well we only have one more week for our year 12 orientationa and than we are done for good ^.^

Oh wow, when does school start again?

yes time to party!! but we have to go back, so that sucks:/ but i have a feeling this week isnt going to be fun.

not till next year in february!!!!!

hmm mine isn't going to be but oh well I still get to see my friends and stuff before holidays >.<

thats good! im thinking about breaking it off with my boyfriend:/

Awwwws how come? If yu don't mind my asking

Oh no, boy troubles. I'm all ears. (or eyes?) I swore off men at 17 and have had no luck staying away from the yucky buggers. What's going on with you and your man? :(

well a few saturdays ago i told him that i didnt want to do sexual stuff because im only 14. the next day he didnt text me at all, which wasnt normal because usually he would text me the second he woke up and throughout the day. He didnt text me once, for all this past week, and the only time i talked to him was at school. maybe. instead of going to lunch he went to crisis(video games during 2nd lunch), he walked out of his classes late, he got to school late, and he didnt come out of school early enough to say goodbye to me. i started to worry so i texted him and asked him if i had done something wrong. he told me no, but he was going through a "texting phase" where he didnt really text anyone much. but i stole his phone during art club one day and read his texts, (he reads mine) and all of them were to Kali. This girl he had a crush on before he asked me out. It really bothered me but i didnt say anything. it still bugs me but i mean i can't comtrol who he texts. so whatever.

also, he tells me he wants to spend time with me, but he's been avoiding me alot lately. He also cheated on me with his ex two weeks ago, but i took him back because he apologized profusely. he meant to much to me to let go, so i kept him around. and now when im not with him i feel like he might be with another girl messing around and doing stuff with her that i refuse to do with him. it scares me.

*does a dramatic entrance* Momo has ARRIVED!! *does a dramatic pose*

edit: Love: >.> Wow, I can believe our bf cheated on you...I hope he isn't cheating on you anymore...If he is, then he is just an ass, he shouldn't cheat on his girlfriend.

Oh my god, that is so lame! I think fourteen is too young to do sexual things, too. Is he much older? I am surprised you even kept him around after he cheated on you. I don't know him at all or what your relationship is like, but it almost sounds like he is just looking to fool around with whoever will have him. :( Have you guys been together a long time? Being with someone like that can really do a number on one's self-esteem. It is so hard when you really care about someone and wish so much that they are as good a person as you think they are but deep down you have your doubts.

If he is with other girls, would you be able to handle that? If that is a behavior that you can put up with and still want to be with him, then you could try to work things out. However, I doubt that is something you're looking for and I cannot imagine a guy being worth all that worry but you are the only one who knows how you feel.

For me, when I have dated similar guys, it always came down to the question, "Is the joy of being with him worth the pain of being with him?" I would like to scream, "F*** NO!" at this point. :XP

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Hi momo, sorry we are talking about things you might not like. :(

Comp: Its okay...I wasn't prepared to jump into this convo, I guess I should read a few posts before I jump in. :sweat:

I have never had a relationship with a guy, so I wouldn't be much of a help, but I do know is that your boyfriend shouldn't cheat on you and he shouldn't try do sexual things with you, (and I'm glad you didn't do it) especially if you are only 14, you are to young to do that kind of stuff. If I was in that situation, then I would brake up with that guy for three reasons, 1) I don;'t want to have a bf that cheats on me, 2) I don't want one that tries to do sexual things with me when I am still a kid, and 3) I don't want to be ignored by my bf...I would just get to lonely or that he was braking up with me...or that he was cheating.

Haha, momo, for someone who has never had a boyfriend, you are very wise! I regret being so boy-crazy when I was younger, they were all I could think about. I think I should send some boys a bill for all the time I wasted on them! Time = Money!!!

Comp: I have watched a lot of TV, and I have had a lot of talks with my mom. :angel: Thank you, sometimes i wounder where my smartness comes from..it sometimes just pops up in my head when the time is right or at random times. e.e;;

My mom's advice was to never have sex and marry rich. It worked for her but really does not interest me. :-x

But seriously, it really is hard when you're feeling so much like for a person to think clearly or even think at all. Of course, I find thinking in general very difficult! :XP

Comp: *dies laughing* that was funny, my grandma told me to marry a rich guy, who knew how to clean, has a good job, and isn't a lazy pig. :rofl:

If anyone brakes up with someone, I have ice cream, so they can have some. :hug:

I have ice cream, too! And I've broken up with LOTS of people, so can I have some of yours? (Your ice cream, not boyfriends)

Yup, I'll give you some. *gives you some ice cream*

Originally Posted by momochan

*does a dramatic entrance* Momo has ARRIVED!! *does a dramatic pose*

edit: Love: >.> Wow, I can believe our bf cheated on you...I hope he isn't cheating on you anymore...If he is, then he is just an ass, he shouldn't cheat on his girlfriend.

no, he only did once. as far as i know:/

Originally Posted by Computosaurus

Oh my god, that is so lame! I think fourteen is too young to do sexual things, too. Is he much older? I am surprised you even kept him around after he cheated on you. I don't know him at all or what your relationship is like, but it almost sounds like he is just looking to fool around with whoever will have him. :( Have you guys been together a long time? Being with someone like that can really do a number on one's self-esteem. It is so hard when you really care about someone and wish so much that they are as good a person as you think they are but deep down you have your doubts.

If he is with other girls, would you be able to handle that? If that is a behavior that you can put up with and still want to be with him, then you could try to work things out. However, I doubt that is something you're looking for and I cannot imagine a guy being worth all that worry but you are the only one who knows how you feel.

For me, when I have dated similar guys, it always came down to the question, "Is the joy of being with him worth the pain of being with him?" I would like to scream, "F*** NO!" at this point. :XP

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Hi momo, sorry we are talking about things you might not like. :(

i just broke it off today:/ he was going to anyway, might as well do it first. and after that he went on facebook, changed his relationship status and then he made his status "well, this sucks....but im not sad"

and i was like....wtf dude. (oh, he's 16 btw) i feel like crap, and he goes and posts that hes not sad. i really didnt want it to end like this, because it wont ever be the same, but i should have just broke up with him when he cheated, it wouldnt have hurt as much i dont think. but the hardest part is that i pass by him after every class during school, i might die:/

:hug: I am sorry it is so hard right now. It definitely sounds like you did the right thing. I hope you can distract yourself with something fun or hang out with nice people. I am sure you will just watch him treat the next girl even worse. I am glad you got out while you did.

it pisses me off. but he is gonna be a douche about it. i know that. but yeah, im just hanging out with my friends on friday:) i hope it doesnt hurt as much tomorrow:/

My advice is stay off of facebook for a couple days! Yucky douche boy. :(

well, its the way i get contact with some of my friends, but i keep seeing him online...hes not usually online...urgh.

Men are always the opposite of what you want. (Well mostly) When you want attention, they ignore you. When you want to be left alone, they smother you. When you want love, they just want smexual things. And if for some reason you wanted just plain smexual things from them, they would want love. *sigh* It's a bitter uphill battle but if you find that right guy who wants what you want, when you want, and won't cheat on you, then hang onto them. Until then... it's really more fun to be single anyway. Boys come and go but best friends are forever :heart:

this is so true. people keep asking me to talk to him for them. like one of my best friends is also one of his best friends and she asked me to ask him if he was mad at her. this was after we broke up. she didnt know yet:/

our conversation went like this...
"hey david..."
"what do you want?"
"ellie wanted me to ask you if your mad at her"
"no, whyd she think that"
"why are you asking me? she just asked me to ask you for her before she went to bed."
"ill text her"
"she wont reply....she went to bed already"
"how would you know"
"she told me"
"she'll reply to me"
"okay..."

and then no reply. he's being so rude.

Ughhh, gross. I wish you would not trouble yourself with him anymore. I know that it is really hard though. I think you are awesome and I am glad you are free to find someone more respectful of you!