Lady Persephone
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10-25-2009, 07:41 AM
I have a deep love for Cross-dressing! To some people (like my boyfriend) it's a art form! Even I on occasion like to be a slick Kat from the 20s and dress in guys slacks and suites, and all that jazz! I even slick back my hair! me and my boyfriend have gone swing dancing, playing the opposite rolls! Lol
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Lui_Kain
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10-25-2009, 08:15 PM
I don't mind cross-dressing, I actually like doing it,when I cross-dress at college, I get mistaken for a new-girl sometimes. xD It really doesn't bother me when anyone cross-dresses, I find it funny when people call me weird for it. I think I look good in dresses and skirts. I'm still experimenting on what looks good on me and what I should never get near ever again. lol
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Fake Blue Rose
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10-25-2009, 08:21 PM
I personally don't understand what's wrong with crossdressing. If the way we dress is a way to express ourselves, why can't crossdressers express themselves as well? It doesn't make sense, and it isn't fair. However, I completely agree with Sho. If it doesn't look good, or if you just strive for attention, please spare us from the sequins dress.
I myself don't crossdress, but if it counts as anything, whenever I cosplay, I'm always a guy. Haha.
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Telendil Thaliel'dhar
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10-25-2009, 08:22 PM
To me crossdressing is something I just don't care one way or another about.
I don't do it, but if others want to do it, more power to them. As long as they don't harm anyone else with the practice, it's fine by me.
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Xurxo
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10-26-2009, 01:08 AM
I work for a catalog that sells women's clothing, so I see no problem with men crossdressing, since I frequently talk to them on the phone. I always tell them that they should wear what makes them happiest, and what they are most comfortable in.
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[SakurakisserTM]
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10-26-2009, 03:51 AM
When a girl where guy clothes its fine, but when guy where dresses or stockings or etc etc, people throw a fit. However Crossdressing is really fine in my book. I think its good to be unique and extraordinary than the norms.
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Mabthefey
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10-26-2009, 04:00 AM
Me personally I like seeing guy in cross dress when they are not trying to look like girl but, you can tell they are guys in girls clothes. It annoys me a little when they are trying to look like a girl and end up looking prettier than me; however, as a whole I think it's cute.
I think similar rules apply for girls in men's clothes. I don't like it when they look like a guy completely but, I think it's really cute when a girl wears guy's clothes and manages to still look feminine.
And yes I do cross dress but no one can really tell because boy's blue jeans fit better on my body type than the more expensive ones in the women's department. Same thing with t-shirts. I have a long torso and I don't always want my belly showing so I'll often buy t-shirts in the guys department.
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Zeigeist
Coffee Nazi
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10-26-2009, 04:14 AM
Fun. I'd do it if I could pull it off.
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Ryuko Akari
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10-26-2009, 05:12 AM
It doesn't bother me at all, and in fact, I mostly don't even notice it. I go to a school where gender really is an enigmatic term anyway. A lot of people I know just do not identify with the gender that they were born with, and they like to identify with another gender as much as they can. Honestly, I say all the more power to them, because it is really brave of them to be able to ignore any discrimination they might face for not meeting the standards that society usually expects people to live up to, especially when it comes to gender.
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deweyduquesne
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11-05-2009, 07:18 AM
I personally have only ever crossdressed for a halloween party i was going to. But beyond that, I don't personally do it. I don't have a problem with people doing it as many times as they choose, but it's just not for me
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snowmousey
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11-05-2009, 08:30 AM
I think it's cute if you can look good in it <3~
Unfortunately i don't really suit short hair ><" (my face is too big =O)
Still, i think guys as girls or girls as guys are fine, i actually think girls look better dressed as guys because usually have too much muscles, facial+other hair and random bulkiness to look good wearing girls' stuff Dx
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Demon_of_the_Sand
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12-15-2009, 08:15 PM
to me hell who cares one year I dressed as a girl and hay I looked actually didn't look half bad but hey if ya feel comfy go for it
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Linnea
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12-15-2009, 08:39 PM
growing up my mom always dressed me in girly frilly things and then when i became old enough to do my own shopping i was what people call a 'tom boy'... coming from maine, i guess i could be called a 'hick' as i used to wear flannel and huge jeans and work boots... when i wasn't wearing sports shorts or track pants... as i got older i found a nice balance between the two...
in college i entered a drag pageant and i won! i dressed as a biker and everyone loved it :)
the guy who was my queen was the tallest guy from the basketball team and his talent was a lap dance... hilarious!
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cashuea
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12-15-2009, 10:23 PM
If they can actually pull it off, it be okay. I knew this one crossdresser who was a VERY convincing girl (he actually looked kinda hot.. >_>; ) . Its only a problem if they are cleary not even trying and only doing it for attention.
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Nekochan5345
I ate Jesus, he tasted like stai...
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12-15-2009, 11:27 PM
Im wholeheartedly for it and it doesnt bother me in the least. In fact when i see a guy or girl in drag i always silently root for them with that internal, 'You go man,' as i go on my merry way. As long as their not just doing it to show off, it kind of gives me that warm fuzzy feeling inside. But i agree that there definitely are certain things that no one should wear...>.> A friend of mine is basically a cross dresser (though im not sure if she considers herself one or not) and frequently has people give her weird looks when she shows up in the girls bathroom.
I didnt always used to be ok with it though, in fact i was almost phobic, but that was mostly because of that denial stage in my coming to terms with my own sexuality thing.
I cross-dress now and then myself. Ive always been a fan of the loose and comfy and i have to admit i love wearing mens suits. I look good in pin stripes hehe.
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ReiketsuMegami
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12-16-2009, 12:28 AM
For it, entirely. ^^ However, one day, we went to the mall, and my now-boyfriend bought a corset. We were minding our own business, walking around, he went and changed because he wanted to show it off, and we went outside to have a little sitdown, and a mall cop popped in and told us we had to leave because people were complaining about us. We could tell the poor guy didn't WANT to kick us out, so we just left, but none of us had done anything wrong whatsoever. We got kicked out because my boyfriend was wearing a corset.
I just hate it when I see someone making fun of anyone else for wearing the opposite gender's clothing.
And I will say, the shorts they make for guys are WAY more comfy than the ones they make for girls. -_-
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Zackarai
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12-16-2009, 01:51 AM
It doesn't bother me at all. People can wear what they want. I would love to dress like a boy... but I couldn't really pull it off, unless maybe I wore baggy clothes. My hips are just so very big. :(
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danielley990
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12-16-2009, 02:21 AM
I think it is fantastic!!! I love when people are comfortable enough with themselves to be able to do it. I have plenty of female friends who dress in male clothing and its perfectly normal. Either way its fine. Hats off to the brave!!!!
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xTeddyBear_Massacre
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12-16-2009, 04:34 AM
I say "whatever floats your boat" honestly...
I don't do it and I don't mind it. So do whatever the hell you want. xD
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Foxberry
is a fluffy kitsune
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12-16-2009, 09:26 AM
Honestly who am I to say what a person wears? If it makes them look disgusting, or stupid or silly that's on them and society can laugh at them behind their back. I'll politely look away if it disgusts me. It really doesn't bother me, let them wear whatever they want. Granted I'd rather NOT want to see some hairy guy's buttcrack because he's wearing a miniskirt with a thong, but what am I going to do? Start a fight with someone over their choice in clothing? Nah... I think I'd rather just let someone else do it.
On another note, I crossplay for anime conventions/events but I really don't consider that to be cross-dressing.I also wear boxers or perhaps a guy's shirt or a pair of guy's pants, hell I even wear guy's vans. I'll also wear one of my boyfriend's tshirts or something. I honestly don't care if I wear a guy's clothing as long as it fits me nicely. Though I prefer to wear women's clothing regardless- unless it's those damn skinny jeans which are horrid to begin with. I'll just wear a pair of cargos for girls before wearing them or guys pants. Doesn't really bother me though, but then again I am a girl.
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JibrilleFreyaSeraphiel
Celestial Mystery
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12-16-2009, 11:45 AM
I dont have anything against cross dressers. People have different tastes and should be respected if not admired. If men feel like dressing up as a female then that's great. And you know some of them actually look fabulous in them. I am a fan of many androgynes who are stars especially those who take a big role in JRock and Visual Kei. They look faboulous and they can really sing!
There are certain females who like to dress as men. I used to go though that stage and I still have tendencies to sometimes want to dress and look like a man. I dont think gender should necessarily be a concern to who a person is.
Lets face it. Men are humans. So are women. Everyone has to deal with that. And they should!
Women are humans. So are men.
You see Gender should not necessarily play a big role in a person's personality. Though sometmes I find this statement contraversial because of how this world is going round, there are things (and will always be things) that will concern men and not women, while there are other things that concern women and not men. But it should concern both the sexes.
Anyway this isn't really about gender equality. We are talking about crossdressers.
If a man feels like a woman in the inside then thats fine. And if a woman feels like a man in the inside (I sometimes do), then that's also fine. I mean its great! Its a matter of how a person feels like.
There are some people who dress to impress while others who dress to express. Me most of the time I dont dress to do either of those things at all.
I myself know a couple of cross dressers and really they are probably one of the nicest and chill people I have ever met. And there are a lot of things you can learn from them. Talk to them they have a couple of interesting things to say and they probably just have alternative views.
The real thing is cross dressers are human and they have feelings and should be respected. I dont think they do any harm and they shouldn't be sort of witch hunted and not appreciated.
I am not asking for everyone to like them but I definitely dont think they should be hated for such ridiculous reasons either. Just that they should be respected.
In fact not just them, but homosexual people as well should be respected. And then everybody should be respected.
Its like one of those things when you say, "Treat people like the way you want to be treated". And why not?
In conclusion, I have nothing against cross dressers.
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topostarlight
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12-16-2009, 02:52 PM
I don't cross-dress, but I do love it. Been to a couple drag shows before, they are great fun. I tend to draw characters that gender bend as well. I've never understood why you have to dress and act a certain way just because of your gender. I'm all for all the people that have the guts to be themselves, even when others try to tell them they're wrong.
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Crystalunicorn
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12-16-2009, 05:57 PM
Sadly, crossdressing men... do look a tad funny in women attire. But they do no harm, so i don't mind at all.
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TrueLords
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12-16-2009, 08:18 PM
I think its great in my opinion =P I love seeing someone who is confident in themselves in such a way! <3
Does it count if I wear nail-polish, eye-liner or masquera? Or is that just classified as "emo" lol
I have worn girl sweaters from time to time, but mostly because they seem more...fitting? lol There tighter to the body and I find them more comfortable =P
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KobatoChan
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12-16-2009, 08:53 PM
Its ridiculous and discusting... um hello its mostly guys that crossdress but there is clothes for males and clothes for females wear your kind and stop stealing our clothes!! :rawrmayor:
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