So first off, When it comes to love, I am very strict on the word. I think some people my age use it to often. (I am 16) But there is this one boy, that I have known my entire life. His name is Brahm. My mother and His father went to middle school and high school together, (in the same school im in now) and were best friends, the entire time. So when brahm and I were born, we were destined to be close. When we were about 10 years old, we had those little kid crushes on eachother, and eventualy started dating, and have been off and on since then. His and my family have always been close to eachother. his mom and dad, were like my second. we recently started dating again, It was all going perfect, untill.. Well let me start by saying my mother passed, September, 29th 2008. well, his grandfather (who I consider mine) passed on that day this year. So out of love, brahm and I went up to see his grandmother, who now bumped her head, and got put in a coma. She passed later on, and both of us went to the funeral, I spent a week out of school. I love brahm, With all my heart, and It kills me to see him this way, I mean I was there when my mother died, I know how painful these things can be. I just don't know what to do, he is going through the depression, so I try and get him out of the house, But we live an hour car ride away from eachother. I really need some help or advice any of you could give on dealing with things like these. All I want is the best for him, but he won't let me in. Should I wait it out or something? I apreciate your reading this. - Rachael.