View Poll Results: Should i stay with him?
Yeah, you should totally stay with him. Screw what you're stupid friends say! 6 75.00%
Give it up girl. It's pointless... 2 25.00%
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Old 07-06-2008, 06:46 AM

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Old 07-06-2008, 01:02 PM

I say keep striving to see him if you really want to. I have the same thing going on, and everyone else around me's like, "You should find a guy!" "But I already have one" "No, you need someone here" "No, everyone here sucks"

So, it's just gonna be an on-going thing. Besides, a lot of online relationships turn out very well.

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Old 07-06-2008, 01:49 PM

Well, have you actually spent time with him before or has this always been a long distance relationship? If you've actually had physical contact with each other and he is just overseas for a while (a while being from a month till 5 years), then i say continue with it ^^ there is nothing wrong with that :) Im currently doing that now with my boyfriend of 3 years, and it certainly makes our relationship stronger ^^ :heart:
Although, if you guys have only met and been together online...well it might be best to stay as friends until you both meet face to face ^^; I know that sounds terrible, but your only 15 right now and have a lifetime ahead of you. He could be totally different in person to what he makes out to be online, or have annoying habits or anything, i know my boyfriend does and i never found out about them till i lived with him for a week at the begining of the year xD;
You might think you've found the one, and you very well could of, but there might be someone else out there for you too :) I again have made that mistake a few times your age, online and offline relationships, but I did what was best for me and now i believe i've found the love of my life ^^
Another thing to consider is trust and loyalty. How much older/younger is he compared to you? Do you trust him enough to stay faithful to you and only you? Do you believe him when he tells you what he's doing or who he is hanging with? Being part of a band, im sure he has his fair share of groupies o.o; and boys will be boys xP again, i learnt that the hard way too by trusting someone online >.<;

But basically, look at it from a realistic perspective, as much as it could hurt. If you are happy to stay with this person your entire life, not stray off to anyone else and visa versa, happy to wait until you can both visit and live together, don't care how annoying some of his habits can be, then yes, stay with him. Weigh out the pro's and con's, have a long talk with him, preferably voices rather than something like msn, and find out what you both want, and go from there :)

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Old 07-06-2008, 05:57 PM

Well I definitely say you should stay with him if you do believe that he loves you then for sure he loves you, but if you ended up seeing someone else I guess it would break his heart, but that won't happen if you keep loving Ruki and Ruki keeps loving you. ^^

Keep your Love going. :)

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Old 07-06-2008, 07:45 PM

Wow..I'm really not sure I believe if you're going out with this guy. He's what 26, and your 16? Does he have a complex? O_o..I'm sorry but that's hard to believe.

For all you know, the person you love isn't even him. Umm..well if you love him you should still date him. but I would be careful. People pretend to be famous people online all the time. It's a bit difficult if you're dating that person online.

I wish you the best of luck, and I hope you aren't angry at me for being skeptical. ^^"

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Old 07-06-2008, 07:54 PM

uhh... is this a joke? the Gazette is a really famous japanese band....
besides, why couldn't he see you if he wanted to? he's old enough and no doubt has enough money to travel.

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Old 07-06-2008, 09:08 PM

Your friends have no respect for love obviously. I mean, the girl I love is 3 states away... and I wouldn't want a future with anyone else. People like them are probably just dating people just to date and cuddle and stuff. When it's love... nobody else's opinion matters but YOURS.

And I'm sure his band mate was probably over exaggerating, but the fact he said it implies he probably does talk about you a lot.

As for not being able to do anything with him. Well... you could always just try role-playing that you're still living near each other. I've done it a few times... it's quite fun and makes you feel like you're with them.

Edit - A lot of people are mentioning that he's famous and such. I was wondering... have you met him in person before? If not has he sent pictures?

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Old 07-06-2008, 09:43 PM

keep him i mean love is love noamter what and if your friends don't understand don't bother trying to explain omer then twice b/c if thay don't get it after the 2ed time there just not geting it i have a problem kinda like yours only were not going out and its two guys and there not in japan

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Old 07-06-2008, 11:03 PM

If there is love coming from both members of the relationship, then distance or age doesn't matter. If your friends respect you enough, they can see that.

Even though I don't honestly believe you're dating someone from Gazette.

 


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