Originally Posted by Roachi

@Nivvy - Yeah i start doing that now, Especially with text walls lol.

Haha yeah same. People at school - were like. WTF? Haha.
But then again i had loads of people from my school at cadets, coz the high school auditorium was our unit pretty much lol.

OMG seriously?? To camps & parades and stuff? Thats hardcore lol.

Why would she not want you at her wedding? I don't understand?? She's meant to be a close friend, she was your maid of honour, she was at your wedding. I honestly don't get it?? Did you ask her?
Honestly i think i met trish - but don't really know her know her. But i know her face. And i honestly always had this feeling about her - i can't put my finger on. All i can say Chanel is i don't feel she's very genuine. It's either that or she's a bit messed up my friend. Because i know - no true friend - would do that to their friends. Especially at a moment like this in life! I certainly wouldn't do that to Sarah!!
Yeah dude i actually think it is spite - it's something malicious anyway. Like i don't understand why you'd treat your friends like that, i mean not even a friend just a random person. I keep thinking of the whole BK thing - and i can't wrap my head around why someone would be like that??

Hmm true. But man it's hard. I think im going through the difficult stage now, of wanting so much for myself but it going so damn slow LOL.

OHH shit Ken. I forgot that dude xD. Haha us and our online relationships. What were we thinking right?? Craziness lol.
Yeah i know what you mean. It's just like - i was still holding onto him a bit. But because it's familiar and because i knew that if i wanted too i could go back and he'd take me. But the thing is, i felt that feeling when you just can't stand someone and don't wanna see them. And i kept feeling that each time i spoke to him. So i knew i was over him. And yeah he just wasn't understanding where i was coming from. But i needa catch up with ya tell you all the goss lol.

She sounds like a know-it-all plain and simple. And hasn't grown out of it yet lol. Have you seen rango? haha that just reminded me of that female rango looking thing that goes all blank in situations and stares into space lol. She'd prob tear him a new one hahaha.

Aww nice know im on the list doodles ^^. Hahahaha oh well, you treat your friends like shit, that's what happens lol. Don't know what got up her arse though.

Omg seriously wtf thats mental!! Does he have an issue? I'd call the cops immediately, I wouldn't even engage lol. But if he hit me i think i'd rip his fucken hair out LOL.

You know mum she's straight up lol. She told him to fuck off lol. She also was eating a burger in the bus stop one day and a bird came and took a bite outta it LOL.

Nope boot camp is like cadets but x10 xD.
It's the training they do for the westpac helicopter rescue dudes. It's far too intense for me. I think im gonna drop out and opt for something else. I almost died today, and everyone was fitter and thinner then me. Glad i went though, i really enjoyed it. But i need to be with people who are on the same level as me.

@ Roach

Oh right, that makes sense lol. Our hall is in this hard out industrial area. This rugged run down hall, that technically doesn't exist lols. I dunno if the council even know it's there? Or maybe they do, but they just choose to ignore it =P

Oh nah, some of our cadets just smuggled alcohol to skills lol. Crappy stuff, like lion red X_x;;

She did apologise, but she didn't give us a choice. She just said "My wedding is on this date now" and that was it. She expects us to just fit it in. I'm at this point where I don't think I will go, just coz it's such a huge slap in the face. Now that I think about it, she is really indecisive. She was gonna make me god mother to her 2nd child, now she isn't having one - and coz of that, she didn't want me as her maid of honour, so one of her school friends is the maid of honour now. I think she's just one of those head strong people, and you have no choice but to fall in line with her, coz she won't adjust shit to suit your situation. Ughh yeah, I wouldn't buy a feed in front of a mate, if they didn't have their fricken wallet. I either just wouldn't get a feed, or I'd shout them. Hell, I even offered to pay her back - but nah. She wouldn't have a bar of it.

Yeah she probably isn't genuine to us lol. She's one of those people that is always operating on their own agenda. Like we invited her up for Joe's 30th, and she goes and plans all this other shit on top of it, but doesn't tell us. Like she'll stay for one night, then head off, and go somewhere else. So it isn't really a catch up, it's more like she comes up, crashes over, and gaps it X_x;; Gosh I know how to pick them huh? LOL

I'm at that point too, wanting so many things to click together, and to press on with a whole bunch of projects and business prospects - but it takes so much friggen time xD;; I gotta learn to be more patient, and to sit down and plan out the future properly :S

Tell me about it X__x Online crap like that just… ughhh. LOL!

Oh well I'm home every week day, and most of the weekends too so whenever you wanna pop over. Just hit me up. I'm guessing Sarah is too buggered to pop in with her bubba? If she's up to it, she's welcome to come over as well. Be good to see/hear what we're in for xD;;

LMAO!!! Sooo true! That spacey chick on Rango is the perfect comparison xD!!!

Yeah I dunno, she's always had a mean streak in her too. I guess all of us do, but some of us handle it better than others. She likes to seem 'staunch' too. But I just think it comes down to the fact, that you should spend more energy on your own life, than judging others on theirs.

Eww yeah, that crazy guy is totally mental… You just look at him, and know he's not all there X_x;; I'm still real paranoid about going outside now xD

LMAO!!!! Stupid guy, what did he do when he was told to F off? Omg! Your mum has the worst luck with burgers bahahaha!

Wow - sounds like an interesting thing to get into =) I need to get into something to do with fitness after this baby comes. I'm feeling so uncomfortable, everything hurts, need to drop some of this poundage, coz I just don't think my body was designed to handle all of this weight gain X__X

@Nivvy - Hey dude, sorry for the late reply. Been too tired to reply properly. And trying to pop into my event thread every night lol. Tonight has been the only night i've been on fully.

Weird lol.

Are you serious?? Thats weird haha. I know that our dudes smuggled smokes in. Dunno about alcohol though lol.

Wow, she sounds like a bitch dude lol. Who does that? Says that your gonna be the godmother of my kid + the changes their mind?? And then makes you maid of honour and then changes their mind?? Def not a best friend dude. Yeah, i'd rather not be friends with someone that selfish and unpleasant to be honest. It wouldn't be something i'd do as a good friend that's for sure. Yeah that's f'd up. I've never eaten in front of a mate like that - ever. So rude lol. I don't know why you put up with people treating you like that dude. You deserve better mates.

Wow what a user xD. When was Joe's 30th?? Hell i didn't even know! Lol Um why wasn't i invited, hello???! LOLOL!

Yeah, it's always like that. Impatient. it's like HURRY THE F UP AND WORK THE WAY I WANT ALREADY LOL. Sadly that is life - it sucks lol.

Cool i will talk to her and see when she's free. Yes for sure. I haven't seen her actually in a fortnight. But suppose to be seein her this weekend some time. See how she's getting along lol.

Yeah i could feel that straight off the bat. She def wouldn't be someone i'd be friends with lol. Yeah thats right dude. I wonder if she knows she's being so horrible? I think she's just use to getting away with so much shit. I think though when you get to this age, your just over it. And you stop trying to be the one who repairs everything.

He called her sad and walked off lol.
She's a crack up. She said this young dude asked for her number. And she goes "are you mental, im an old lady with grey hair, why the fuck you want my number for??" LOL

No i don't think any of us were designed to be overweight LOL. Im still so sore man, gonna deep heat it up tonight lol. How is everything goin with the pregnancy anyway? What kinda stuff you been going through??

Originally Posted by Roachi

@Nivvy - Hey dude, sorry for the late reply. Been too tired to reply properly. And trying to pop into my event thread every night lol. Tonight has been the only night i've been on fully.

Weird lol.

Are you serious?? Thats weird haha. I know that our dudes smuggled smokes in. Dunno about alcohol though lol.

Wow, she sounds like a bitch dude lol. Who does that? Says that your gonna be the godmother of my kid + the changes their mind?? And then makes you maid of honour and then changes their mind?? Def not a best friend dude. Yeah, i'd rather not be friends with someone that selfish and unpleasant to be honest. It wouldn't be something i'd do as a good friend that's for sure. Yeah that's f'd up. I've never eaten in front of a mate like that - ever. So rude lol. I don't know why you put up with people treating you like that dude. You deserve better mates.

Wow what a user xD. When was Joe's 30th?? Hell i didn't even know! Lol Um why wasn't i invited, hello???! LOLOL!

Yeah, it's always like that. Impatient. it's like HURRY THE F UP AND WORK THE WAY I WANT ALREADY LOL. Sadly that is life - it sucks lol.

Cool i will talk to her and see when she's free. Yes for sure. I haven't seen her actually in a fortnight. But suppose to be seein her this weekend some time. See how she's getting along lol.

Yeah i could feel that straight off the bat. She def wouldn't be someone i'd be friends with lol. Yeah thats right dude. I wonder if she knows she's being so horrible? I think she's just use to getting away with so much shit. I think though when you get to this age, your just over it. And you stop trying to be the one who repairs everything.

He called her sad and walked off lol.
She's a crack up. She said this young dude asked for her number. And she goes "are you mental, im an old lady with grey hair, why the fuck you want my number for??" LOL

No i don't think any of us were designed to be overweight LOL. Im still so sore man, gonna deep heat it up tonight lol. How is everything goin with the pregnancy anyway? What kinda stuff you been going through??

No problem at all, I've been under the weather with this really nasty flu!!!!! I'm so P.Oed about it, coz I haven't been sick all year, and now that I'm really heavily pregnant, and uncomfortable I'm hella sick on top of it lol. Joe was sick on the weekend, so I either got it from him, or my idiot work mate who came to work sick last week - and she was real sick!!! With the exact same thing I have. GRR!!!! Three days of non-stop coughing, and a runny nose. I'm so over it.

Our cadets were prob just tryna be cool, with their one or two cans of Lion Red xD!!! Oh yep smokes were fricken common. Yuck lol...

Yeah I think it's coz she runs with different groups of friends. So she tries to balance us all out, but it's clearly not working lol. Stupid idiot. Like I have my school mates, and cadet mates etc - but my closest mates, regardless of whether they're from school or cadets, know that they're my closest mates - and they'll get prioritised over the rest. You'd just end up going nuts, tryna make close mates all over the show lol.

I dunno, I guess these days because I have grown apart from most of my close mates, I don't really have any anymore - and I don't meet new people, so I'm in this position where I'm just clutching at old straws :P

Joe didn't really have a 30th, it was more just a catch up with his fams lol. Trust me you didn't miss out on anything. His parents came up for the day, and his brother, nephew, and niece came. Figured we'd invite Trish, which ended up being a waste of time, coz she went off and worked at this wedding show thing. Her man stayed the whole time for a catch up though. Hung out with him more than her lol!

Man... I still can't believe she's a mum xD!!!!!!! I can't believe Rodney's a dad!!! Actually... I can't believe we're all old LMFAO!

Yeah there comes a point where you just cut the strings with people, and move on lol. I'm starting to think there's one more person that I need to cut the strings from too haha. Omg, your mum cracks me up! Bahahahaha! Basically calling that guy a grave robber xD!!!!

Holy moly, that must have been one heck of a work out lol! What did you guys do? I'm really uncomfortable now, especially below my belly button. That whole area just feels like it's gonna explode xD! I get shooting paints down there, when I sleep on my side, coz the baby weighs my gut down and it makes the skin pull lol. I hate it! At least my swollen feet are gone now. I'm finding sleep is the worst thing now, coz I have Joe snoring his arse off in my ear, and a baby that's too fricken heavy haha. I just want him out now.

Really feeling miserable at the moment, seriously hoping this kid comes two, even three weeks early lol!

Ohh for reals, that's not good at all dude!! Argh i hate when work mates do that. Happens at our job ALL the time.

LOL crack up. It's amazing what we could smuggle in though xD.
And the things that went on, that i didn't even know about but heard about - wow LOL. Didn't Kristy bang someone in the drying room? LOL

Ahh i see - weird. That's something you do when your younger. You'd think getting to her age. She'd weed out the people that are inconsiderate in her life ya know? The ones that are kinda aquantices but not good friends? I don't know how anyone can have more then a handful of friends they keep up with. It's exhausting LOL. Especially ones who are vastly different from each other.
Hmm well seems like you've got a decision to make chick. I don't think you should have to be unhappy for the sake of someone else.

Well to be honest at our age it's kinda hard to make new friends, especially long lasting ones. You kinda cling to the ones you made when you were younger you know? But sadly you just grow apart from a lot of them. I find - i don't know how to connect to some people. Like i want ot be close friends with them, coz they're good people, and i need good friends. But i don't know how to do that without feeling like im invasive lol. Like - i hate bein that person where people are like - OMG go already haha. That's why i don't stay long at peoples places :P. Well try not to be so i dunno, bothersome?? And i guess when people are at different places in their lives, it's hard to connect to them as well. But i don't see it as a reason to cut someone out from your life. I know a lot of people do that. It's pretty sad.

I've noticed recently. Im not seein that much of Sarah. But i'm not gonna cry about it. I know she's been busy. Still it kinda sucks to not have a mate you can just hangout with.

Oh yep. Oh is her man, really nice?? That's weird aye? She came up to work? wtf? LOL Sounds like she used your place to sleep lol.

Yeah it's weird to be honest. Isn't Rodney a bit older then us though?? About time for him xD. I was just thinking about him the other day, when he went with that stupid bitch we all hated - and then man lady whats her face from hamilton.

Oh whose that? Lol

You maybe need to kick joe to the couch lol. Sarah said she had the best sleeps on her own.

Ahh thank god the event is drawing to an end. Did you manage to get any event currency?

---------- Post added 11-11-2012 at 06:20 PM ----------

Also i am selling a bunch of stuff :)

Does Roachi have an Ink Blott, Cheezy Romance, Classic Movie Night, Dark Alchemist, or Siriusly? for sale?

Possibly. I will check later when im at home hon <3
Whats your offers for them??

Lets see..

Siriusly? - 3.7k
Cheezy Romance - 3.5k
Ink Blott - 3.5k
Classic Movie Night - 2.8k
Dark Alchemist - 3.7k


I based my offers off of the average in the MP. Sorry if they are too low.. > w <

Yeah a bit too low on the others. But i can give you a cheesy for 3.5k if you haven't got one by the time i get home ^^

20k + classic movie night (2.8k), Chaos Armer (2.7k), Yumeh Plush, (2.5k), Lifes A Beach (2.5K), Hawtsome (3.4k) for Mask.

Roachi, i'm looking for a dark alchemist if you have an extra. I don't want to take it from Velvet though. how much would you want?

Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster

20k + classic movie night (2.8k), Chaos Armer (2.7k), Yumeh Plush, (2.5k), Lifes A Beach (2.5K), Hawtsome (3.4k) for Mask.

Im lookin for closer to 40k hon. SO if you can add about 6-7k worth of other stuff, then it's yours.

Originally Posted by llonka

Roachi, i'm looking for a dark alchemist if you have an extra. I don't want to take it from Velvet though. how much would you want?

I will see what i have when i get home. Sorry just at work atm. Don't wanna deal with logging in and out of accounts lol

How much do you want for the others, anyway?

Hey velvy, sorry i only have 1 spare of all the other items. And i'll be askin over high MP for them. Apologies, they've very sought after those items. So i wanna hold onto em for awhile. But i can still sell you cheezy :)

Nivvy:
Hey chick. Sarah and i wanna come over on sat - bring lunch n stuff for a bit. Is that poss?? We're gonna go twilight movie after that. Your more then welcome to come if you want. :) <3

It's ok roachi.

-really wants your light spell-

Oh sorry dessert, i gotta take that down actually.
Hummy wants that lol.

Oh, darn I was wanting that too >.>' -pouts-

Well if you see something and you want me to hold it, you need to tell me :)

xD I know... but i am not 100% on stuff that is expensive right now xD

---------- Post added 11-12-2012 at 05:18 PM ----------

Like I am eyeing your peach tee and pumpkin tee but i am not 100% on it...

Roachi:

Aww I would have loved to hang out this Sat, but I can't make it now :( my great aunty who is up here, has had her breast cancer return - So Joe and I are gonna head off to Devonport this weekend, and spend some time with her. The docs said she won't see Christmas, and we basically have the next couple of weeks to say goodbye =( Really sad, coz I was just starting to get close to her again, and she really dislikes Brenda - so it was awesome complaining with someone xD!

I'll have to come out to see you, and Sarah before this baby pops @o@;; How long are you guys hanging out on Saturday? Maybe I'll be free that night? I might be free Sunday?

Yeah it's so annoying @___@!! It's like... okay, maybe you need the money and have to work - but it's really not cool, when they come in, make their money, and end up making someone else sick </3 I asked my boss if I could just finish work up altogether, so I could leave while that chick was sick - coz I just knew I was gonna get it, if I stayed. But he wouldn't let me leave, thanks to all these jobs coming in. Soooo annoyed, coz this is a super ultra busy week for us - starting antenatal class, and going to an info night to find out about teaching english overseas. We've had to cancel everything, coz we're both sick. GRRRR - can you tell I'm still POed? LMAO!! Joe fell sick again yesterday, so he's off from work too now </3 We are so screwed...

OMG tell me about it xD!!! So much dodgy crap going on ughhh! Nah Chrissy supposedly 'you knowed' Charlie from Hamilton at Waiouru, in one of the barracks. Who knows for sure though, I didn't see any proof (THANK GOD! xD) To this day, I never know just what actually happened, and what was over exaggerated lol. Every five minutes I was listening to a story of her getting with someone lol. I don't miss all of that crap lol X__x;;

Yeah she always says she's mates with everyone. It's pretty annoying haha. Coz you'll set something up with her, then she'll set a billion other things up on top of it, coz she groups everyone together, and goes to see everybody. No wonder she's always stressed out. Yeah that's so true, I don't think she realises some people are just too different. Well, lets just put it this way - I'm gonna take some steps back from her, and focus on other things. Got a whole bunch of huge news about my family this week, so they'll need my attention in the coming months </3 My grandmother's sister, who lives in Devonport, has had her cancer return. Right when Joe and I were just getting to know her really well. It's been a pretty tough blow.

Yeah that's true - A lot of people our age have so much going on, especially when they have a family. Hahahah I know what that's like, being an invasive person xD!! It's just tough to know when to leave, if you've been over too long, or if you leave too early, and the other person thinks you're being stink and want to leave bahahah. I reckon with close friends, life has a way of balancing itself out. Like with ESIL/EBIL, we relate to them a lot better these days, now that the baby is on the way - coz we understand each other finally. Same with another couple, who have two young sons. It's all about just catching up, and being able to share experiences together.

That must be tough, having a friend you've always hung out with, suddenly pull back coz their life has taken a different turn. That started happening with Ani and I, when Joe came along. It was real weird in the beginning, especially when you'd get a text that said "Sorry can't hang out, something else has come up" It's a bit of a shock to the system.

Yeah her man is a down to earth guy. Really talkative which is good, coz you never feel weirded out. When he stays, he'll actually help out in the kitchen, and do the dishes kinda thing. Unlike Joe's lazy ass cousin who looks like Gimli the drawf, or mum's fat vegetarian brother xD!!!!! He's also got a sense of humour too, which helps. Yeah pretty much lol, she'll tell you last second that she's got something else to do. It's like... ughhh fark...

The cutting of another string was a reference to Trish haha. The more I think about it, the more I think it sits with me, that I thought we were closer than we actually are, since she's like the person who is a friend with everyone hahaha.

We don't have a couch at the moment xD!!!!! We threw out our couch in the last move, coz the new place was fully furnished </3 Gonna have to save up and get yet another one X_x;

I got a little bit of currency, but I didn't use it at all </3 Being sick, I just couldn't bring myself to get into the event. Sad really, it seems the best time to get to know other people here.

Omg, I'm sleeping soooo bad now. I'm just too uncomfortable and big. Plus my belly button is flat now, and it is really painful! It's so weird... I have to sleep sitting up now, and I finally got comfortable after a whole night of tossing and turning in agony, and dumb Joe goes and pulls the blanket away from my side real rough - and it just made me so sore and uncomfortable, I jumped (rolled like a whale) out of bed, and just bawled my eyes out LOL! I must have been soooo loud! Poor neighbours hahaha. I was so happy, and Joe went and killed the thunder. I felt like punching him lol!

Does Nivvy: need/want a pair of the wings from this event? Was the only extra item I picked up.
And that was thing that sucked when I was pregnant. Getting and staying asleep was tough. I normally sleep on my stomach, have done so for as long as I remember. Can't do that with a baby in the tummy. Dx

Hiya Liz :)

Let me know what you're looking for, for your wings <3 That'd be great, as I didn't manage to pick up a single thing ;-;

OMG! I knew pregnancy was gonna be tough, but you never quite know, until it finally happens xD!!! I'm glad someone can relate to it! My husband is complaining because he has the flu, I'm like... try having it while being 36 weeks pregnant >.>;; LOL!!! Awwww yeah, I was fondly reminiscing of sleeping on my tummy last night xD! I think even when I was throwing a big tantrum of discomfort, it was in part due to not being able to sleep on my belly hahaha

Only a few weeks to go before this baby, but I feel like the huge belly dramas will never end bahahaha

It's a gift, hun. :)

Yeah, men don't understand how much effect a pregnancy can have. Sure, the flu is sucky. But when your body is in overdrive with not only doing for itself but another living being as well... You have to times it by at least 1000.
Your body misses the habit of laying a certain way. Watch though, by the time the baby is here, you'll have trouble getting back to sleeping on your tummy.

Nah, it will end. But also be replaced by diaper drama, fussy drama, and the other dramas that come along as the baby gets older. xD

Naww thank you so much Liz <333 You rock ;-;

LOL so true! I didn't think of that xD;; Makes sense though, after going forever without sleeping on my belly lol. Is your tummy really sensitive after having the baby? I'm in so much pain, with my skin stretching, I'm worried it won't heal for a good long while. My belly button especially hurts X__x;; It's excruciating... I feel like my belly button is pretty much gonna burst open =S

Sooooo so so true xD!!! From one set of dramas, to the next lols! I really don't know how some of my friends can manage to have 5-6 children, all within a year of each other haha...

I just like to help out.

With Matthew, it was. My body was sore for awhile afterward. But after Tyler was a different story. I was up and walking not even three or four hours after having him. My body didn't really ache. But it did take time to get back into the habit of sleeping on my stomach. Will say that the surgery I had for the tubal litigation was God-awful. Nurse and doctor lied to me. >.> Said that the C-section I had would hurt worse.

They're crazy, lol. Nah, some people can handle it better. I love my boys, don't get me wrong... But some of the things I have to deal with make me want to just curse. Whenever one gets in trouble, he'll tattle on the other. Then I'll hear about how they both get to hitting each other over something silly like a toy.