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Old 07-06-2008, 04:46 PM

you see... Ever since I told me bf not to... Grab me in "places" hes been ignoring me.Hes been ignoring me for over 3 weeks now. I dont know if he still thinks were bf and gf. Because I don't rlly think we are. And I want to tell him its over... But I don't know how. Because we broke up before and that like made him... rlly rlly depressed. And i dun know what to dooo D:

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Old 07-06-2008, 11:56 PM

Just tell him that it's over.

No guy should EVER grab you in "places" without your contest. It just shows he has no respect for you.

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Old 07-07-2008, 05:47 AM

I agree with Madd. No guy should grab you in "places" without your consent. It's just not right.

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Old 07-07-2008, 06:17 AM

Just leave him.

He ignores you because you won't let him touch you... he is DEFINITELY not worth your time. Your boyfriend should always, always respect your boundaries.

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Old 07-07-2008, 08:16 AM

If he's going to ignore you for you respecting yourself: leave him.
You'll find a man that can respect you like you respect yourself.

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Old 07-07-2008, 10:20 AM

Leave him, don't give it a second thought. He obviously doesn't respect you and your body. You'll most likely get hurt more if you let this pass.

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Old 07-07-2008, 03:06 PM

Hmmm, I'd agree with all things said above, yet:
it kind of depends on how you told 'm to back off and how serious you guys were to begin with. It could also mean he's off being hurt and confused somewhere.
Some people tend to run instead of confronting the one they care about.
It doesn't have to mean that he doesn't care. It can just mean he lacks the experience (or balls) to see you again and deal with it all.

Try to communicate with him somehow, reasonably and calmly, and find out where you guys are at.

Last edited by Fem_chan; 07-07-2008 at 03:08 PM.. Reason: Spelling mistakes :(

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Old 07-07-2008, 05:19 PM

If you've made it very clear that you don't want him to be touching you in those places, and you've been very firm about reinforcing it, he shouldn't be ignoring you. If he keeps it up, sit down with him and tell him, very seriously, that if he doesn't knock it off, you're going to leave him.

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Old 07-07-2008, 05:55 PM

I'm going to go with the popular opinion. If you tell him he can't touch you that way and he ignores you, then he's only in the relationship for physical reasons. You should get out of the relationship fast because no one should be forced into something they don't want to do.

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Old 07-10-2008, 04:43 PM

thanks guys. I've told him like 4 times... in the same day >.> to stop. Its gonna be awkward breaking up with him. Because he was the only guy that ever asked me out.... almost all the guys in the school are jocks and think im ugly. I dont think im ugly, It's just going to be hard trying to find another boyfriend. but im sure by the time highschool comes around, boys will shapen up. and who knows? Maybe my "bf" will shapen up too and he'll be more respectfull of me.

Sorry for the late reply. I've been busy on another forum site. I've got like 4 big orders and an art contest to do >.<

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Old 07-10-2008, 07:27 PM

it sounds to me like he's already done with you. and you're already done with him. if he has that little respect for you, and has been ignoring you, he clearly doesn't care about you. my guess would be that when you broke up "before"...and he got "really depressed" it was probably a guilt trip meant to get into your panties. my advice would be to forget about this guy and find someone who actually cares about you as a person, not as a conquest or a challenge, and who has respect for you and your boundaries.

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Old 07-10-2008, 09:06 PM

It sounds like he just wanted to take advantage of you. Go you for standing up to him in the first place. Leave him and find a better guy for you. It's hard, but there are so many better guys out there that won't take advantage of you :3 Especially if you don't try to tempt them.

Edit: Go you ^_^ don't limit yourself to the jerks at your school. I'm sure a lot of boys in the world will think you're the perfect one for them. Wait til you go to college. Right now, just have fun hanging out with your friends<3

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Old 07-10-2008, 11:15 PM

not to sound evil or "old" but 1: he's not right for you, if he's grabbing you in places you don't want him to, i give you props for telling him off. he shouldn't take advantage of you at all.
also, don't worry too much about getting a boyfriend in highschool. its very rare for highschool relationships to last after graduation. boys even in highschool are still immature, some still act like children (that doesn't change much in adulthood, but they get better) highschool should be spent on hanging out with friends, having fun and passing all of the classes and graduating with a good degree and preparing for college. thats how i went through highschool. i didn't get my first worthwhile boyfriend until i started college. and we've been together for 2 years and we're planning on a life together. basically, not to sound old or anything- worry about school work in highschool. education is everything, don't throw it all away for someone. (i've seen too many girls in my class do that) when you get into college you'll have better luck, by then the guys have mostly matured and you'll find someone who won't take advantage of you and who will treat you like a lady. not as an object. college sweethearts have a better chance of lasting after college than highschool sweethearts after highschool. either way, after this thing of him being an immature baby and ignoring you like that. you'll find someone better for you. after graduating from highschool you'll find that perfect person. good luck in school, stay in school, and don't worry about men until you get out of highschool.
sorry if i sounded old, evil or anything like that

 



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