scuttles in

hello, goodnight, and see you all tomorrow! :heart:

Lol dark - I had blue, used it, turned grass green for a month and a half.
Anyways, I'm going to bed :D Loooong test tomorrow I gotta stay awake for lol :D
G'night Dragon addicts o.O

nope. I don't have it. I suck. :lol: oh well, she was scooped up and named before I even went to look at her. I don't think there are really bad owners on DC. they usually get their accounts taken away if they are, I think.

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iC, your hair is SO cute! ^_^

you're right, I'm sure she's in good hands, at least she can't be abandoned again and she already has enough views to grow up :)

I've always wanted to dye my tips rainbow. Like, have one chunk with red tips, one with orange, one with yellow, etc, etc. My dad said as long as it can be undone and he doesn't have to pay for it. XD

you know, I'd be half tempted to die strips of my hair blonde. but the cost to do that, I might as well do my whole head.

Or you could do it at home.

If you have the talent. I'd mess up the back if I home dyed my hair. lol

I used to dye my hair black. when i would do it myself i would mess up the back where it looked kinda cool. you'd see brown and black if you paid attention to it

hello all how is everyone today?