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Old 06-07-2008, 06:34 AM

Well, I've got myself a pickle.

You see, my best friend's boy friend was hitting on me, and I kind-of-not-really knew it. I wasn't sure exactly if he was or not until one day he told me over aim that he liked me. I didn't know how he would handle rejection, so I told him, "I like you, but not like that. I liked you for one day, but not anymore."

I think he took it the wrong way. Because he began to actually stalk me. He knows where I live, my cell and home phone numbers, and my AIM sn's. BOTH OF THEM. The worst part was, he's super oblivious.

He told me he was going to tell my best friend that he was dumping her for me. And I was like, "NONONONONO, I don't even LIKE you!" But of course, he didn't undersand that. He's super oblivious.

Being a good friend that I am, I told her that he was cheating on her before he had the chance to dump her. She actually had no feelings for him anymore, and told me she was going to let him go. And I was going, "NONONONONO, don't do that because of me."

In the end, she told him she didn't want to be with him, and I think he respeced that. HOWEVER. He started to stalk the both of us indirectly. Actually, he stalked ME more. Today was the promotion dance, and he stalked her there for 10 minutes straight. This entire week, he kept AIMing my friends about how I was feeling and such, and my friends are starting to get very annoyed.

I don't blame them.


I'm starting to lose all my respect for this guy, I don't know how to tell him, "GO A FJUCKING WAY." For some reason, he doesn't understand rejection, it's over, and move along.

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Old 06-08-2008, 02:04 AM

Maybe you really should be straight up with him. I know I'd prefer to get an honest answer then any beating around the bush. If you really have to be mean, be mean. Just make sure he gets the message.

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Old 06-08-2008, 06:19 PM

Maybe you should get a restraining order..that does seem a bit annoying... and weird. I mean.. If I were you..maybe write him a letter telling him you don't like him at all, not as a friend, etc. it might be mean..but he could once again take it the wrong way.. restraining order? sorry, out of ideas. seems like you might have done everything.maybe tell an adult.

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Old 06-09-2008, 08:06 AM

Ugh. I kind of know how you feel.

Well, it's not the same situation. But the "love triangle" thing.

My boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me. My boyfriend knows he does it too.

He just doesn't say anything because he's "too nice".

He also sent me nude pictures over MSN. o_o

I told my boyfriend right away so he didn't think I was hiding anything. He got mad, but never confronted his friend.

It's not too much of an issue I guess.

Stalking? o_o Creepy.

Just be honest. Tell him like it is. Don't spare his feelings when all he's doing it hurting you.

 


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