I am a very down to earth person. My fiance is more flighty. That balanced has seved us well in the past. But as his college career ends and mine continues (I'm going into education which takes longer) he wants to move. I've tried many times to think of some kind of compromise... but he doesn't seem to be able to accept any of it.

Today he told me, and I quote this "Keep in mind, what I am, personally, is far reaching, exotic, and exciting. There is no halfway committing to that, which is probably a large part of the anguish. Frankly, you picked the only person who went to NEHS [our highschool] that requires not staying in a small little town. The fact is that I am a leave and see the world person, the kind who never returns (to what you consider) home. Once you begin the trip to the stars, there no guarantee of a return to Earth. You should think if you really want that. There's still time to decide."

I just want a new perspective. I don't really have anyone who I think can help at this point. I don't want to admit to friends and family that this is a problem. The problem is that the few i mentioned this problem to sided with me. I don't think that is fair. So I need some imput. Thank you.