allright i have a friend who is the nicesT person i have meT so far and she has gone ouT with this dude who is a monkey he cused me out like for no reason i mean i was just sitting there in class and he walks up to me like t"u b**** i don't f**t*ing wanT to see around the F*****ing school u fagt" i was just sitting there reading , so this is ticking me oFf ThaT she won'T belev me abouT the sTuff the monkey dose and she's like " he is waT i call a minor problem " and i am like thats bull but i am the one that gets ignored even Though were right i told her he was a jerk but i found out he acts when he is around her and when he is wiTh friends he acTs his real self oh The reson some oF my letTers are waky iTs my keybored enyways he liked Tells this crap abouT him doing craz junk that i he can't it Ticks me off that she would fall For this fonny jerk of a kid *sigh* i think i should just give in but i don't know iF i should i mean i want 2 be a good friend but i don'T want to be a over proTectiv friend

It sounds like your friend really needs to see her boyfriend's true side.If she doesn't belive, then she's just in denial. If you want to get extreme, get a tape recorder and have him repeat the thing she said to you, and then play it back to her. If she won't be THAT, then you could get really extreme and use a video recorder and do the same, without him knowing of course (like him saying that stuff with his friends and what-not).

If you don't want to do any of that, then you should write your friend a letter, explaining everything to her in a nice, calm, matter. And if she doesn't belive you THEN, well, then it's her own fualt. Your tried telling her the truth already, and if she doesn't belive in you, she may not be the kind of friend you want to hang out around with anymore.

does this kid have Terretts? i'm not being mean but does he or something? that just sounds really idiotic.
Is he a moron? he sounds like a complete jerk and his girlfriend needs to see his true side, to see what he's really like.

I was in the same situation a couple months ago. One of my close friends started dating this gut. At first he was ok and he started asking mean to me. Like for example, He'd totally disrespect me and make fun of me. I tried to tell my friend and she was like 'he would never do that. he was probably just joking.' Well I ignored it because he seemed to make my friend happy. But after awhile he start pushing her and yelling at her. So thats when I walked up to him with a bunch of my friends and in front of all his friends we cussed him out and told him if he ever bothered any of us again he'd regret it. He left us alone after that....but yeah back to the point you need to stand for yourself.

Kick that dude in his empty scrotum. People like him just need to die, I friggin hate those kinds of people!

Try to explain what hes saying to you to your friend, if she doesn't believe you, then its her own fault for not believing you. You told her the truth and thats all you can do without seeming obsessive.

Try explaining to her what he has done with you. If possible, write it down before you talk to her so you'll be organized. Don't call him names or anything because that might make her get defensive. Don't confront him if he has such a temper.

If she doesn't care about how you feel, it's her loss.

It seems like he might have a problem. But you need to present proof to your friend, and if she still doesn't believe what you're saying, then she's obviously in denial. And there's not much you can do without pressuring the issue. And you don't want to do that because it might ruin your friendship. Just ignore him and don't let him get to you. Just make sure that's not how he treats your friend as well.

maybe you should make a plan and hang out with just her and you, then know where he is, and trap him in acting like a jerk..somehow.. I'm sure she'll figure it out soon enough on her own though. so you shouldn't worry. She might get her heart broken.....so be prepared if that does happen. >_< if he's a jerk to you imagine the things he might say to her if they break up.

There isn't much you can do if she won't believe you. You could always go and try an catch him and be sneaky about it, bla bla bla, but that may not be a good thing if she finds out and resents you for it. I'd be careful with that idea.
If you've explained it to her and she refuses to see it, all you can really do is still be her friend and realise that she's probably blinded right now as everyone is when they get into a new relationship. Her's won't last long as it sounds as if he has emotional problems. You just have to be there for her when things do hit the fan and she possibly get's her heart broken =(

Also watch for signs that he's treating her that way, then you have to find a way to step in as she may not do it herself...