So might that be you then? I mean, it sounds like it might be. You're questioning your sexuality, but you can't picture yourself in a committed relationship. Surely, there has to be a reason you're questioning your sexuality then? From what it sounds like, the reason is either because it IS indeed this outlook that you're developing, or because you haven't met the right girl yet. One or the other. :) Talk to me. I want to help however I can. We can change into a PM if you'd like.

Well, I'm pretty sure I'm not interested in a relationship with a woman. I just don't find it as gross as I used to, and so I was freaking out thinking I was turning bi and all that. Not that that's a bad thing, I've just been raised in a family where it is a bad thing, and so I fear that happening. Now I'm starting to realize that I may just prefer men, but realize women are attractive, too.

If you want, we can, but I don't really care either way. There's not really much to help with, I was just being all emotional and what-not. But I appreciate it.

I'm a bisexual female. I first noticed this when I saw lesbian porn and it totally turned me on, but I still felt attracted to guys. I thought this was maybe just my hormones going out of wack, considering this happened in 5th grade. However, I'd catch myself checking girls out, and I started thinking that maybe I'm really bi. I have some girl friends who are bi, and so at the beginning of this year I told them. They were like way happy! lol too funny. One of them was like, "OMG we can totally make out now!" (never happened lol) I did kiss my other friend when we were playing spin the bottle at a Halloween party last year. It wasn't her turn when she came over to me for a kiss lol. I've never had a girlfriend, and right now I have a boyfriend.

I'm gay. I'm such an obvious, flaming lesbian. I was really stupid about it for the longest time, though. I kept trying to date guys, and when I didn't feel anything at all for them, I'd just chalk it up to the guy being an asshole and move on without giving it much thought. It wasn't until years later that I had the epiphany of, "wait, other girls don't think about girls that way, and actually find men attractive? ...And that means that I'm gay? OH!"

Apparently no one was surprised and everyone knew but me. Even my parents. THEY COULD HAVE TOLD ME. D:<

I'm a lesbian. I have been since I was around 11 years old. Unfortantly my first experience was with a friend..but not the one I wanted. I;m in love with my best friend who is my soul mate...but.. she has a boyfriend lol

Originally Posted by nenyeni

I'm a lesbian. I have been since I was around 11 years old. Unfortantly my first experience was with a friend..but not the one I wanted. I;m in love with my best friend who is my soul mate...but.. she has a boyfriend lol

ugh! dontcha just hate that! >.<
anyways, Sora is bi! ^^
been with guys and girls.....Sora always sees them and not what they are or how they look XP

I'm a lesbian, and I actually don't remember when I found this out. xD I didn't find anyone attractive until I was fifteen, though, so I assumed I was bisexual since I had disinterest in both sexes (I didn't know about asexual at the time), and as I started to notice people... I was really digging on the girls and the extremely feminine boys. Then I realized that... below the belt, boys did nothing for me. At all. Girls, however, did everything.

I've dated basically only girls -- the one exception was that I dated a boy for three days once. I broke up with him when he wanted us to do "things". My first experience was when I was eighteen -- I kissed my then-girlfriend on the cheek.♥ My first lesbian sexual experience, though, was a week before I turned twenty-one, I think.

I didn't freak out when I realized my sexuality -- it just wasn't as issue for me. It was something to "tee-hee!" about at the lunch table but not much else. I didn't tell my parents for a long time. Not until I started getting heartbroken and couldn't stop crying. I told my mom and she told my dad. My mom seemed to understand, but my dad has never acknowledged it. My mom was in her drunken jerkface stage and when she claimed she'd stopped drinking when she hadn't... I threatened to tell my grandmother, who is a very strict Christian. She's my favorite relative and I really respect her. Mom threatened to tell her that I was gay if I told her mom was drinking again. I threatened to call her up and tell her myself, and mom backed down.

A few months ago, right before I was going to go to visit my family for Christmas (parents and grandmother, plus relatives who fly in for that one holiday), mom told me that she told my grandmother. I was floored and pretty upset with her. It was not her right to tell anyone, and her reasoning for it? "I was mad at your grandmother." ...So she permanently ruined my relationship with my grandmother out of spite... for my grandmother. Thanks, mom. Thanks.

Just as I thought, gramma couldn't look me in the eye, and was a lot more distant with me that Christmas. It was a bad one with lots of fighting and I was overall really depressed by the end of it. (My girlfriend went with me and had been planning to before I got outed... which sort of made her presence awkward, and that upset me more.) Then my grandmother called a few days later and apologized for being "busy" (she hadn't been that busy -- she didn't even ask how I was doing during Christmas dinner when conversation was at its lowest peak) and asked how I was doing and wanted to know about where I lived now. She never brought up the sexuality thing, but she did tell me she loves me and as she was telling me, "I'll pray for you," she burst into tears. All and all, that was probably the best reaction I could have gotten from her -- she didn't disown me. I just broke her heart and she thinks she did something wrong with helping raise me. I think the only reason she talks to me at all is because she saw that I was still the same person I always have been and haven't suddenly turned into some outrageously wild... animal, I guess?

The rest of my relatives suddenly knew I had a girlfriend, too, so my mom's obviously been letting her lips run loose when it comes to that subject. My grandmother wouldn't ever tell anyone that who wasn't her church's therapy group.

Later in that trip, my girlfriend was offering to help pay for me going back to college (I really need to finish and my parents won't help at all), and my dad, when he heard, made the comment, "She's a good... friend."

I think that I am pretty lucky to have been accepted as well as I have been, but what my mom did still really hurts me. I wanted my grandmother to die happily not knowing (she's really getting close to that...) and so mom tells her this late in life? Ugh... At least it wasn't on her deathbed, I guess.

I'm gayer than a rainbow-striped unicorn with glitter makeup. And though I am a female homosexual, I absolutely detest the word 'lesbian'. I don't feel that the word accurately describes me. There are certain words associated with 'lesbian': butch, masculine, etc. I'm not overly girly, but I'm not 'butch' either.

Anyways, I've pretty much known that I'm gay my whole life. I never had that 'aha' moment, or that one person that really caught my eye. I just had to let myself say the word 'gay'. The day that I did that freed me, and gave me new responsibilities (such as coming out).

I'm not out to many people in my life. At least, I haven't said anything. I'm pretty sure that they all know, though (except for my fundamentalist grandfather). I'm super active in the LGBTQQIA community in my area (I ran my high school's Gay-Straight Alliance this year). There are days when I wish that I didn't have to come out, that I could just bring a girl home and not have it be a big deal. It's frustrating.

I'm a straight female but I like breasts and cuddling and other closeness with people regardless of gender.

I've dated and had sex with women before when I was in high school but it just wasn't for me. :sweat: