He cheated on you. With six people.
I've seen his behavior before, and he doesn't seem like he actually regrets it much.

I say start looking for someone else.

see, he's a cheater. he made out with 6 different people just ONE night you weren't there.
and he doesn't even seem to be sorry about it, and doesn't want to work it out.

I'm sorry, but obviously the feelings you feel are a lot stronger than those that he feels.. you should just forget about him. I know it's hard, but you must. He's an asshole.

Well... it depends on what he really meant by it. Whether it was serious or joking does make a difference.
Personally, I don't find kissing to be that big of a deal. He might not either.

It all depends on whether or not you can forgive him, and how likely he is to do it again. If you can't trust him anymore, the relationship is pretty meaningless anyway. And I don't believe in the whole 'once a cheater, always a cheater' thing... but six people in one night is quite suspicious.

You know him better than any of us. Do you honestly believe that he's sorry and won't do it again? Not just what you want to believe, but really? If you have any doubts in your mind, it's best to let him go.

I would be so heartbroken if my boyfriend made out with six people in one night. ._. Cosplaying is no excuse, underneath the costume you're still the same person. I'm sorry for you.

I was cheated on by my ex, who took a different girl to bed every weekend he was with me and kissed several others too. He turned out to have two other girlfriends simultaneously with me, too. >_< I kindly returned the favour and went on with my life.

well, he broke up with me. I was trying to work it out and he breaks up with me. I know that he wouldn't cheat again but he says that he doesn't deserve me and that I also caused to much drama. He's the one who started the drama! >_< I still love him and I don't know how I'm gonna stop loving him and move on. I don't know if I can do that.

Originally Posted by xSexyWafflesx

well, he broke up with me. I was trying to work it out and he breaks up with me. I know that he wouldn't cheat again but he says that he doesn't deserve me and that I also caused to much drama. He's the one who started the drama! >_< I still love him and I don't know how I'm gonna stop loving him and move on. I don't know if I can do that.

I'm sorry...
But I don't happen to believe his excuse. He more than likely broke up with you because he was caught making put with six other people while having a girlfriend. And he's probably looking forward to doing more of that, with no strings attached.

I'm sorry dear, but you're honestly better off. I couldn't love someone like that :/

yeah, I know. Thank you for listening to me and helping me through this.

Well I don't know much about cheating... but he can't make up some crappy excuse like "I don't deserve you" or something. I hear that line all the time But for someone to say they don't deserve them and then cheat on them 6 times? That's just... well... pathetic. You should find someone else. You don't really have to "stop loving him" right away though, but just take your time, as much as you need to get over him, a month, a year, maybe even a few. Just remember this one thing. You deserve someone who wouldn't cheat on you. *hugs* You deserve the best, don't ever forget that.

P.s. - If you ever need to talk to anyone about anything, I'll happily listen and help you with anything I can. Just feel free to send me a PM.

He broke up with you because he "doesn't deserve you."
That sounds like a completely lame excuse.

I know it's a silly cliche line, but you'll find someone better. Soon enough you'll start moving on and looking for someone new. -nods-

Originally Posted by Fabby

He broke up with you because he "doesn't deserve you."
That sounds like a completely lame excuse.

I know it's a silly cliche line, but you'll find someone better. Soon enough you'll start moving on and looking for someone new. -nods-

The only problem with that is that I live in Tampa and I don't know anyone. All my friends are in spring hill and he was the only person I knew in Tampa. I don't get out much either. My parents don't let me go places cuz they think that I'll do something stupid. What am I gonna do? Lose my virginity? I already lost that to Casey, my now ex. :sarcasm: And they know cuz they walked in on us. :sarcasm:

My first boyfriend, I thought I needed him but after I got over him I feel stronger than ever. He did so many things that hurt me but I still stayed because of promises that he´d try and do better, I was so naive. I dont know how many girls hes made out with while we were togeather since we lived in different places and I couldnt be there to watch him. He hit me and called me names all the time. When I found out he had sex with another girl I had a massive breakdown and broke it off with him. The first weeks were the worst, you feel so week and think that there must be something wrong with you since he did that. Just a day after I found out that he cheated on me I found out that he was a pedophile. We reported him to the police and he´s going to get arrested. God, I´ll never let myself be that naive again.
My tip is to talk about it and try to look at it from an objective point of view. Would he ever do that again? Do you really love him and does he love you? If he is unsecure about what he wants and you are 100% sure you dont want to lose him you should try in different ways to make him realise how much he really loves you and show him how much you love him.

I wish the best of luck to you both

Originally Posted by Psycho~

My first boyfriend, I thought I needed him but after I got over him I feel stronger than ever. He did so many things that hurt me but I still stayed because of promises that he´d try and do better, I was so naive. I dont know how many girls hes made out with while we were togeather since we lived in different places and I couldnt be there to watch him. He hit me and called me names all the time. When I found out he had sex with another girl I had a massive breakdown and broke it off with him. The first weeks were the worst, you feel so week and think that there must be something wrong with you since he did that. Just a day after I found out that he cheated on me I found out that he was a pedophile. We reported him to the police and he´s going to get arrested. God, I´ll never let myself be that naive again.
My tip is to talk about it and try to look at it from an objective point of view. Would he ever do that again? Do you really love him and does he love you? If he is unsecure about what he wants and you are 100% sure you dont want to lose him you should try in different ways to make him realise how much he really loves you and show him how much you love him.

I wish the best of luck to you both

I do really love him and I'm sure that he loves me. He's just very controlled by his friends and my mom also said he looked like he was on drugs. I just don't know how to make him realize how much he loves me. I've tried to sho him how much I love him but he just tells me that he doesn't want the 'drama'.:|

so stop giving him the drama. just try to be friends with him atleast, okay? don't talk about anything about your relation ship, just be there for him and have fun.
I think that works the best.

Originally Posted by Sagitar

so stop giving him the drama. just try to be friends with him atleast, okay? don't talk about anything about your relation ship, just be there for him and have fun.
I think that works the best.

He won't even talk to me about friend things. He doesn't want me in his life at all right now.

Originally Posted by xSexyWafflesx

He won't even talk to me about friend things. He doesn't want me in his life at all right now.

I believe he's shoving you away for a reason. And I'm sorry, but, I'm going to be blunt about this:

I honestly think he enjoyed making out with those people, and that he wasn't pressured. He might have just gotten carried away with the enjoyment of being at a convention, and figured out, hey, this is lots of fun! And he probably wants more of the feeling or whatever sort of adrenaline he gets from it, no strings attached [a relationship. Or he might end up what you call a swinger.

And since he's shoving you away, there's not much you can do except let him come to you instead of you going to him. Besides, I think you deserve much better.

Originally Posted by thoughtlessamaya

I believe he's shoving you away for a reason. And I'm sorry, but, I'm going to be blunt about this:

I honestly think he enjoyed making out with those people, and that he wasn't pressured. He might have just gotten carried away with the enjoyment of being at a convention, and figured out, hey, this is lots of fun! And he probably wants more of the feeling or whatever sort of adrenaline he gets from it, no strings attached [a relationship. Or he might end up what you call a swinger.

And since he's shoving you away, there's not much you can do except let him come to you instead of you going to him. Besides, I think you deserve much better.

yeah. I haven't talked to him since yesterday and I'm kinda happy about it. I can finally buy a mini top hat for myself and chew my nails again and do whatever I want! :twisted:

I would take him back if he'd have me though.

Honestly, I'd try to move on, I know it's gonna be hard but it would be for the best.

My ex cheated on me and she told me, then about three weeks later did it again, but didnt tell me, I found out. I think if someone cheats and tells the other person it COULD be that they want to end the relationship but not in a way to hurt the other person (even thought it does), but maybe not, thats just what happend to me.

But usually if someone cheats and the other still decides to stay in the relationship they MAY cheat again because they might think they can get away with it.

But thats just my opinion, it might help

Originally Posted by xSexyWafflesx

I would take him back if he'd have me though.

I wouldn't take him back if I were you.
Because if he thinks he got away with it once, he thinks he can do it again.
Unless you're willing to put up with more disappointment and hurt.

Bi guys are ALWAYS Gay my dear...sorry.

If he did this and is no longer sure what to do within your relationship you should probably just end dating relationship and just see whether or not he's really gay or not.

When it comes to men, their lustful beings. He's clearly confused cus he probably liked the attention and the connection with other people.

Or he could have been drunk? I'm Sorry but if he wasn't drunk or on drugs then he had NO EXCUSE to go around making out with other people, doesn't matter the location or the time.

I can't stand cheaters in any form.

Yeah, I think I'm just gonna try my best to get over him. I do think he was high though. But that's no excuse.

Originally Posted by xSexyWafflesx

well, he broke up with me. I was trying to work it out and he breaks up with me. I know that he wouldn't cheat again but he says that he doesn't deserve me and that I also caused to much drama. He's the one who started the drama! >_< I still love him and I don't know how I'm gonna stop loving him and move on. I don't know if I can do that.

=____=
It's sounds like he just wanted to get out.
Maybe he was expecting you to dump him on the spot... When you wanted to work it out..

He needs " time" and "dosen't deserve you"

Oh and he says your starting drama! Is he joking!

You don't need someone like that.
You need a guy that loves you and would never dream of kissing another girl... or guy. >_>

Yeah, sounds like he's just using you.. Probably is going to act like the biggest ass around till you dump him. why guys do that I don't know. But you should do it when he least expects it. Like if he takes you out to dinner, do it right in the middle of dinner, then leave him there after you eat..just a little pay back. A fun idea..I could never do it, but something you think about XD

Originally Posted by Cherish

So... he kissed multiple other people, and now he isn't sure whether he wants to work it out with you or not?

He betrayed your trust, he did something that obviously upset you, and now he doesn't seem sorry for it, because he's not sure if he even wants to be with you exclusively any more.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like you can trust him not to do it again (or even do sexual things with other people when you aren't around).
So I think it's time to leave this guy and move on.

Of course it's going to be hard, and it hurts when someone you love isn't as interested in the relationship as you are. But for any relationship to work, you both have to really want it, and have the same amount of dedication to each other.
If he isn't as committed to this relationship as you are, it can only get worse from here.

If I were you, I'd make a break of it now, and move on but stay friends.
If you carry on, it's more likely that you'll both get hurt, and have a messy break-up when the time comes.

i totally agree!!!

break up with him. he is obviously forgot about you six times in a night and he's bi get someone that is loyal and trust worthier and well commented to YOU.