Alright....

So.... Normally I'm a very social, fun and outrageously flirty person, but then this happened....

So, I met this guy who just knocked my flat. I mean, REALLY blew me away for some reason and I don't even know why. I met him in the Hub building of the community college I'm going to, and we both hang out there at about the same hours between classes, but I've only accidently spoken to him once which is when he just blew me away with how attracted I felt immediately.... [which NEVER happens to me.... I'm not a love/like at first sight kind of person] So now I'm really super attracted to him, and at a loss for how to go about things....

Most everyone tells me I just need to go sit down and start talking, that it'll be weird for a few minutes but it'll turn out great after a while; but I can't even form a coherent thought when I look at him, let alone talk and sound like I have any more intelligence than a rock T_T This has never happened before, please I need advice!

Well normally you just start a random conversation, lol but for your situation maybe you should come
up with topics and responses ect. before you talk to him - just make a plan and eventually you'll get used to him and not have to do it
Good luck girl go for it :D

Just bite the bullet and talk to him. There's little to no chance of being with him if you don't ever talk to him. You may find out you like him even more, or he may turn out to be a jerk. You'll never know if you don't try. Draw upon all your courage. My girlfriend was the same way - she didn't haven't the nerve and courage to ask me out at first. She more or less stalked me for two years before asking me out, and we've been happy ever since (a year and seven months) ago.

Long story short - Just start talking to him. Confidence will make you that much more attractive. :)

Haha! Its college, Anita... Guys love to blow girls off and act like little bitches! Believe me: I would know being a college boy myself... Don't take it seriously!

Hmm, do you have a Facebook?

When I first started college, that was the easiest way to "meet" people and break the ice. Everyone would basically join a group for our dorm's floor and we'd all start chatting before we even moved in.

Sometimes it's just easier to create some coherent thoughts when you're sitting alone in your room and have time to edit your words. :lol:
I'd suggest friending him, saying "Hi! We're in the same building! What's up?" and then inviting him out to do something fun after a couple days. It doesn't have to be anything big, some activity on campus or even just walking to the dining hall together could be nice. And then once you've made plans, you can't back out of them, haha.


If the online thing doesn't appeal to you, then I agree with your friends - Just walk up to him. It isn't nearly as awkward as you'd imagine. That's really how most friends are made in college, after all.

Well you should talk to him but dont look like you like him,try to make him go after you.
Boys are like that,the more you go after and show at once your fellings the fast they go away,so you have to do the oposite of that.
Try to flirt with him by looking at him and then ignore him that way u will let him consused and he mithg end up going talking with you :)
go for it girl ;)

Thanks everyone! I really appreciate all the advice and on monday I'm definitely going to try some of them out. Thanks so much!

just randomly talk or something. my husband and i met just by him saying that the college program we were watching was random.
random is good. it can be your best friend. =^_^=

Thank you all!! I talked to him this morning and it was amazing! I was so nervous but I just tried not to talk too much or be too quiet and it seems to have worked! Plus I kind of made friends with his best friend ^_^ so yup! It was great! Thank you everyone you're advice was really helpful!

YiPPY!! *singing and dancing is so happy!*