It kind of seems like he was planning on breaking up with you anyway and this was just an excuse, you need to move on and not worry about being friends with him.

Everybody deserves a second chance, and I think you should give that to him, but if he strays again don't be so lenient. Nobody deserves to be cheated on, let alone twice!

Originally Posted by Yeah

It kind of seems like he was planning on breaking up with you anyway and this was just an excuse, you need to move on and not worry about being friends with him.

To be perfectly honest, that's what I thought when I first read the story. :| I mean, you don't just forget you have a girlfriend - especially not six times in a night. He must've been planning to break up with you and needed something to make you leave.

There are so many variables. My blunt & honest opinion is cheating is NOT okay. I love my boyfriend to death, but I would dump him on the spot if I knew he cheated on me. Personally, I'd tell you to break up with him and think things over for a few months (depending on how long you two were together). Is he really worth it? How do you know he won't do it again? 6 people is a LOT, even if he didn't have oral or intercourse with them. He could have herpes now or any kind of oral STI or STD. so you might want to get both of you checked out if you kissed him after he cheated on you.

You need to assess your relationship before you make a decision. Were you two completely committed to each other and the relationship? Did you both agree to not see other people? Have you gone through worse than this before? Do you love each other enough to talk it out? How easy will it be to rebuild the trust he's ruined??

Good luck.

o.o hmm, you should dump him. making out with 6 people is hella bad. he doen't really care about you if he did that, and you should dump him and move on. you sound like he's your first serious boyfriend or something, if thats so, then your just experiencing the puppy love syndrom. you feel like he's the only one in the world and you can't live without him, but in reality that's totally wrong. sorry to tell ya, but it's gonna go down from there. he'll prolly "accidentally" cheat again some time in the future if you stay with him and let him.

Originally Posted by Angel Naomi

No kidding :P Go out with a straight guy.

There isn't anything wrong with bi guys. My boyfriend's bi. Sorta offended by that comment, 'cause he's the nicest person I know.

But if your boyfriend cheated on you with 6 different people, well there's no excuse for that. If it were just 1 well maybe it could be a mistake.

Personally, I think anyone who cheats is scum.

You love this boy.

Isn't love giving someone the power to break your heart, but trusting them not to?

He broke this trust. I'm sure your heart sank when you heard.

I'm sorry that this hapened to you, I know the feeling. I don't exactly know if I was cheated on before, but I have my doubts.

as was mentioned above i am infact bisexual, take a little offense to that comment myself!

it was wrong of him to cheat on you in the first place then he pull the whole 'im so angry with myself blah blah i need time to get over it myself' i wouldnt be suprised if he took that 'time' to explore other people!

as its been said before you would be better off without him and finding somone who is gonna respect you enough to not go off with other people.

Sounds pretty bad. As every one else said i think I would move on. Im sure you can find better

it's been a little while since you posted this whole ordeal... are you doing alright? ... still friends with him? or did you get back together?? ... either way... you still deserve better

I'm also cosplayer and I do have fangirls but I would never do that.

Leave the guy.

Death to cheaters!

No matter how much you like him, you need to get away from him.
He'll just do it again, and it's bad enough it was with 6 people.

You can find someone else easily I'm sure. It's not the end of the world if your relationship ends.